What should I do if I find intimate information left by other opposite sex on my lover's mobile phone?

1, why does she text too many friends of the opposite sex every day? I can't be angry ... What's wrong with me?

A: 90% of men can't do it either. This is definitely a sign that the woman is immature.

2. Why can't she get in touch with the boy who is chasing her classmate? I'm not angry ... Do I really love her?

A: You love her very much, so you care about her. And you don't want other men to enter her mind. I can see that you love her in the heart-to-heart exchange. It's a pity that you have encountered disunity at present. Reunification will take time, but it is very likely that if it is not unified, the two will break up.

3. Why do I get angry every time I see a lot of short messages sent to her by others on her mobile phone ... Am I too narrow-minded?

A: I can ignore other women, but not my girlfriend. But at present, your girlfriend is obviously immature. You might need to give her some privacy. Suggestion: As long as the message content is not ambiguous, you can temporarily accept normal communication. I mean temporarily, don't let normal communication transition to ambiguity. Once there is an ambiguous message, you must have a clear principled position. This is also the charm of a man.

4. Why do I feel that if I can't be a lover, I can't be a friend and ask her to keep a certain distance from those who have chased her, although she won't do what I ask ... Is there something wrong with my personality?

A: There is nothing wrong with your personality. But as you can see, your thoughts are not unified at present. Personally, you are right and should feel this way. But in terms of behavior, if you can't stop it, you might as well let it go.

Look on coldly and assess the situation.

Arguing will only push her into the hands of other men.