Husband likes female colleagues.

My husband likes female colleagues, and colleagues are people who work with him. After marriage, my wife is most worried about whether there will be colleagues of the opposite sex approaching, but it is inevitable to meet colleagues of the opposite sex in a company. I have compiled relevant information about my husband's love for his daughter and colleagues for everyone. Let's have a look.

Husband likes female colleagues. Marriage does not allow him to change his mind, and it is impossible for couples to tolerate infidelity. Now that I can find out that my husband has a crush on other women, and he has admitted his own heart, it is enough to show that this marriage has changed. If I want to continue, it must be you. Of course, the decision of divorce is entirely in the hands of a woman like you, and it depends on whether her husband has the possibility of repentance before making a decision!

I can see from what you said that a man still has feelings for you, but he is really as greedy as every man, thinking that he can have your wife at the same time and want to get his favorite female colleague at the same time. However, this kind of thought and desire, as a woman, how can it follow his wishes? So it's best to let him make a choice first and find the decision of divorce in two choices. Just a' husband' with an affair record. Do women have trust in the future? This is also your biggest concern.

In fact, if you really feel that this marriage has no meaning at all, then you should get a divorce. After all, only you know pain or happiness best. Besides, a woman wants a husband, and his heart is entirely his own. Now there is definite evidence of a change of heart or even an affair, just like a woman who eats a green-headed fly and then becomes disgusted with this man. Such a persistent marriage will only make the last two people restless!

Husband likes female colleagues. 2 where is the way for husband and wife to get along? Keep a good sense of boundaries!

A reader confided that my husband likes to buy breakfast for his female colleagues. Shouldn't I be angry?

Yesterday, my husband and I quarreled. The reason for the quarrel was that she happened to find that her husband had bought breakfast for her female colleague. The cause of the incident is that she found it on WeChat several times before, and they also had a record of buying lunch for each other.

Although we can't see any evidence of misconduct from WeChat, is it really good to be with the opposite sex outside marriage?

More importantly, as early as the first time I found out that my husband bought breakfast for my female colleague, she gently told her husband that she didn't want him to do so. As a result, her husband promised to do it again and again.

In this regard, my husband explained that he had to eat by himself. By the way, what can he buy for others? My husband also advocates that others buy it for him.

The reader asked me: as a wife, shouldn't I be angry in the face of such a thing? You know, he hasn't bought me breakfast yet. As a result, he was anxious with me as soon as he said this.

Probably this husband thinks he is right. Is it wrong to help each other?

There is nothing wrong with colleagues helping each other. What is wrong is that you helped each other in the wrong place. You can help each other at work. Please keep a good distance outside work. After all, we are just colleagues, not to mention that you are married.

Marriage needs a sense of boundaries. How many marriages have been ruined by extramarital affairs is that both men and women have not grasped the sense of boundaries.

Buying breakfast and having lunch together may seem like a trivial matter, but it is from these trivial matters that men and women go from strangeness to familiarity to goodwill, thus extending their warm feelings.

We're not saying that you can't have friends of the opposite sex after marriage. Normal social interaction is ok, but for married people, keeping a good distance from the opposite sex outside marriage (especially when you are alone) is an obligation that every married person must abide by, which is also a kind of respect for their partners.

Let me tell you another story.

HR of a company happened to find that a new female colleague was often bullied by other female colleagues in the company and molested by a male colleague with a bad reputation. He helped the female colleague get rid of a fight.

The new female colleagues are very grateful for this, so they often bring some delicious food from home and sneak it to this HR.

In the long run, the two gradually became acquainted.

Later, another man in the company pursued this new female colleague, and the new female colleague also frequently asked him for analysis. The results were analyzed and analyzed, and the two finally analyzed their feelings.

When the married HR realized that she had different feelings for the new female colleague, it was too late to turn back because the feelings in her heart were out of control.

This kind of story is not new, even a bit old-fashioned, but it still happens around us every day.

This is what we mentioned earlier: why marriage needs a sense of boundary, because once you lose the sense of boundary, foreign temptations may beat your marriage at any time and make you unprepared.

It is true that you are a gentleman, and you never want to hook up with others, but this kind of thing really lasts for a long time. No matter how confident you are, you won't do anything against morality, and you can't stand the accident that people are worse than the sky.

You may not intend to cheat, but it is not impossible to move unexpectedly when the right time, place and person are just right for cheating.

Human emotions have always been subtle, and we often only need a trivial accident to make a good impression on someone.

Once the incision is opened, the next 90% will be derailed.

Therefore, never take chances with yourself, thinking that you will never fall in love with someone.

It's really not up to you to decide whether you have feelings for someone.

On the issue of how to observe the sense of boundaries between men and women after marriage, there is a female star who is quite exemplary. This man is Cherrie Ying.

As we all know, Jordan chan is famous for loving, spoiling and fearing his wife. However, Brother Pheasant is still in the entertainment circle, and he is still in the Jianghu. It is natural to have Yanyan Yingying around him, including the woman who sent it to your door voluntarily.

Once, Cherrie Ying found that a female star always sent photos and messages to Jordan chan. In a rage, Cherrie Ying openly challenged the female star on the Weibo and loudly said, "So-and-so, if you send some strange photos and information to Mr. Chen again, I will disclose your name and phone number!" ! If that woman dares to send strange photos or text messages to Mr. Chen again, I will also disclose her name in Weibo.

A Weibo full of gunpowder in Cherrie Ying has won praises and likes from countless netizens.

In China, too many original wives lack the courage to defend their rights and interests as original wives in marriage.

How many husbands dare to step on the boundary of marriage all the time, to be ambiguous, to chat and to be attentive, all because they are sure that their original partners dare not take them.

For example, in the first case at the beginning of the article, the husband bought breakfast for his female colleague. Will the wife be angry?

Obviously, in the husband's view, the wife should certainly not be angry. I just bought breakfast for my female colleague. What's there to be angry about?

But what do men think if their wives often buy breakfast for their male colleagues, or if their male colleagues often buy breakfast for their wives?

Politeness is a man's innate nature, but a measured man will know what kind of hospitality can be paid and what kind of hospitality can't be paid, especially for married men and women, it is better to give less unnecessary hospitality.

Not long ago, a female netizen posted on the Internet that on a rainy day, in order to pick up a female colleague and let his wife go to work, his wife got angry and vomited online.

In this regard, netizens have said that such a husband will not change, will he wait for the New Year?

Some netizens said that her husband likes to take his female colleagues to work so much that he asked her to help him cook, take care of the children, serve the elderly and do housework! Remember that you do these things as a female colleague. If the female colleague refuses, please don't take the rights of other people's wives casually.

Psychologists say that if a person has a clear sense of boundaries, then he/she can realize what should be done and what should not be done at any time and keep his/her responsibilities for this.

Indeed, whether as someone else's husband or a female colleague, you should have a clear boundary ruler in your heart to avoid crossing the line and embarrassing yourself and others.