How to refuse the pursuit of married men

First of all, we should thank each other for their concern and pursuit, and make it clear that we don't want to further develop our relationship. The following are specific suggestions:

1. Express your position clearly. You can express your thoughts euphemistically, for example, "I deeply appreciate your love for me, but we have separate lives and I don't want to destroy your family." This will make the other party clearly understand your attitude and position.

2. Don't give the wrong signal to the other party. Avoid leaving hints in words and actions that may be interpreted as consent. You can convey your position by avoiding being alone with each other.

3. Avoid directly attacking and hurting each other's feelings. Rejection is a difficult process, but try to let the other person know that you don't want to further develop this relationship, and at the same time try to maintain the dignity of the other person.

If the other person hurts your feelings unintentionally, you can tell him and need him to know that you have been hurt. You can also tell him that you want him to stop chasing you and keep his distance from you.

If the other party keeps harassing you, you can take corresponding measures. For example, tell him that you don't want to be disturbed during work, or simply refuse to communicate further. If you really encounter the malicious words of the other party, or even cause threats or harassment, you can seek the assistance of the public security organs to solve the problem.