Can I still send messages after breaking up?

Whether you can send a message after breaking up depends on your relationship with your ex and your specific situation. Here are some factors to consider:

1. Reasons for breaking up: If you break up because of some serious problems, such as betrayal, deception, poor communication, etc. Then sending a message may make the situation more complicated and difficult. If your breakup is due to some misunderstanding or just some minor problems, then sending messages may be a better choice.

2. Emotional state: If you still have deep feelings for your ex, sending messages may make it more difficult for you to let go. If you have accepted the breakup and are trying to get out of the emotional shadow, sending messages may make you more troubled.

3. Send content: If you want to send information, you should consider what you want to send. If you just want to express your feelings or apologize, then information may be a good choice. But if you want to save the relationship, then information may not be the best choice, because face-to-face communication may better express your sincerity and determination.

4. Attitude of your ex: If you are not sure whether your ex wants to keep in touch with you, sending messages may be a better choice. But if you already know that your ex doesn't want to keep in touch with you, sending messages may make the situation even more embarrassing and boring.

Generally speaking, if you want to send a message to your predecessor, you should consider your emotional state, the content of the message, the reason for breaking up and the attitude of your predecessor. Before deciding whether to send a message, you should seriously consider your motivation and expected reaction.