What’s going on with Liu Yan’s Bridesmaid Gate (only then did I realize how harmful the Bridesmaid Gate was to Liu Yan)

When Liu Yan was a guest on "Youth Travels", Liu Yan cried very sadly when talking about love.

It turns out that she once had a very sweet love. Just when she thought she would get married, the other party broke up with her.

"It was only a month after he broke up that he found a new girlfriend."

At that time, she thought her boyfriend was bored with her because he spent too much time with her.

As a result, less than a month after the breakup, her boyfriend found a new girlfriend, but she has never been able to find her soul mate.

In December 2021, Liu Yan said poignantly in an interview: "I was very good at blind dates when I was in my thirties, but now no one is willing to go on a blind date with me."

In the video, Liu Yan is wearing a slim black sweater and a high ponytail, looking very elegant.

Unfortunately, when people see her, they will only say: "Isn't this the actress with big breasts?"

"Big breasts" has been her nightmare for half her life.

As a result, no one remembers the roles she has played and the programs she has hosted since her debut more than 20 years ago.

Even being bullied was caused by her "big breasts".

Everything was not her fault, but in the end Liu Yan suffered a bitter consequences.

This time, let’s talk about Liu Yan! 0 First love meets a scumbag

Liu Yan was born in an ordinary family in Hunan in 1980. He had an older brother who was very favored.

Although the material things at home are not very good, the family is very warm.

When Liu Yan grew up, he went to Guangzhou to study alone, where he met his first heart-breaking love.

When Liu Yan once talked about her feelings on a program, she used a sentence: "If you don't get scum, how can you be the mother of your children?"

In fact, Liu Yan is a very dedicated person in private and rarely falls in love.

The reason why I rarely talk about it is because I met a scumbag before I debuted.

When Liu Yan was studying in Guangzhou, he met many suitors because of his good figure.

At that time, Liu Yan's thoughts were still stuck in the old-fashioned education of his parents. Faced with the pursuit of others, he was frightened and at a loss.

Later, when more and more people confessed their feelings, Liu Yan began to think to himself, what kind of boy did he like?

But she didn't feel attracted to these boys who were pursuing her at all.

Until one day, I met a clean little boy.

The other party wants to pursue Liu Yan, but is very timid.

But Liu Yan was tempted. When she saw the little boy, she couldn't help but want to get close to him.

Liu Yan actually doesn’t know why he likes the other person. Maybe it’s because the other person is good-looking, or maybe because the other person can play basketball.

After the boy confessed his love to her, Liu Yan did not refuse, but tried to fall in love.

When they first started dating, the boy was very nice to her.

Occasionally I will bring her snacks and drinks, and I will always be there when she needs care.

Liu Yan was very moved and thought about staying with him for the rest of his life.

However, people's hearts can change, especially the hearts of scumbag men, which are easier to change.

After falling in love with her boyfriend for a period of time, Liu Yan found that the other person was not as sweet as before.

Every time she was angry, the other party would no longer coax her.

Liu Yan took the initiative to find her boyfriend and asked him if he had changed his heart.

She originally thought that the other party would explain, but unexpectedly her boyfriend just shook his head and left her.

Liu Yan looked at the back of the man who left without hesitation, tears streaming down his face.

A person is tired and returns home alone.

Later, her boyfriend came to her to admit her mistake, but at the same time he also borrowed money from her.

Thinking that her boyfriend was truly repentant, Liu Yan lent her the few living expenses she had left to him.

Liu Yan, whose family is not rich, does not have much money on her. After lending it to her boyfriend, she can only starve every day and eat some steamed buns to satisfy her hunger.

Unexpectedly, her boyfriend got back together with her and was just using her.

Once while going shopping, Liu Yan saw her boyfriend talking and laughing with a girl.

Liu Yan thought he had seen it wrong, so he followed him all the way and found that it was indeed his boyfriend.

She screamed and cried like crazy, wondering why the other party betrayed her.

What a pity, how could a separated boy hear her cry.

First love is full of pain.

Even if he mentioned it many years later, Liu Yan still couldn't help but say that the other party was a scumbag.

Liu Yan, who is very strong-willed, has since focused on his studies and career and rarely talks about relationships.

Because there is always a thorn in her heart called "scumbag".

Just thinking about it makes her heartache. 0The ups and downs of his career due to his "big breasts"

After Liu Yan graduated, he worked as a nurse in a hospital, and the salary was only enough to support his livelihood.

But my mother was diagnosed with cancer, and all the family’s savings had been exhausted.

The expensive treatment fees undoubtedly made her life difficult to breathe.

In order to get money, she did not hesitate to use her "proud advantage" to sign up for beauty pageants.

Although she did not get the coveted bonus, God gave her a new path: to debut as an actress.

After she entered the industry, her first job was to be a host.

At that time, she had no professional qualities and asked to learn many times.

But the leader interrupted her thinking with a direct sentence: "No need to speak, just dress nice and stand on the stage."

Liu Yan knew that the boss just wanted her to be a vase and attract attention with her figure.

However, she is diligent and motivated, but she is not willing to keep making vases. Instead, she works hard to learn hosting skills.

Every time after recording a program, Liu Yan would find an excuse to stay on the stage for a while to see how others hosted.

When you encounter something you don’t understand, you will take the initiative to ask and ask for solutions.

She is sincere and has suffered countless blows, but she still has not lost her dream to become a truly excellent host.

But her proud figure has caused ups and downs in her career.

Some people can always dig out Liu Yan’s impressive highlights from all angles.

The industrious little bees may not be able to collect pollen, and may even be pierced by thorns.

Liu Yan, who was struggling to get rid of her impressive figure, received the second piece of bad news in her life.

In 2008, Liu Yan was diagnosed with "fibroma".

I have the advantages that all women envy, but now I have to have them removed.

This made Liu Yan extremely painful, so she made a bold decision to take the photo shoot for the magazine "Menswear".

Big breasts are something you are born with. If you want to lose them, why not say the best goodbye.

But unexpectedly, fibroids are benign. The most beautiful farewell also turned into a sharp sword that pushed her to the forefront.

The higher you push, the stronger the wind and rain.

While her popularity was rising, all kinds of unpleasant words and harassment also appeared.

In an interview with People, agent Zhang Jianzhong once revealed that his mobile phone number was posted on social media by Liu Yan.

As a result, someone mistakenly thought it belonged to Liu Yan. Later, this number received thousands of teasing and affectionate messages.

Behind these messages are various insults to Liu Yan.

Therefore, whatever she does becomes hype.

When Liu Yan was walking on the red carpet, she unfortunately fell to the ground.

After sending out the news immediately, no one comforted her, but the public opinion was one-sided.

Everyone thought she fell to the ground on purpose to draw attention to her figure so that she could stand out.

By the time Bao Beier got married in 2016, so many bridesmaids were not teased. She was the only one who was taken advantage of by the groomsmen and thrown into the water in the name of a joke.

Although Jia Ling blocked her, she managed to escape.

But afterwards, instead of receiving an apology, she was met with an outcry.

Someone accused her: "It's not because you have big breasts that you get teased."

Some people complained: "Liu Yan just hypes himself up, for fear that he will not become popular."

All kinds of unpleasant words were heard endlessly, and she immediately apologized afterwards.

But this incident had a great impact on her, causing her love and career to be destroyed. 0Betrayed by love again after being a bridesmaid

Liu Yan only dated her second boyfriend more than ten years after entering the industry.

The other party is an outsider. She has never made it public because she thinks about the long-term relationship.

For Liu Yan, she was already in her 30s at that time and wanted to get married.

But love is a matter between two people, but marriage is a run-in between two families.

People of the parents' generation have very strict standards for their daughter-in-law, who must be virtuous and generous, and know how to care for their husbands and raise their children.

As for Liu Yan, probably no one is involved.

The first time her boyfriend’s mother saw Liu Yan, she was quite unhappy with her.

The bottom line is that she is beautiful and looks like a restless girl.

Liu Yan didn't know that it was because of her appearance and figure that she was disliked by the other party, and she thought it was because she didn't do a good enough job.

After falling in love, her boyfriend’s mother came to disturb her life many times.

For example, after Liu Yan finished work, she planned to go on a date with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend’s mother asked her to come to her house to cook.

After working hard to buy groceries and prepare the meals, her boyfriend’s mother dismissed her with just a “not bad”.

This silly girl is still full of joy, thinking that her boyfriend’s mother is accepting her step by step.

In fact, the other party just didn’t want Liu Yan to have more contact with his son.

Later, her boyfriend’s mother began to torture Liu Yan continuously.

When she goes to her boyfriend's house, she has to mop the floor, clean the house, and tidy up the messy sofas, tables, etc.

But her boyfriend’s mother didn’t say a nice word about her. Instead, she disliked her for not being quick at work.

The most fearful thing in love is not enduring the pain silently, but that while enduring it, no one can see it and no one can support her.

This relationship survived for five or six years with her hard work.

Her boyfriend also proposed to her, and she mistakenly thought that she would spend the rest of her life with him and that her years of hard work would not be in vain.

Unexpectedly, after Liu Yan experienced the bridesmaid incident, the storm was still calming down, and she received another breakup call from her boyfriend.

One person is thinking about getting married, and the other is already thinking about escaping.

After hearing this, Liu Yan was confused. She didn’t even know what she had done wrong. To be treated like this.

It’s time to talk about marriage, only to end up breaking up. How cruel for her.

In her memories, there were only scenes of her and her boyfriend getting along warmly, not a single quarrel, and she did not even have a disagreement with her boyfriend's mother.

Even so, he was still thrown away.

At the time of the breakup, she was busy with her career and sorting out her emotions.

After she calmed down, Liu Yan learned that her ex-boyfriend had found a new love less than a month after they broke up.

This news once again shattered her fragile heart.

Perhaps, the other party has changed his mind and proposed to break up, just seeing that the time is ripe.

Love failed, and Liu Yan worked hard in her career. However, the bridesmaid scandal led to too many scandals, and her resources were cut off by the company for a while.

Those days were the most difficult days for Liu Yan.

The best way to forget a painful past is to find a new path.

Liu Yan, 37, embarked on a blind date after experiencing a career trough and love betrayal.

But there are many people who are willing to meet her, and there are also many people who want to become friends with her. However, when it comes to love, there is nothing further.

Liu Yan is very conservative about love, only because her external advantages are too strong and cover up all her advantages. 0 becomes an outstanding actor

When life falls into a trough, it is too difficult to get up.

But Liu Yan stubbornly grew that green leaf from the gap.

Three years can change many people, such as Liu Yan, who has transformed from a scandal heroine into a powerful actor.

In 2019, the movie "The Beneficiary" was released, and Liu Yan's acting skills shocked countless people.

Like the character she plays, she finds her own light step by step from the bottom.

The label of her proud figure was completely torn off by her, leaving only her superb acting skills.

Later, Liu Yan tried to expand his learning circle and entered the cross talk world.

The impressive imitation made the audience laugh continuously.

By 2022, Liu Yan will participate in the Beijing Spring Festival Gala and perform in sketches.

Only at this moment did people see the side of her under her proud figure.

In an interview, when the host asked her about her views on acting, Liu Yan said something touching.

"Performing is a natural process, not a state of trying to climb to the top."

Diligence can make up for her shortcomings, and she, who did not come from a major, finally embarked on a glorious path.

While the resources are poor, it also gives her more time to think about life, so she will delve into the real way of acting.

Now when Liu Yan is mentioned, in addition to his good figure, he is also labeled as a "powerful actor".

It's a pity that she has been on blind dates so many times over the years, but she has never been successful.

She turned 41 in the blink of an eye, and in her words: "Blind dates have become even more difficult."

Behind this understatement is countless pain and suffering.

Now, the "Bridesmaid Gate" has been going on for six years, and it has hurt Liu Yan too deeply.

Don’t dare to love, don’t believe in love.

After surviving the crisis, Liu Yan’s career finally became popular, but his love was still empty.

Life is full of gains and losses. It is a great regret not to be able to find a close person.

But living a wonderful life alone may not be a bad way.

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