How to correctly guide and educate 16-year-old son

16-year-old son is in a rebellious period-how to guide and educate correctly is very important. You can maintain better interaction and communication with your teenage son through SMS and mobile phone. However, parents should also be temperate and behave themselves, so that the ideas and demands conveyed will be more effective. I believe that through the right way, I can better help my son cultivate a sound personality and habits.

Show concern and support

You can say, "Son, I believe you can do better. Mom and Dad will always support you! " Information like this, expressing your concern and support. This can give him more sense of security and self-confidence.

Proper supervision, making rules.

You can monitor his mobile phone activities and make clear regulations on the time and content of mobile phone use. For example, it is limited to 2 hours a day and is not allowed to be used late at night. This can avoid indulging in the internet and affecting study and life.

Timely communication and response

When your son sends a message, you should reply in time and keep good communication with him. This will make him feel that you are always by his side, and encourage him to express his thoughts and pour out his troubles.

Enhance interaction and transmit positive energy.

You can send your son some meaningful but relaxed and interesting information on a regular basis, such as inspirational quotations and idiom stories, and have an interactive chat with him. This will make your relationship closer and give him a positive outlook on life and values.

Actively guide and avoid blame.

Guide your son in a positive way and avoid too much blame and command tone. You can send a message saying, "son, make persistent efforts, I believe you can do better!" " "... this kind of encouragement and expectation will play a better incentive role.

Act according to your own rules and limit yourself.

As parents, we should set an example in using mobile phones. Don't use it too often, especially don't bend your head to play with your mobile phone for a long time. This can set an example and let the son develop good habits.