Every time I send a message or chat with my girlfriend, she always can't get back in love. What's going on here? What should I do? Ask for advice, thank you …

1, you are not confident enough. Once a woman doesn't return your text messages, you have no idea. You will feel that what you say is meaningless and can't attract women. You will worry about whether a woman doesn't mean that to you, whether she doesn't like you, and whether you will lose her from now on.

2, you are not attractive enough. Attractive men don't care whether a woman can return text messages or not, and they don't care whether she pays enough attention to herself. They think it's a completely different set of things. What they think is whether I should pay attention to this woman. As for whether she will send text messages, it doesn't matter, let alone ask her why she doesn't reply to them one by one.

3, you are not mature enough. When you expect the other person to reply to your message, you expect the other person to give you more attention, especially after you make some efforts (please her, send a message about her and express your love …), the more you expect to get attention. What does this remind women of? Yes, her little nephew, or her little nephew, or the little brother of the next-door neighbor, when she plays with them, they are in high spirits, and when she doesn't accompany them or pay attention to them, they stare at her in tears.

She has taken care of you, and you don't have any more challenges for her. This means that she can do anything for you, not returning your text messages, not answering your phone calls ... you are hot and cold, and you will still follow her ass and expect her text messages.

You can't attract her at all. You have no idea what is attractive to women. You didn't give her what I called emotional attraction at all. To make matters worse, when a woman chooses to be with a man, the most important thing is feeling, which is what I call "attracting emotions". If you can't, the woman won't be with you.