Stealing money in the age of SMS 3

I divorced him because of that woman. My ex-husband denied having an affair with her. Now I'm still with my ex-husband, but they are connected. Last time I asked my ex-husband to buy him a plane ticket. What happened? Are they really having an affair?

What should I do if my husband cheats? How to judge that my husband is cheating? An Expert in Detecting Cheating Traces —— Sandwich Physiology

The test spray summarizes all kinds of "abnormal" behaviors of married men after cheating, and summarizes the following ten items:

1, after the husband cheated, use QQ, email, etc. Be careful not to look again.

In this information-rich era, QQ, MSN, email, etc. They are all auxiliary tools for cheating, and their functions are similar to those of telephone, but because of the charm of Chinese characters, they are more attractive and ambiguous. When people are in estrus, their brains will be extremely excited. Even people with no cultural background will spit out very beautiful words at this time. What's more, now we are all literate people, especially some scholars and talented women, who apply these tools of cyberspace to the extreme, enjoying it and being fascinated. In order to avoid the suspicion of the wife and husband, they have to use it carefully, either when you are not present, or change some QQ numbers and email accounts that you don't know, or tell you that you are working, please don't bother. In short, this is the secret of the derailed husband, otherwise, if you are not careful, those endless love stories and some secret actions will be exposed, and maybe there will be a folk version of the "Yan Zhao Men" incident.

2. Not interested in his wife's health.

Passionate sex life is one of the important reasons why men find lovers. A lover can envy his posture, his muscles, his carefulness and his thoughtfulness. He can turn over to show his love in the next sex, but his wife who has been together for many years can't. Every word from my lover can make me sad, enough to make my cheating husband feel longing for love and can't wait to be with her next time. Even on QQ, in the mail and on the phone, he is complaining about his physical lovesickness. At this time, his body and sperm are too busy, so his wife can relax, or do things hastily, or serve as a substitute to quench her thirst when she can't see her lover.

3. Exercise actively and love sports.

Especially those who didn't like sports before, began to exercise actively. What is exercise for? Not for you, but for that lover and myself. Of course, when the derailed husband is in a good mood, he will also show his wife my muscles, okay? You know, the appearance of lover makes him feel the beauty of life and show his best side, which is almost the instinctive reaction of male animals in front of female animals. Therefore, running, swimming, fitness, exercising the muscles of the body, showing their other physical abilities and showing their good health are all great motivation for the derailed husband to exercise hard, just to win the rippling eyes of his lover. Especially the middle-aged derailed husband, youth has passed, and good health is more important.

4. The derailed husband will treat his wife uncharacteristically for a while.

What does it mean to have a guilty conscience? What is a conscience discovery? What do you mean the red flag at home won't fall? The complex mood of her husband's infidelity is hard to describe at the moment. Suddenly I was uncharacteristically nice to my wife, my mouth became particularly sweet, and my hands and feet became diligent. Husband had to hide the ghost in his heart to make up for his uneasy conscience. Sometimes I get a little hurt in my lover's place, and when I come back here with my wife, I will be surprisingly careful. Some people are proud of this and even thank their lovers: you have made my family more harmonious. At this time, some lovers really don't know whether to be gratified or despise such a man when they hear these words.

5. Going home to eat less and less, going home late and working overtime more.

Needless to say, a person's energy is always limited, and the derailed husband will always put his limited energy into what he thinks is worthwhile and meaningful. Lovers are new things in his life, and new things will generally overcome old things. So you ask him what he did, and answer that he worked overtime or went with his buddies. If you ask too many questions, he will still be anxious with you and complain that I am tired of working overtime. One of the major manifestations of husband's infidelity is that he goes home to eat less and less. In fact, he is going to accompany new things and add secret lessons in the secret room.

6. Business trip, no chance to travel? Strive for a business trip!

My husband cheated on me. In order to be with my lover, the opportunity is indispensable. But opportunities are always for the willing. It is difficult for derailed men and women to understand the pain of lovesickness. However, the reality does not make them appear happily in the local area. The best way is to go to a place where they think no one knows, so that they have the opportunity to hold hands, go shopping, watch movies, shop, take photos, travel and check in, without sneaking around. Looking around, taking pictures will be more relaxed and lovely than before. How did this happen? Business trip! No chance to travel? That won't do, create conditions for a business trip! Moreover, there is a considerable advantage of traveling, that is, the expenses can be reimbursed by the unit, which really kills two birds with one stone. Of course, when I am on a business trip, I will not forget to send a message to my wife that I am safe. The derailed husband can walk out of his wife's side with his front foot and send a text message saying: Wife, I got on the bus, and then send a text message to his lover with his back foot: Wife, I'm coming.

7. After her husband cheated, she began to pay attention to her image and bought new clothes to dress herself up.

A person who used to be untidy suddenly spent a lot of time on his clothes. He never goes shopping, but he also wants to buy new clothes. Or he suddenly changed his dress style, paying special attention to whether his hair is messy, whether those white hairs are too conspicuous, whether his face is too dark, whether his skin is too rough, and whether his nose hair is cut clean. Pay attention to all this or a cheating man wants to show his best side to his lover, and the feeling of falling in love makes him feel full of energy. At this time, the lover is a living beauty in his eyes. Even if it is ugly, he feels good-looking and worthy of others. If the lover is a very young little MM, he will also feel many years younger.

8. After the husband cheated, he was uncharacteristically good to his wife, more absent-minded and grumpy.

It is puzzling that he can be impatient and lose his temper on trifles. The cheating husband began to criticize your taste in clothes. When you tell him about the hard work, he always says, I know you are busy, but I can't always listen to your complaints. You put pressure on me and my children. Especially the long-winded wife makes him feel that his family can't stand it. After the husband cheated, his mind was largely focused on the lover outside, and he used his intelligence to help the lover, so he didn't have the energy to pay attention to his wife's affairs.

9. Mobile phones are the key protection targets.

As one of the main communication tools for cheating men to contact their lovers, mobile phones will surprise you by communicating with each other day and night. In his mind, the mobile phone is as important as a time bomb, so he is careful everywhere to delete ambiguous short messages, code words and call records at any time. Always check your mobile phone. When I am with you, I often set it to vibrate or mute. If you accidentally look through his mobile phone, even if you haven't seen anything yet, he will immediately turn against you and may give you an ultimatum angrily: don't touch my mobile phone! Why? Because you almost found out the secret of your husband's cheating. At the same time, he has informed his lover: pay attention to your mobile phone, it is a bomb, no, it is an atomic bomb.

10, after the husband cheated, the expenses increased.

In the past, all the wages, bonuses and dividends were paid by my husband. Now, I have to keep as much private money as possible for myself, or simply find an excuse. It is more convenient for people who are not used to paying money at home before. There are many places where husbands cheat money. First of all, the telephone bill will soar, the transportation fee will not be less, and it is not cheap to open a house. It is not easy to spend money on traveling and shopping. In order to make your lover happy, you often have to send things in different ways. It is a small case for a man with more money to send a car to a house to show his sincerity, and he who is not well-off can't lose face on himself. It's really bad. It is always possible to find ways to create a career for women with your own technology to show your love. A cheating man can't guarantee that his lover will have an eternal future, but he must live in the present. Men are usually very manly before things are exposed, although men who cheat after things are exposed will slip faster than anyone else.