How do women catch a man's heart?

How can a woman catch a man's heart? Love is an equivalent and reasonable exchange, and what you give will be rewarded. Therefore, women should know how to use their own advantages and avoid their own disadvantages. Trying to catch a man's heart is actually very simple. Let's see how a woman captures a man's heart.

How can a woman grasp a man's heart 1 1 and know how to show weakness to a man?

Men are eager to be needed. The more you show weakness, the more men can satisfy their male chauvinism. Weakness is the best compliment. When you are willing to admit your weakness in front of a person, it is already the most inspiring compliment, especially in love, which is precisely the most soft-hearted charm.

Therefore, a woman with high emotional intelligence will know how to show weakness appropriately to stimulate a man's feelings and make him love himself more. In fact, there is nothing wrong with a woman being strong. Being strong in the workplace is easier to be respected, but in feelings, women should learn to show weakness, because no man can accept that the woman around him is too strong and will make him feel that he is not needed.

2. Be considerate of men

Gentle flowers are always men's favorite, which can satisfy men's deep desire for love. Although Gianna Jun's savage girlfriend can bring freshness to men, I know that most men like gentle and considerate women.

A woman with high emotional intelligence knows how to grasp a man's thoughtfulness, and she will exchange her thoughtfulness for a man's gentleness. Such a woman will always know how to assess the situation and know when to be considerate and when to persist, so she can always be considerate, keep herself and maintain a stable relationship.

3. Know how to restrain yourself

Most women are emotional, but sometimes what is needed in love is rational treatment. A woman with high emotional intelligence will know how to restrain herself rationally when necessary. They know when they can be unreasonable, when they must be gentle and generous, upright and upright, and firmly hold the bottom line.

Occasionally, a man will think that you are coquetry to him, and he will choose tolerance, but if a woman is always unreasonable, then a man will inevitably get tired of you. Smart women know how to restrain themselves and give men a considerate feeling at any time, which will make it easier to catch men's hearts.

4. Learn to be independent and have your own thoughts.

I once saw a sentence: "Men will leave, but women are afraid to leave." So if you want to keep a man around and let him know that you can leave him at any time, independence must be put on the agenda.

Women with high emotional intelligence know this best, so they can always make themselves excellent and independent, be a thoughtful woman, attract men's eyes and firmly grasp men's hearts.

5. Know how to praise men

In fact, men have a vain heart. Therefore, women's love must always have some admiration, otherwise men will have no motivation to make progress.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will know this trick, and she will give a man some praise at an appropriate time, which not only satisfies his vanity, but also gives him some motivation to make progress. In this way, men will be deeply attracted to women. Once they fall in love, their hearts will be firmly grasped.

How do women catch a man's heart? 2. Skills to win back a man's heart.

Restraint and coercion

Once a man "cheats", he can be quiet on the surface, but secretly he is in charge of the family's economic power first, and let him pay most of his income on the grounds of family finance; Taking the initiative to enhance feelings with children and forming an alliance with them seems to make him feel isolated.

At the same time, suggest that you already know him, and let him consider the possible consequences for himself. Of course, if you don't really want to make a clean break with him, don't cut to the chase and show your cards. Give him a step, and maybe the leg he stepped out will be taken back.

Psychologist analysis: economy and children are men's weaknesses. As long as he is not deeply involved, he will stop at the brink for these two reasons. Although it is not without consequences, for a man who has betrayed his wife and been unfaithful to his family, even a little punishment is intended to lead him astray. Of course, if we want to last forever, we still need more constructive communication and exchanges.

Secret competition law

Competing with a third party hiding in the dark. Give your husband more consideration and care, such as improving his cooking skills, cooking more dishes that his husband likes to eat and binding his stomach; Learn more about and respect your husband's hobbies, and try to share some fun with him if possible; Give him personal space and make him feel that you are considerate; Or come up with interesting ideas and give him new feelings ... in short, let him be as attracted to you as he just met you. Then he won't have to look for novelty elsewhere.

Psychologists analysis: men's boredom with the inherent relationship between the sexes has its subjective reasons and objective factors. Women's own laziness and numbness to love will also make men feel boring. Although it has not reached the point where we can't tolerate each other, it has gradually drifted away. When you are full of resentment against men's infidelity, you might as well look back on your married life with them. If you are willing to make a change, don't treat it as simply pleasing men. This is your effort for your love and happiness.

Active attack method

Instead of being beaten passively, it is better to take the initiative and ask a third party to speak directly. I believe you will also be curious about what kind of person the other person is. The relationship between women is very delicate, especially in a situation like yours. Although there are bad feelings, as long as one of them takes the first step, it is easy to ease and communicate.

As a woman, the other person may understand your feelings and admire your courage. However, if you are unfortunate enough to meet a third party who is bent on his own way or unreasonable, you may wish to show your courage and domineering. Since there must be a decision, then all three people have to make a choice, and there is no retreat. Of course, as adults, we can be honest with each other and don't turn the ending into a farce.

Psychologist analysis: in the whole incident, you are the most innocent and confident one. If the most powerful and impulsive party takes a rational approach, then everyone can think calmly Where to go, maybe we will know the result after weighing it. The reason to cut the gordian knot is cruel, but it is also the most effective. Don't be afraid that there will be no result, at least you have made the best choice.

How can a woman catch a man's heart? How can she catch her husband's heart?

1, should be crazy in bed.

Female compatriots should reflect, why does your husband like goblins? Why did your husband do something wrong to you? Why are you talented and beautiful, but your husband is out of line? I have always said that there are no people who are sorry for anyone, there is no absolute right or wrong, only people who don't cherish anyone. When your husband makes mistakes, you should also reflect on your own shortcomings. According to my investigation, there are some married women. I don't know whether she is frigid or selfish. When sharing a room, she always just wants to let men contribute under herself. If it is for physical reasons, it can only be below, and men will understand. If the wedding date is understandable, it can be understood occasionally. But if you are a healthy person and are always willing to stay here for a long time, it will be difficult for men not to be tired. For a long time, I have always said that love is both sides, and you women also need to pay. I also need your regards. How do you feel? Men also need your active love.

In order to make the family happy for a long time, spiritual love should always be accompanied by physical sex. Similarly, if the physical sex is unharmonious and unhappy, it will also affect people's spiritual love and alienate people. Of course, female compatriots should also remember that madness should be measured and gradual. Don't let him get used to it or not understand it at once.

Step 2 get dressed

The long road of life, after some women get married, always think, anyway, I am his person, it doesn't matter what I look like. However, the Year of the Loong believes that women should not use simplicity or housework as a shield, but should dress themselves properly. Because men are animals with higher vision. Sometimes it is an exotic animal. Surprising him can make her love you for a long time and reduce the feeling of touching your right hand with your left hand.

If you don't understand a man's heart, you are not a complete woman. Go to the beauty salon when you have time, and there should be some practical cosmetics at home. Men generally don't feel bad about your spending money on appearance. Of course, beauty should be moderate. Don't run to the beauty salon every day, and don't always make yourself look like a butterfly. If you want plastic surgery, you must respect your husband's opinion. Of course, it was said a long time ago that no matter how beautiful a face is, only a beautiful heart will remain unchanged when a hero dies. The beauty of mind is the most important. The appearance is naturally beautiful. But in some cases, why not dress up and surprise your husband?

The beauty of a woman is also fake. Choosing your favorite clothes and accessories can correct and cover up the lack of figure. And it can emphasize and highlight the beauty of your figure, and then make you have confidence in yourself. If the family economy allows, women can buy clothes they like. Make-up is beautiful, charming and confident. Female compatriots, is it right to say long years?

3. Proper and timely tempering.

A woman who never loses her temper is like boiled water, which quenches her thirst but is tasteless. Your husband didn't come home all night and didn't lose his temper. I see. If he doesn't come home late at night for several days, you won't lose your temper. That's excessive tolerance. Blindly forbearing will only make men worse. If you lose your temper and yell at him at this moment, do you still want this home? One is to warn a man who doesn't love his family, and the other is to let him know that you still care about him. Of course, female compatriots should be tempered, and nagging should also be tempered. Don't be unreasonable, and then make men think you are annoying and unreasonable.

4. Give your husband some space appropriately.

Some women like to keep their husbands in prison. The money in the wallet should be controlled, not more than how many yuan? Show him her mobile phone, too, and see if there are any other calls or text messages that she is interested in. No smoking or drinking. No socializing, no surfing the internet, etc. For a long time, I have always said that even if men and women love each other, they should give each other proper space. After all, love is broad, besides love, there are friendship and affection. Trust your husband. Don't think that all women are foxes except yourself. You are a woman yourself, so you should respect women. If you don't respect yourself, how can you do it?

Don't force yourself to change your husband, just laugh it off. If he likes Yao Ming and you like Kobe, he must also like Kobe. He loves watching football, you love watching Korean dramas, and he will fall in love with Korean dramas, and so on. Tired himself makes him tired. Why bother? You might as well change yourself first as change your husband. If you don't want to change yourself, you can stay out of it

Of course, female compatriots remember that men should take proper care of them. It is true that men sometimes unconsciously play together, get drunk, smoke in bed and so on. You lost your temper. If he loves you, men will understand you. Controlling a man is like flying a kite, making him fly high, but holding the thread in his hand! Love is like a magnetic field, not a rope. If you tie him up, you might as well attract him. A rope, men always try to get rid of her. But magnetic fields can give men the illusion of freedom and eternal charm. You are the magnetic field and charm.

5. Respect your husband's family.

I have always said that when you love each other, you should also love everything about each other. Your husband's family also needs your tolerance and trust. Don't go home just because your husband and mother-in-law hug. After all, it was the mother who raised him for decades. In this case, just laugh it off. Sometimes the mother is not particularly at ease with her newly married son, fearing that his son will suffer. Instead of quarreling with her mother-in-law, it is better to touch her with your heart and reassure her. You should also remember that it is normal for a mother-in-law to have a strange temper sometimes. After all, most people are going through menopause. Be more understanding and patient with your mother-in-law. With your sincerity, one day, your mother-in-law will love you as much as her own daughter. Women don't have to fight for everything. After all, they are a family, and a family should be a family that loves each other. Sometimes it's calm for a while. What's wrong with taking a step back?

6. Be a confident and self-respecting woman

Married women are not confident, especially those who have failed in marriage. There are many married women who are not confident. The reasons for their lack of self-confidence are: unsatisfactory marriage and disappointment in the future; No job, no money to spend; I feel that I am not beautiful and do not attract men's love; I feel that I have a bad figure and don't like men. But the long years tell you that no matter what. Everyone should be confident. Be a self-confident, self-loving, self-respecting and self-reliant woman. Don't be afraid of men and don't always condescend in front of your husband. You always have your own charm. I believe you are great, too. Confident women attract men's love! Love as if you have never been hurt; Go to work like you don't need money; Laugh like a girl of 18 years old. For a long time, mentality has decided everything!

Some women say that she devoted herself to this family, but her husband still let her down. Seven points is enough to love your husband, three points is enough to love yourself, family, friends, career and so on. Women should also be kind to themselves. Love wisely and run this family wisely. I firmly believe that as long as you are sincere, your sincerity can always be proved!

7. A thoughtful and gentle woman.

Women should not be too strong. Some women have too strong self-esteem and others are not tough on her. I understand. But it is clearly her own fault, and her attitude is still as tough. She always thinks it is despicable to beg or apologize from others. She will never show weakness to men. Such a woman gives men a headache. A smart woman should know when to be strong and when to be weak. Outsiders are very understanding and refuse to show weakness to their husbands. Do you want your husband to take care of you?

What is femininity is to be gentle and considerate to the person you love. There are two kinds of women who are the cutest. One is the mother type, who takes care of men in every possible way and feels so warm. There is also a younger sister who knows how to behave properly in front of the person she loves. Even shy, timid, so that women and men are easy to play their own personality. Another kind of woman gives men a headache. They don't know what tenderness is and what consideration is. There is also a woman who loves to laugh at her husband, so the blow to marriage should not be underestimated. A blogger once commented on my blog that men are busy outside, and when they come back, they still find their wives cold and feel like they are dead. Female compatriots, be gentle and considerate of your husband, this is not a crime! Men also need your care and coax, but also need the comfort and encouragement of your love.

8. Be able to resist the temptation of this world.

It was said a long time ago that the so-called good woman is able to resist the temptation of this world. There are many men who live long, have courage, are rich and handsome. Although these men have decreased immunity, they may even get excited. For a long time, it has been said that mature people should be rejected by others or rejected by others. Women should dare to say no, everyone has impulses, but we should overcome them rationally. If a woman has an affair, the blow to marriage is undoubtedly fatal.

9. Try to have your own career and intimate friends.

Love is not the whole of our life! When a woman has her own intimate friends and a satisfactory career, she is also easy to be happy. If a woman has her own career, she is not afraid of being looked down upon by others, nor of the hardships of life in the future. She will not rely on anyone, and create wealth by her own hands. Do what you like, just be happy, and don't care too much about income. I'd rather we men were bitter and tired!

Sometimes friendship is strength. It can also give women unlimited happiness. I don't advocate that women prove their charm by having lovers, which will destroy marriage. What is a bosom friend? This is pure friendship love. You have your own good sisters and good buddies. A woman has a confidant of the opposite sex, so that her husband can't underestimate you. Don't think that no one appreciates the yellow-faced woman except him, at least give him a vague sense of crisis. But remember to grasp the discretion and have a clear conscience!

Keep the house tidy.

Home is always a warm place. It also requires careful management between husband and wife. A good wife should be able to cook, wash clothes, clean the room and use some household appliances. If you are tired of holding bowls and chopsticks, it will really destroy love. The neatness and freshness of a home can also reveal the essence of a woman, and whether a woman is hardworking or not is closely related to the order of the home. For mothers with children, you should also do what a mother should do, so that children feel that only mothers are good in the world, and children with mothers are precious.