How to treat my son's birthday? My ex-husband refused to enter the house and received 300,000 text messages six months later.

I divorced my ex-husband Xue Song because he had someone else. I couldn't stand the high loyalty to my feelings, so I filed for divorce. Xue Song is still a proud and competitive man. He chose to leave his clean home, and then I took my son Pinkley to live in the house where we always lived.

Originally, my mother-in-law moved in with us after my son was born, and didn't leave until the child was 6 years old. After seeing our divorce, the old man moved back to his hometown no matter what he said. In fact, for so many years, I have regarded my mother-in-law as my mother. Even if she is willing to stay here, I am willing to support her. Because my mother's family has no parents, and for so many years, since I entered their family, my mother-in-law took me as her own daughter and took care of me. Even when I divorced her son, my mother-in-law stood by me from beginning to end. She also thinks that my ex-husband went too far and hurt me. She said that she also supported me to divorce him and felt that her son was sorry for me. At that time, my mother-in-law said that Xue Song and I were not husband and wife, but in my heart, she would always be my mother and Pinkley's grandmother, so the old man didn't need to go home, but she refused, saying that we had no legal relationship, and she felt ashamed to stay here.

Two years have passed. Six months ago, on my son's eighth birthday, my mother-in-law came. I haven't seen that old man for a long time. I think she is haggard and aging a lot, which is very distressing. She told me that she was unlucky, her son didn't live up to expectations, and such a good daughter-in-law left me and listened silently. Although we haven't met since the divorce, I also sent a message to my ex-husband, hoping that he could come. After all, my son also misses his father. But until dinner in the evening, my ex-husband didn't reply. After it was completely dark that day, it was about 9 o'clock. I heard a knock at the door and opened it. I saw my ex-husband standing outside the door. I didn't say anything, just opened the door and motioned for him to come in. He smiled, but he didn't mean to move his feet in. He just said to me, "Is my son okay?" I said it doesn't matter. He fell asleep. He said, that's good, and then turned and left alone.

I think he seems to be depressed a lot this time. Maybe his life and love are not as beautiful as he imagined, but I didn't care at that time. I heard that after my mother-in-law returned to her hometown, she was forced to make a living and went to the kindergarten in the town to cook and clean. Even her own son was kept secret, so I didn't intend to let her leave that time. In the past six months, I just let my mother-in-law live together and said that she was busy with work and no one took care of the children. It's pitiful that Pinkley is neglected. My mother-in-law was persuaded by me, and she gradually got over it and stayed with me and my children.

Knowing that his mother was with us, Xue Song still didn't contact us much. He seems to have disappeared from our lives. Mother-in-law said that when she was alone at home, he would occasionally make a few phone calls, but after a few words, she hung up, and she didn't know what he was busy with. Six months later, just four days ago, I suddenly received a short message from an insurance company, 300,000 yuan. I was confused at that time. I didn't know until I asked. It turned out that this policy was bought by my ex-husband and the beneficiary was me. Not long ago, he died of illness, but he kept it from all of us. Even at the last moment of his life, his mother and son didn't see him for the last time, so he left alone.

I didn't cry when I got divorced, but I cried after getting such news, and my heart was mixed, especially when I saw my mother-in-law and her son, tears kept flowing downwards. It was unrealistic to say that I didn't hate him before, but now no one wants to hate him, only a sad and suffocating sadness. Can you understand the smell?