! God, how to chase girls!

Lesson 1 Absolute confidence

Self-confidence is the basic condition for doing anything, and chasing girls is no exception. You need absolute self-confidence if you want to succeed in chasing girls. You must adhere to the belief that you must succeed and you can't be lonely any more. And you should adopt the method of "self-reliance", rely on your own strength to find the Pickupgirl, and try to avoid relying on friends and family. Not only friends and family can't help themselves, too many people know that your other half is more likely to backfire, and girls don't like people who rely on friends to chase girls. However, to fulfill your wishes, the first thing is self-confidence. Even if you are not "Prince Charming", you can dress yourself up as a prince. The important thing is that the confident temperament and demeanor make the other party irresistible. In short, it is: self-confidence, self-confidence and self-confidence.

Lesson 2 A man who confuses women

Most women do not like men who are too honest. How boring! In fact, their most popular men have the following characteristics: good popularity, cheerful and lively, unable to refuse others, unable to keep secrets, no opposite sex, easy to compromise, a little overconfident and a little honest.

In fact, as long as you have any of the above points, you can say that you have the conditions to attract women, but the more the above points, the more favorable you will be in the pursuit process, and the smaller it is, the harder it is to break out of the tight encirclement. But even so, even if you have the above conditions, there is no guarantee that you will please any woman, because you can't have some shortcomings that the other party can't accept or tolerate at the same time. For example, a bad man usually attracts women with his eyes, voice and body language. When we meet for the first time, we can naturally look at her ears. When two people meet, and then turn their eyes to their ears, she will naturally be deeply moved by you. When you have a chance to speak, your voice will be slightly higher than hers. Cheerful and loud will attract her to continue talking to you. When listening to her, your eyes will shift to her lips, which will make her feel that you are listening to her attentively. As for the hand on the table, the four fingers are side by side, which makes people feel neat and beautiful and naturally has a good impression on you.

Lesson 3 Encounters

You should always remind yourself that the word eye margin is almost the most puzzling concept on the road of love, enough to make two people fall in love, fall in love quickly, and even walk into church. Therefore, when you meet the woman you have been waiting for for a long time and hit it off at any place and any occasion: bus, subway, street, restaurant, banquet, workplace, etc. Don't hesitate, the opportunity may never come back. Seize the present opportunity, seize the present beauty, your only way is naturally to go forward and chat up, let her know you, have an impression, have a good impression, have love, miss and so on. You have to start the first step anyway. But there is no doubt that this requires great courage and caution. Besides, if you make a mistake, you can keep your stomach in the future. Therefore, in daily life, we must always study and be able to cope when it is useful.

Below, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:

1. Look at her with attracted or uncontrollable eyes and look back from time to time. This trick, even if the other person is not attracted to you at all, will think that he is unstoppable and complacent, and can't help but look back at you. )

2. A smile.

They will believe that their appearance must be pleasing and make others feel good, and then they may smile back. )

Ask her the time in the most natural way, but there must be no watch, but you can slow down or speed up first.

She can't find any reason to refuse to answer you. )

4. "hello! "Smile.

If you do it properly, your natural and unrestrained attitude will certainly attract her, but most importantly, she will be sure that you have been attracted to her. The purpose of the above is to reduce the vigilance of strange girls. Because they don't know each other well, if they speak too glibly, they may disgust each other and make themselves self-defeating. In fact, any woman believes and obeys fate, and they will believe that every man who appears in front of her eyes may be her future husband. So, as long as you use the right method, she is always ready to accept you with open arms. Sincerity is always the strongest weapon to capture a woman's heart. To win her heart, she must believe that you are absolutely attracted to her, and even only she can attract you. Then, she will gradually release her psychological alert and smile at you. However, if the other person is introduced by a friend, or you know that you are related to the other person (such as school and work), then things will be much easier. 5. "He [someone] said that you are a beautiful woman in XX College, so you must be busy pursuing different boys every day. "

Even if she is not a real beauty queen, after you say it, she must feel that her beauty has charmed many people, but most importantly, she must deny and explain. )

6. "Your work looks interesting. What are your daily duties? 」。

At this moment, she is absolutely embarrassed to refuse to answer, but gradually she will be attracted by your serious and frank eyes and answer with your heart. )

7. "You must have spent a lot of time and thought on clothes. Have you cultivated this experience since you were a child? 」

This is undoubtedly an implicit compliment, both a compliment and a trace. )

8. "Go to the street and see your real self! 」

She will frown at once and ask you impatiently, "What are you talking about?" You might as well look at it the other way round, she will be unable to help smiling. Of course, no matter how careful and clever such an opening statement is, it is useless. Because intellectually speaking, women are never worse than men, but they are easily deceived by sweet words and cannot maintain high vigilance. However, excessive words will only make them alert and build a wall to prevent you. The simplest and most direct prologue is often the most effective prologue, because they don't think anyone will show their love to her or anything else at all, so the only conclusion is: "The other person must be the first brother, and he is sincere. This person is not bad! So, naturally, she will open the door and welcome you to join her and come into her life!

Lesson 4 Creating Opportunities

If you want to pursue a girl, you should have an opening speech anyway. No matter what image and effect you use, the most important thing is that she responds. As long as she responds to you, everything will be much easier Basically, she won't think that you turn around and leave after starting the topic, so she will be furious and think that you are playing a trick on her and being too picky. So, be sure to make a quick decision and create a dating opportunity for yourself. Even if she refuses you, at least she will leave a good impression on your politeness and courage. So, how should we create opportunities? It's difficult to generalize because of the different situations, venues, people and atmosphere, but there are always some principles to follow:

Make an appointment in the shortest possible time. In this way, she had no time to refuse, but acquiesced. ※. )

Choose some popular places. She will feel safe, so she might as well have a try. ※. )

Take her to a place she knows. She will not be at a loss, she will feel natural. ※. )

Talk it over with her, and then you can make a decision. Women like the respect of others and the tyranny of others. ※. )

Make proper arrangements for her, such as the way and time to go home. She will think you are a considerate, mature, considerate and gentle person. ※. ) With this arrangement, she will readily agree to your date, and at the same time, she will be happy to spend a romantic and unexpected night with someone like you. However, women are definitely animals manipulated by emotions. Even when you think you have completely mastered her psychological state, she may actually be impacted by another kind of outside world at the same time. Therefore, when you get along with them, you must always be careful and not careless.

Lesson 5 the first date

Meeting and talking can be said to be the most important step, because it is the beginning of everything, but there is no guarantee that there will be a second step and a third step in the future. Therefore, after the first step, it still takes a lot of time, and you must never relax.

Of course, you should also distinguish whether you have the necessity and impulse to continue to associate with her. If you are just reluctant, don't be reluctant, so as not to bring too much trouble and pain to everyone in the future. When you only have a preliminary understanding and find that she is worthy of continuing dating, then it is absolutely necessary for you to make careful plans, consider each other's feelings and reactions, and treat them with the most sincere attitude. Otherwise, it will not only hurt others, but also insult your personality, which is meaningless.

So the first date must not be sloppy, otherwise there is no hope. Besides, if you can't devote yourself to that date, it is also a happy thing to pursue it. So, you must tell yourself that you must take your date seriously anyway. Since she agreed to your date, she will definitely dress up beautifully and look forward to it. Therefore, you must not let her down and try to take care of her psychological needs. For example, tell her that you value her neatly dressed, meet her happily, make enough preparations to spend the night with her, and arrange to send her home after the show. After making a good impression, she will undoubtedly agree to your second date. At the same time, if she really appreciates your arrangement all night, she naturally hopes that you can continue dating her. At this time, you can think clearly in private whether she is worth continuing dating. If it's absolutely worth it, please don't hesitate to start before the end of the first date, otherwise you may miss all the opportunities. Because the more nervous you are, the happier she is.

Lesson 6 the second date

Why emphasize the second date? Because the first meeting may be the first contact, we don't know each other at all, and we are not serious. They rely entirely on intuition and eye contact to judge whether the other party can continue to communicate.

The first date means that I really want to know you. We might as well give each other a chance to start over. Therefore, strictly speaking, the first single date is the first time to consciously and hopefully date each other and get in touch with each other for the first time.

However, the second single date is more important because it is a sincere confirmation of each other. The first date can be said to be pure temptation. If you feel that they are not suitable for each other, you can definitely stop here and don't have to continue. Of course, seeing more is not necessarily a pledge of eternal love, but there is a bigger difference-greater sincerity. No matter how the first date is, you have to admit that as long as you date each other again, it means that the last date is unforgettable, and you also hope to see each other again and get along well with her. Therefore, your attitude must be more sincere. At the very least, you should let her know that you are mentally prepared, that you and she will become lovers at any time, and that you have begun to regard her as your girlfriend-someone you are completely interested in further exchanges.

Lesson 7 Physical Contact

Maybe you and she have been dating alone many times, or maybe you regard each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, talking and laughing together, but you still feel that there is a gap between us. In fact, after we get along for a while, she will allow some physical contact, but that doesn't mean you can do whatever you want. You need to be careful, or all your previous efforts will be in vain. If you put your hand on her shoulder too hard and exaggerate your movements, it will definitely arouse disgust and think you are too laissez-faire. Here are some correct methods for your reference:

Hand-when she allows you to drag her hand, you should drag it with a gesture that completely covers her hand and makes her feel protected and warm. Never drag only one finger or her fingertip, because it will make her feel disrespected, have a feeling of "contact with filth", and will be resistant to your further actions in the future. ※.

Wrist-this gesture is actually not worth advocating, because everyone will feel commanded and "escorted" when they are caught by their wrists (or arms), even lovers are no exception, but sometimes it can be used, such as crossing the road in a hurry. It is worth noting that the position of grasping is only below the elbow, and the strength should be gentle, otherwise she will really feel like a criminal caught by the police. ※.

Shoulder-After the hand-dragging stage, you will gently hug the fragrant shoulder, which means "gently hug". Of course, you will hug her gently with your hand, which will make her feel protected and safe. Don't put your whole arm on her shoulder, or the weight of your arm will make her feel burdened and despised. ※.

Touching her back can also make her feel loved. However, when you do this, you must gently press the whole palm instead of pressing it with two fingers or swimming around. The former makes her feel uneasy about being "stuck behind", while the latter makes her feel played and you are frivolous. But remember that although body language is a way of mutual communication, there must be considerable verbal communication. ※. The relationship between two people can never be established only by physical contact, which means that feelings should never be based on sex. On the other hand, if you can start with spiritual communication, slowly cultivate each other's feelings, enhance each other's understanding, and recognize each other's disharmony, physical contact can completely promote the growth of feelings, otherwise, you will make a big mistake at any time in crazy love.

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1. Girls want others to praise her for her beauty. Everyone likes to hear compliments. Women are more prominent in this respect. They will get the pleasure of being recognized from people's praise. To understand a woman's psychology and win the favor of the girl you love, you should always praise her for her beauty. For example, your girlfriend has been putting on makeup in front of the mirror for a long time for you, and she has to put on new clothes every date. So when you see her, shouldn't you praise her sincerely?

2. Women like to give people small favors. There are subtle differences between men and women in giving and receiving gifts. A woman gives a man expensive gifts to show her willingness to trust her. First of all, treat the gift as a sign of respect or a compliment. Therefore, women like to be given some small souvenirs and small gifts for her boyfriend. If her boyfriend doesn't take the gift seriously, she will be disappointed. When a clever man accepts a girl's gift, he must not forget to give her a deep kiss.

3. Respect her and get to know her. Women like others to listen to her, and she hopes that her feelings, even if they are childish and unreasonable, can work for men. She wants others to respect her and understand her. Women are easily hurt inside. Be sure to protect her, care for her and take care of her.

4. It suits her interest. Most women believe that a man who shares her views or interests and helps her achieve a certain goal will be a trustworthy person. Therefore, it is easy for them to feel intimate with such a man and give their hearts to him. Generally speaking, unreasonable men will make women unhappy. If a female colleague can't meet the work quota, you won't get her favor. You should put yourself in her position on the premise that your work and group are not affected, and then her heart will tilt towards you inexplicably. Women are generally alert. If you have the same goal as her, for example, you are both dissatisfied with the behavior of a colleague, you will be easily accepted.

5. Pay attention to her tiny desires. Women always think men are forgetful. So, if she accidentally blurts out something she is interested in, you will always remember it. She will be moved if you mention it to her again one day. For a woman, if you can understand some of her tiny desires, she must think that you know her best and are the most reliable, so she is closer to you.

6. Trust her. It is true that women love men's masculinity. Strong and brave are the characteristics of men. But under the premise of being strong and brave, men also have feelings and tenderness. When a woman falls in love with a man, she often falls in love with his fragile side. The deep-seated reason for this phenomenon may be that women are born with motherhood. It is easy for men to reveal their hidden worries in front of their good women, and it is so natural for women to have heartfelt sympathy for such men. "Men don't flick when they have tears." A man won't cry until he is sad, and he won't tell a secret to a woman until his true feelings are revealed. Women are easily conquered by such men.

7. Pay attention to the subtle changes in her clothes. For a woman, if someone discovers the subtle changes in her body, she will have a sense of satisfaction. Women like to pursue fashion, and love beauty is their nature. If your girlfriend changes her hair style or dress today, she will be happy if you compliment her. She thinks that if you keep her in your heart and look at her all the time, she will feel satisfied, instead of suddenly "running away" or sulking alone. Careful men will find subtle changes in women without her prompting at all. In this way, your feelings will be very harmonious.

Small means of chasing girls

1) It seems difficult to chase a girl who is silent and arrogant. In fact, these girls are indifferent in appearance and often fanatical in heart. They generally like boys who are a little wild. If you are the kind of gentle boy, with a long difference and little possibility, you'd better choose another beautiful woman. If people say, "That's cool!" Then you hope big! If your first invitation is not rejected, then you must not miss the opportunity! They may be extremely careless about you at first. Don't be discouraged at this time.

Be sure to persist, even if it is repeated. Watching movies, dancing, skating and going to her usual study room are all good strategies. Be sure to find more opportunities to express yourself, a lot (of course, Iloveyou will save it for the last time, hehe) ... For this type of girl, your true feelings are very attractive.

This kind of girl usually has to chase for a long time. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems best not to start. So as not to waste ... hehe. However, after catching up, she will generally be dead set, and you will be on cloud nine and feel that you are the happiest BF in the world! Ha ha.

(2) Girls who pursue romantic fantasies

If you really like such a girl, let me remind you first-you are going to taste the ups and downs! This kind of girl seems to pursue spirit more than material, but in fact it is just the opposite. Romance needs money to build. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider. Because she likes romantic things, flowers and chocolates, you can touch her heartstrings most by giving more gifts.

If you want to catch up with this kind of girl, don't be stingy with your little money. Besides the moon in the sky, there are other things on the ground (what? As long as she wants it, you should try your best to get it without hesitation. Usually roses and snacks are more subtle ... in short, if you want to chase such girls, you must cultivate your mind-reading ability. Don't forget to bribe the roommates of the girls around you.

They will tell you a lot of useful information. And you must think more about your dress, and don't be rustic all day. After catching up with a girl, you can safely show your true colors, because in her eyes, you are no longer rustic. Haha)

If you want to play with her, you should also go to more romantic places, such as spring outing, dancing and watching love stories ... she will gradually be inseparable from your care, haha! Although such a girl costs you a lot of money, it will also bring you a lot of wonderful fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live happily.

(3) Chasing tender and considerate girls

This kind of girl is dedicated. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and amiable, and let you feel the warmth and reliability of love. If you can catch up with this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be easy to chase (also suitable for all kinds of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you, you deserve her. Now let's discuss the means.

First of all, you should pay more attention to her in life and study. She doesn't need any material things, but needs a heartfelt concern to appear in front of her when she needs help. (Reminder, you must observe more at ordinary times to find a good opportunity to start. Of course, if you are a romantic, it is foolproof to send flowers and gifts on holidays.

At first, you can send something friendly, and when you feel you can express it (for example, she looks at you differently from others or seems a little overwhelmed in front of you), you can send roses! If you don't want to be so extravagant, you can reveal some in the chat after self-study on weekdays. When the time is right, you will suddenly say something like "It feels good to be with you". If she doesn't hide, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have long wanted to say. The best time is at night: people's defense ability is weak at night. If she starts to avoid, don't force her, you can care silently until she is moved.

BTW: If you don't have much contact with her at ordinary times, you will have a goal when she doesn't know you. You can pretend to meet her by chance through friends like her, and then deepen your impression through several "encounters" in the same study room, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest and safe to catch up with. Actually, it depends on someone. Some people won't let her leave you in an emergency. If you can't, you should always write and call.

(4) Chasing lively and lovely girls

This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people. Moreover, in the new environment, boyfriends are often the first. Not because they are easy to chase, but because they often have to take the initiative. If you like this kind of girl, if she likes you, it will be easy. Get in touch with her more, occasionally show your affection for her, and she will be close to your goal at the same time.

If she doesn't like you (worse, she likes another person), don't lose heart. As long as you still have a chance, you should fight for it (of course, you are just so-so to her, so you don't have to). You can first exist in the form of friendship with her and try to cultivate a hobby similar to her. In the meantime, your humor and openness are very important, so that she can still think of you on her way back. If the person she likes is not interested in her, then you can take your time until she takes the initiative to you.

At this time, you can take obvious strategies to make her really become your girlfriend. If she and he like each other, if you think she deserves to be accused of stealing others' love, you can give them a final blow before they talk to each other. At this time, opportunities are very important.

You should observe carefully. When they have conflicts and misunderstandings, take advantage of them (it doesn't seem very ... haha) and arrive first. Victory may well belong to you in the end! (Generally, girls won't have other ideas after catching up, haha. ) This kind of girl may be liked by unsuspecting people after having BF, so you should tell "Please! She belongs to me! " The result should be optimistic.

(5) Chasing hysterical girls

The typical feature of this kind of girl is emotional exposure. She can cry whenever she wants, smile happily, which often makes people feel a little ridiculous. My old friend was surprised that this kind of girl was chased, but I heard that love is often blind. Oldfriend sees the emotional experience of friends around him and understands the meaning of this sentence better. Crazy girls are like wild horses. If you don't think you have enough ability to control them, you don't have to consider chasing them. Choose another one. If you feel good about yourself, you can have a try.

First of all, you should give her the impression that you are awesome (whether he is a T or an F, haha) and make her worship you. You'd better sum up your own specialty before chasing, and design the time of the exhibition so that she can look up to you unconsciously. After a good start, we can launch a full-scale attack. You don't have to be ashamed of your knees at all. Just go out with her a few times more (you can choose a friend who is not handsome or stronger than you, haha) and show her style more, and her heart will slowly move closer to you.

Don't catch up with her at once, or you will come and go quickly. You should play hard to get and let her fall into the trap. Your task is to create as many opportunities as possible to contact and show your talents. Wait until she is completely convinced of you, and then make it clear slowly-oh, so you like her, too. Ha ha!

(6) Chasing girls older than themselves

The girl you like is older than yourself, which is a common problem in our school. And women are older than men, which is a fine tradition of lovers in our school. For beginners who have just entered love, there is no need to panic in this situation. Go ahead, too! But in the process of pursuing, we must pay attention to the following points:

Never act like a little boy. Even a truly mature woman wants to be spoiled rather than spoiled. When you encounter difficulties or problems, you must take the lead, but don't ask her to protect you. Your own subjective judgment is very important. Don't parrot in front of the girl you like.

B: "I am mentally older than you" should be your mantra when she has an idea. Make her feel that this is really more real than her biological age.