How to say no to blind date?

If you want to be direct, you can tell each other directly. I feel that they are not very suitable, and they may be more suitable as ordinary friends. This way is simple and lively, and it is not easy to leave room for fantasy for the other party. It is a good choice.

Step 2 entrust others

If it is not convenient for you to bring it up directly, please introduce the middleman you know and tell the other person what you mean indirectly. This kind of situation is generally introduced by relatives, and it is necessary to leave some face for each other out of human feelings.

3. Chatting estranged

This is probably the most common way to refuse in our life. If you are dissatisfied with the other party, you can take a cold attitude when chatting on WeChat, and temporarily ease the relationship through cold treatment to calm the other party down. In addition, we can also expose our own shortcomings in the chat, or point out each other's shortcomings. Although it is also effective, some are not direct enough.

Second, how to refuse the blind date?

1, learn to praise

When rejecting a blind date, even if you are dissatisfied with some shortcomings of the other party, don't just blame it, but learn to praise it. This is the practice of high emotional intelligence. I have expressed my refusal, praising each other's kindness, height and other small advantages, which is also regarded as respect for each other.

Step 2 be frank and direct

When refusing a blind date, the most taboo is to drag your feet and use words as frankly and directly as possible. When chatting with each other, frankly tell the reasons why you think they are inappropriate and directly express your willingness to be ordinary friends. Slowing down will only delay the arrangement between the two sides.

Step 3 leave room

The "leave room" mentioned here is not vague when expressing your mind, but you can't directly attack each other's weaknesses and say their shortcomings in a critical tone in order to achieve the purpose of rejection. Blind date itself is a two-way choice. Leave some room when you refuse, and you won't embarrass the middleman.