What should I do if my wife refuses to hold hands, answer the phone or return messages?

If the husband and wife have reached this point, it means that the other party really doesn't like you. At this time, if you want to save this marriage, you should at least start by changing yourself. My wife has changed from an innocent girl in the past to what she is now. There is really a big problem, you need to think clearly before you do rescue measures.

1. What does the change of wife's attitude mean?

As a wife, indifference to her husband's words and deeds is very telling. Either the other person changed his mind, or what you did hurt his heart. In short, you have to figure out what the problem is, and then you can make countermeasures. Imagine that the changes in a person's marriage life are actually traceable. What we need to do is to calmly recall the past and see what we have done and neglected. When we ask ourselves and find that we have many shortcomings in our marriage, we have a chance to improve.

Second, repent and turn over a new leaf, and try to regain understanding.

The change of wife's attitude makes you realize that there is a big problem in this marriage. At this time, if you don't want to lose your wife, you should try to change yourself and make your wife's impression of you change, so as to give you another chance. At this time, you should express your change from two aspects: attitude and action, so that the other party can realize that you are not just talking verbally, but really putting it into action, from the previous shopkeeper to the current 24-hour husband. When you are really willing to pay and run this family, I believe your wife will be able to see and feel something.

Third, we must persevere and don't let the other side down again.

If you suddenly change back to the original appearance after saving each other, it will only speed up the pace of your wife leaving you. I suggest that when you pursue your wife again, try to be a diligent and indifferent person. This heat can't be three minutes, it should be a long time. Otherwise, even if the other person is moved by you for a short time, there will still be a day when you will be broken again in the long-term relationship in the future. So I hope that if you really want to repent, don't always care about your personal contribution, but should understand and tolerate your wife more and be a loving husband.