Write to yourself who is getting older, and every sentence is poked.

Dear self:

How many ridiculous things happened in those days are now snacks that we should have.

Rivers are thousands of miles away, and there are clouds in Wan Li.

The past is the past. Life is a process of vicissitudes and tempering.

Everyone will get old. It can be said: "unstoppable time, unstoppable years."

But some things are always experienced to understand; Some truths are always understood after a period of time.

About life

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Time tells me that life is a process of crying and walking with a smile.

The long road of life is full of vicissitudes and agarwood. You just face the morning sunshine and get out of your excitement. After all, there is no rehearsal in life, and every second is live.

Time tells me: Enjoy life and don't save the best for last.

Observe the beauty around you, such as walking with relatives and wives, traveling ... learn to live in the present and cherish the present, instead of living in the past or immersed in the future.

About health

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Time tells me that health is the greatest wealth.

Wealth and splendor, foreign things; Peace and health are the foundation. Many things are really precious only when we are about to lose them. Emotion is, so is health.

Time tells me: learn to control your emotions.

Traditional Chinese medicine often says: too much happiness and sorrow, anger hurts the liver, sadness hurts the lungs, thinking hurts the spleen, and fear hurts the kidney. The human body is the foundation of everything. One of the best ways to keep healthy is to control your emotions.

About mentality

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Time tells me: keep self-esteem and self-love.

The so-called self-esteem, that is, self-affirmation and self-identity; The so-called self-love is to open your heart and build love. Therefore, we should be firm and confident and treat life with a positive and optimistic attitude. Never have the idea of "getting old is useless".

Time tells me: it's time to put it down, put it down.

Learn to look down on something and put it down bravely; Some people have learned to be indifferent and relaxed. We don't have much time left when we reach middle age. Say goodbye to the past and cherish the present.

About family

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Time tells me that your life partner is everything to you.

How many days and nights have my wife and I spent together, and how many seasons have passed. In the future, we will continue to help and encourage each other. Although life has wind, rain and fog.

Time tells me: don't engage in snacks with children.

They are all adults. Try to trust them and take care of their small family. This does not mean that the heart is big. As we all know, everything has duality, and sometimes there is no right or wrong.

What you think is wrong may be right in the eyes of others; What you think is right is not necessarily the most appropriate. So make less decisions for your children and talk about your own suggestions at most. This is a respect for them and a lubricant for family harmony.

About friends

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Time tells me: there are not many friends, just be sincere.

A writer once said: the most beautiful relationship between friends lies in icing on the cake; The most precious thing is to send charcoal in the snow; A good friend is like good tea, which is light but not astringent, fragrant but not tangy, and slowly floats in like water. After so many years, we must cherish these friends who grow old together.

Time tells me: Have several hobbies.

Whether it is piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, poetry, wine and tea, or sports. With their company, every day is particularly fulfilling.

About morality

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Time tells me: cultivate the character of tolerance and gratitude.

Tolerance is a realm, and gratitude is a virtue. When you have a tolerant and grateful red heart, you will find that life is more interesting every day. Don't you want to be an "interesting person"?

Time tells me: grasp the discretion.

There is an old saying: "Stand at 30, don't be confused at 40, know your destiny at 50, listen at 60, and walk at 70 without overstepping the bounds". That is to say: when people reach the age of 60, personal character cultivation can make what others say not ugly; After seventy, as long as you don't violate the rules, you can do whatever you want.

I hope that when I am really old, I will spend the rest of my life with a young heart and enjoy my old age carefree.

This letter to your aging self is a great encouragement to you.