Is it disrespectful to reply by SMS?

As the president of the English Association in my sophomore year.

Sophomore students have just started school, so they have to sweep the floor to recruit new students and inject fresh blood into the community. Interview is a very important link. Before the interview, we should send a message to every small fresh meat who participates in the interview. Only five or six people helped to send messages to three or four hundred people, which shows the great workload.

At the end of the message, I specially marked the words "Please reply when you receive it".

After sending the text message, people responded one after another, and all the replies were marked on the form. Two hours before the interview that day, I called people who didn't reply to the news, and some politely said, "Senior, I forgot."

Some said angrily, "I know, just look at it."

I thought to myself, I didn't look back when I saw it. I wanted to spit out those words and then take them back.

Some don't even answer the phone at all, for no reason.

For the latter two types of people, I will ask some tricky questions during the interview. It's not that I don't respect others, but that this "respect" is mutual.

We only have three days for interview and recruitment, so time is tight. It is also necessary to set up the classroom according to the number of interviews, determine the number of interviews each time, and discuss them.

It may only take you a few seconds to reply to the message, but for many people, a few seconds may be tens of minutes for us.

Isn't it better to understand each other?

I have met this kind of person, who has time to post in the circle of friends and get high in other groups, but has no time to reply to me with a serious message.

You may have met the kind of person who always likes to put it off until the end when handing in a material. I've met it.

At the end of the term, I was busy collecting my classmates' final summary reports, and I sent messages to those who didn't hand them in. Meet at the gate of the teaching building at ten o'clock. From ten o'clock to ten twenty, it is still raining in winter.

I couldn't help but send a message to the other party and waited for five minutes without returning. Only to see each other have been very active in other groups during that time.

I called three times in a row and hung up every time.

Finally, I was really angry and sent a message: "I'll wait another five minutes, or you take your own risk."

Five minutes later, he handed me the form and muttered, "Don't you just hand in a form?" As for being angry? "Then he left.

I was shocked and didn't know what to say. I haven't contacted this person since.

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Another class is your friend, and the relationship is still very good.

I once sent a message to the other party saying that I would have dinner together after class and waited for more than ten minutes.

Then when I brushed my circle of friends, I saw him send a dynamic.

I was still impatient and asked him why he didn't return my message.

He said to me, "I thought you understood."

I don't understand. I really don't understand. A good relationship has nothing to do with whether you can return my message or not. How do I know what you think if you don't return my messages? If you don't eat, I have other plans

Even if you answered the words "hmm", "oh" and "ok" that I hate most, I know what you mean.

Between friends, play less games that you chase after me. Isn't it better to play directly?

I have a habit of reading information on QQ and WeChat before going to bed every night. If I don't reply, I will reply. I don't blame you if you don't look back at the information, but you should develop the attitude of looking back at the information.

Don't say that we have such a "blx" just because we don't reply to the news.

You know, when you say "OK", "Got it" and "Received", you may mean waiting for a day's work to explain to others.

I'm not saying that you have to reply to every message. For information that must be returned, reply as soon as you see it. For those who have no nutrition and you really don't want to reply, such people can be directly shielded.

Returning information is an attitude. Think about it, if you send someone a message and the other person deliberately doesn't reply, will you feel better?