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How to make friends pay back money without embarrassment

In fact, it will be a bit embarrassing to ask the other party to pay back the money, no matter what you do. Since you plan to get your money back, you can't be afraid of embarrassment.

It is normal to borrow money and pay back the money. If the other party doesn't have this awareness, it is reasonable for others to ask him to pay back the money. If you always plan to play dumb like this, everyone will be embarrassed in the end, but I don't think the other party cares about this friendship, so don't make such friends.

I lent money to others several times, but once I didn't pay it back, and once I was urged to come back for a long time. He is a neighbor of my hometown and a junior high school classmate, so we have known each other for a long time. I lent him thousands of dollars at that time. He promised to pay it back in two or three months. I think everyone knows each other so well that he will keep his promise and return it to me. But after the appointed time, he didn't move or even take the initiative to contact me to say a word. You know, he will talk to me from time to time before borrowing money and a week after lending it.

At first, I was not too embarrassed to ask him for it. I can't bear to wait for half a month. I asked him nicely when he could pay me back. I'm a little short of money, even if it's only part of it. He said it was a little difficult now. Maybe next month. Well, wait until next month, and if you still don't pay it back, you will send a circle of friends to cry for poverty, including those who borrow money and don't pay it back. Actually, I'm talking about him. He's the only one who can see.

I thought it would stimulate him to give it back to me, but he has a thick skin. I didn't reply to messages, phone calls or delete friends. He won't answer anything I say anyway. I'm too tired to ask. When I go home for the Spring Festival, I go directly to his house and ask him to return it. At this point, I will never lend money to others again.

My best friend asks for money in a different way from me. She lent a few hundred dollars to a boy in the same village before, but the boy didn't pay it back after a year or two, and she didn't say anything. Embarrassed to speak, she turned to her brother for help. After her brother told the boy, the boy said, Oh, I almost forgot (actually, I didn't forget, I just don't want to return it), and I will return the money to her in a few days, so if you have friends who know the friends who borrowed money,

Lending money to others is out of your trust in each other and is a kind move. But if the other party is unconscious and even wants to cheat, then you can boldly ask the other party to pay back the money. You are not the unfriendly person, so why should you feel embarrassed? Maybe the other person is right about your psychology, and you don't want to pay back the money after procrastination.