Do you want to reply to the message in seconds?

For a long time before, whether it was friendship or love, I regarded "the second return" as a sign to prove our profound friendship. Whether I am to the other party or the other party is to me, I always judge how deep our feelings are by the speed of returning information.

For those people who I regard as my own, such as lovers and girlfriends, it is false to say that I am not angry when I see the information I sent them delayed. However, even so, I told myself over and over again that they were busy, but they just didn't see it ... giving them reasons for not replying to my message in time. Perhaps, I am more afraid of losing their feelings. For myself at that time, the speed of replying to information is also an important benchmark for them to measure their deep feelings with me. But now, I won't define our relationship so simply, let alone so naive.

Only because you are not confident will you think that the second message is an important embodiment of deep feelings.

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Xiao Qiang and Zhou Xiao are a couple. Both of them are the kind of people who especially pursue freedom, and both pursue the principle of independence. From the beginning of their love, they didn't call and rarely sent messages. When two people are together, there are endless words, but once they are separated, they rarely contact each other. In the end, it is mainly to break up.

Ironically, two people who basically don't send text messages actually broke up by text messages. Xiao Qiang thinks that Zhou Xiao doesn't care about himself, and it's okay not to send text messages for two or three days. Zhou Xiao didn't want to respond. What she thinks is that all you know is that I don't send you messages. Why don't you think you sent me a message?

Not to mention replying to messages every second, they didn't even do the basic greeting? Even if we get it back, what's the point? Two people once loved each other deeply, but they didn't want to take that step. What will happen if they send a message? Nothing will be lost, but no one wants to get out of that step first. I'm not sure if the enemy doesn't move.

Unfortunately, in love, we are never enemies, we are the closest lovers. Unfortunately, you think about your self-esteem and I think about my pride, so they miss each other.

It's not that I don't want to reply to messages every second, but that I want you to send messages first. How ridiculous this theory is.

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Zhou Xiao and Xiao Yang are good friends. They are both studying law. The difference is that Xiao Yang went on to study after graduation and became a lawyer, while Zhou Xiao became an editor. In life, Zhou Xiao sometimes encounters legal problems and always asks Xiao Yang for advice. However, Xiao Yang always can't reply in time. At first, Zhou Xiao wondered if it was a long time since we had contacted each other. Xiao Yang didn't want to talk to himself, but he kept asking Xiao Yang questions. Xiao Yang is a little impatient. However, although Xiao Yang replied late, he always replied. On New Year's Day and May Day, Xiao Yang always asks Zhou Xiao out to play, and their feelings are still very good.

Today, Zhou Xiao still asks Xiao Yang for legal questions and shares his love life and daily dynamics with Xiao Yang. The only difference is that Zhou Xiao will no longer worry about whether Xiao Yang will return in seconds. She understands that their feelings are never measured by the speed of replying to information.

If I have time, I will reply to your message in time, regardless of our feelings; However, even though we have a good relationship, I didn't see your news in time. Sorry, I can't reply in time, but my love for you will not change.

The affection between us is never measured by the speed of replying to information. I love you only because you are you. I can't reply to your message in time just because I didn't see it.