Liang Lei basks in Wang Leehom's short message.

Virtue is not worthy, unconditionally conniving at his son.

According to the data, we know that Wang Leehom was born in a family of schoolmasters, both of whom were schoolmasters, and their parents were rare intellectuals. His father, Wang Dazhong, graduated from the Department of Medicine of Taiwan Province Provincial University and is an authoritative doctor. It's a pity that doctors should have both ability and political integrity, but father Wang wrote a letter in the early morning of 19, unconditionally supporting his son, and revealed that the most regrettable thing in my life was to let him into the house.

However, when we read this handwritten letter carefully, we found that it was full of criticism and ridicule for the former daughter-in-law, and we didn't realize the mistakes made by our son at all, let alone apologize. As the saying goes, "it takes two hands to shoot", even if the former daughter-in-law is wrong, the son should be responsible. What's more, the ex-daughter-in-law's revelations are all real hammers, and netizens can see that how can Dad Wang be deceived by his family?

Moral unworthiness and unconditional connivance do not mean loving children, but making them make mistakes again and again.

Lack of companionship and neglect of son's psychological construction

Judging from the content of this news, Mr. Wang's psychology is obviously flawed. Why can't a handsome star with a successful career and a happy family resist "soliciting prostitutes"? However, prostitutes usually target older and plump women, which makes people think of "lack of maternal love" and "making up for childhood defects". It is said that the second child in the family is the most easily overlooked child. It is very likely that Mr. Wang did not fully feel the love of his parents when he was a child, so that "it will take a lifetime to heal the wounds of his childhood."

Judging from Mr. Wang's final response, he actually made efforts and tried. He took his wife to see a psychiatrist, trying to run the family well. But unfortunately, maybe his parents hurt him too much when he was a child, or maybe his self-control was not strong enough, but he failed to get out of his inner predicament after all. At this point, Mr. Wang's parents really need to reflect. Do they really take care of the eldest son and the youngest son and ignore the second son?

Lack of companionship is a lifelong pain for a child, and it is more likely to be a shadow that can't be shaken off for a lifetime.

Strong control, manipulating his son's life and even his life.

Judging from Miss Li's reaction, she sympathized with Mr. Wang at first. At the age of 37, she sympathized with him, but she still couldn't make a decision for herself. She rescued her lover from the mire in 1920 and helped him fight for independence and freedom, but later she found herself a pawn. These words actually confirm the rumor that Mr. Wang is Ma Baonan from the side, and let us see his life, even his life manipulated by his parents.

Mr. Wang's parents don't know if they think it's wrong. They should not interfere too much in their son's life and career, but let him run and face it alone. Although my son's career is very successful, there is a huge interest temptation, but the great poet Ji Bolun told us a long time ago that your child is not your child. They are children born of life's desire for themselves. They came into this world with your help, not because of you. They are by your side, but they don't belong to you.

Controlling parents and children by fate is doomed to be a tragedy.

Now, just as mother Zhu was about to send a message, I saw that Mr. Wang finally sent an apology message. But between the lines, we still see his reluctance: "Since we are divorced, it is meaningless to argue about the past", which seems to be trying to clear up our past mistakes; "Jing Lei, we have to take care of and raise three children together" seems to be threatening the woman with children again; "I must have mishandled this matter" seems to be trying to explain that I am not the only one who made a mistake. But at least he apologized publicly. I hope Mr. Wang Can will return to his prodigal son and not change his money. I also hope that Mr. Wang's parents will have a good understanding of the profound meaning of this sentence: "If the child does not teach, the father has made a mistake."