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Parents urge marriage every day, what should I do?

You can talk to your parents, that is, sit down with them and have a good communication, and see what the specific reasons are for urging marriage. Some parents are under too much pressure, and they will feel anxious after seeing their neighbors or other relatives' children get married. If so, you should tell your parents that love is urgent and needs to be carefully selected. I think it's nice to be alone. If you don't want to find someone for the time being, you should also say yes to your parents and persuade them. Of course, if you meet the right person, you will fall in love with each other. Don't get angry or lose your temper, it will hurt your parents' hearts. To put your attitude right, secondly, you must agree with your parents' views. First, agree with your views, and then you can slowly refute your views, just like playing table tennis. Say something nice first, for example, Mom and Dad, we know that you are doing it for my own good. If I have such a big child who hasn't got married, I will be anxious and will push for marriage, so you must first have an attitude of understanding them. You can analyze your life planning and consideration, such as why you are not married, some things you consider, and some attitudes towards life. For example, your parents decide what you eat and wear in your daily life, but once you get married, will you be a person without a definite view, and a person without a definite view can't bear the responsibilities of the family? You can tell your parents that you want to exercise yourself, be independent and take responsibility for yourself, so as to make plans for future marriage. We need to treat it rationally. What should we do if we really can't stand being urged to get married? First of all, you need to adjust your emotions so that you can understand your parents' feelings. Communicate with parents more. Through communication, you can understand your parents and let them know what they think. Tell your parents your criteria for choosing a spouse, and then attend a blind date arranged by your parents. Put a correct attitude and recognize their views. Parents must be anxious for you and think of you, so first of all, your attitude is not to be impatient, not to be angry or lose your temper. Parents often talk to you about getting married and finding a partner when they are on the phone or chatting. You can change the topic and easily divert their attention. Seeing that you have changed the subject, they will also be restrained.