Should I give up the slow-moving Libra?

I once liked a Libra man who worked in computer, but he was always tepid. He basically replied to all my messages, but only slowly. He always seems to be thinking about something, and he can't figure it out! It's really frustrating to say that Libra is a slow-heating person on the Internet! Sometimes I really want to give up, because I am not good at taking the initiative, so I want to keep the girl's reserve. Everybody tell me what to do. 12**29: If you like it, you should be tolerant. Love is not reserved. Sometimes too reserved, afraid of falling prices, will eventually lose happiness. 34** 18: There is no absolute initiative and passivity, as long as you can feel the warmth in your heart, it is OK. 34** 18: The sense of rhythm is inconsistent, just a trivial matter. 60**79: Respect your own ideas, you already want to give up. 27**50: Ask him directly before making a decision. 52**53: If I like you, it won't be like this. Needless to say, even a chronic patient will not do this. He certainly doesn't like you. 12**29: Most men in science and engineering are Mu Mu, and they all like to do things in a down-to-earth manner, rather than pay lip service. My husband is addicted to online games. It's also my responsibility to talk about it. I am a game developer, and I like playing games at ordinary times. I also teach my husband the online games he is playing now. I didn't expect him to be addicted to it. He plays it almost every night when he comes home, until after 1 1, not to mention on weekends. I couldn't stand it before I got married. I told him not to play every day, but every other day. He agreed, and a few days later, he made the same mistake. We got married last year, and a month after marriage, he started playing games every day. I always see him playing games when I come home from work every day. It's boring to watch a disc alone, and I fell asleep after watching it. This is how I spend almost every day. I really don't know how to persuade this man. I can't be soft or hard. How can I make him accept my heart? 33**27: The game you developed finally hurt you. 40**84: He will understand when he goes back to his mother's house for a month. Let's treat it cold. 40**84: He must have felt the difference between real life and games. 63**52: Then stick to it and fight. If not, break up! 1 1** 16: Ask him who is more important, the game or you. You know, you can't save him, only he can save himself. 33**27: It's like a game asking him to be a wife. 63**52: Play with him, "See who plays better"! Fight poison with poison! 1 1** 16: haha, fight poison with poison. I was just about to say, buy another computer, two people face it. 1 1** 16: Two people can find some leisure ways to play together, such as watching TV together. 15**28: You know he can't adapt to you, so try to adapt to him. Otherwise, we have to break up. 33**27: Cut the network cable. 40**84: As soon as the network cable is cut, people go to the Internet cafe. 12**79** 10: He may be escaping from the pressure of real life. Let's have a good talk with him, see what the problem is, and then help him through this difficulty. 40**84: Friendly reminder, you can't play online games once in a while, you will know when you play. Boyfriend said that only by living together can we get to know each other. I haven't known him long, so he proposed cohabitation, saying that only cohabitation can get to know each other, and this is popular now. I am a very traditional person. I don't know each other. How can we live together without feelings? I refused. So he broke up. I really don't understand. Is this really popular now? If you want to get married, you must live together first, okay? 12**29: If we break up because we don't want to live together, then this man doesn't have to. 40**84: Well, only by living together can we find out a person's real shortcomings and whether they can really live with each other. Cohabitation is really important in today's times. 94**37: There is nothing wrong with living together. It's much better than finding out that two people are not suitable after marriage and then divorcing. 15**28: But cohabitation is also based on the fact that two people have certain feelings and want to be together for life. 60**79: Neither side understands that everything is wrong. 79** 10: I feel that he is coming for your body. Is this person reliable? 63**52: Don't live together until you know each other. Maybe he is just a lovely boy! It was introduced that I have known this girl for more than two months, and we don't see each other often. In the first month, we got along well. After New Year's Day, she always said that she was busy and didn't come to see me. I went to her house and she didn't want to go. Now I'm the only one calling and texting her, and she never takes the initiative. I am very helpless. I asked her, and she said to look around. I'm really tired and I don't know what to do. 53**07: She is telling you with actions that you are not suitable. 1 1** 16: Then look around like her and the results will come out. 40**84: Only two months. Go on with your next blind date and don't break up with any of them. Try it, one by one, and everyone can be friends until it suits you, so you can choose one. 54**54: If you are United, you will come, but if you are not, you will be scattered. What do you mean, pulling each other? 60**79: She is politely rejecting you and wants to give up. 63**52: Let's talk about dating for a while. It's only been two months. You can take the initiative. You are a man! If your relationship doesn't change within a month, break up! You're not fit! 33**27: If I am not mistaken, she is using delaying tactics. Be sensible, not too hot. 94**37: It is obvious that she doesn't love you, but there is no suitable object at present, so I will keep you first. 15**28: Maybe you are like a chicken rib to her. 40**84: Actually, I don't want to give each other a space for understanding. 79** 10: If you really care about her, then try to pursue 40**84: Well, it is also helpful for you to try to be a fool and be cheated once. How can you tell right from wrong without being stupid?