China's parents urged marriage: The children's business is my business, and everything I do is for your own good. Is this really good?

I think it depends. Moderate marriage urging behavior actually helps children find a partner as soon as possible. After all, many people are the kind of people who don't move without urging! But most parents are actually urging marriage excessively, and the word urging marriage is really a hot word in recent years. Today's young people, on the one hand, have to face the pressure of fast-paced work, on the other hand, they have to face soaring housing prices. They want to go home and relax during the Spring Festival, but they are still chased by their elders. Think about it, it's really terrible.

To tell the truth, many parents in China are urging their children to get married quickly, so that they should not be too picky when dating, but few parents really care about whether their children are really happy after marriage. China people's concept of marriage is "only advise marriage, not divorce". As long as it is marriage, even if it means marriage, it is also happy; But if you want to divorce after marriage, even if it is domestic violence, most parents will not agree.

Personally, I don't approve of the act of urging marriage. Let's take women for example. We all know that the society is developing rapidly, the status of women has been greatly improved, and they have enough economic strength to protect their lives. Many people have been single, or choose to be single directly, after waiting for unmarried people for many years. Children can choose to be single, but parents' thoughts still remain in the last century. In the eyes of parents, nothing is more humiliating than having an older unmarried daughter at home.

We all know that China has a saying since ancient times, so even if a girl marries a violent man, she can only follow him. Otherwise, the divorce will lose her parents' face. People in China have a "cleanliness addiction". Most parents can't accept a divorced woman. Even if this woman is excellent, even if this woman is divorced because of domestic violence, in their eyes, these are "second-hand goods", aren't they? It is precisely because of these consequences that we should be more cautious before getting married.