What if confession fails?

First of all, you should understand that liking someone is not a shameful thing.

As long as people are in love, it is normal to like/secretly love someone. I found that some friends around me obviously like a girl, but they are afraid to tell her, for fear that the girl will know. I think this idea is really unacceptable.

There is no shame in liking someone.

Being liked by others is a happy thing.

Secondly, let's discuss whether to confess.

When I was in high school, I also confessed to two female classmates at that time, in the form of PHS SMS. As a result, the other party didn't reply, and then there was no reply the next day, which made me very embarrassed. Later, Bian Xiao entangled him and pulled the topic back. The other party suddenly said: You are a good man and deserve better.

Talking too much is all tears.

Later, I went to college. In order to find a girlfriend, I went online to find a lot of experiences of so-called love experts, and also asked many people of love age around me. I just found out:

It's really stupid to confess without knowing whether the other party agrees.

The best way is to try to hold hands directly after everyone is familiar with it. It doesn't matter if the other person shakes off your hand. Continue to hug after a while, and then shake it until she stops shaking.

3. When is the best time for confession?

Confession represents a sense of ritual, which many people think is necessary. So, when is the best time to confess?

After the other party breaches the contract.

What do you mean, that is to say, you have already held hands with the woman, and she psychologically acquiesced that you are her boyfriend, so you can express your satisfaction with the sense of ceremony, which can also increase her love for you.

in other words

Confession is a declaration of victory, not a bugle call for charge.

Fourth, what should I do if my confession is rejected?

I met my ex-girlfriend when I was a sophomore. It was very green then. After going out with her for one night, I felt that she had a good impression on me, so I got up the courage to confess.

But she refused for many reasons. I was very sad. I had a standoff with her downstairs for more than half an hour. She kept letting me go for fear that her parents would come down for a walk. Later, I went back to my dormitory in great depression.

I was very sad at that time, and my confession was rejected. I thought I'd never contact again. As a result, soon after I returned to the dormitory, she sent a WeChat asking me: Did I return to the dormitory safely? Then I continued to pay attention to her WeChat with the cheek.

Then we talked for a few days, and then when we met at school, I signed her hand, and she didn't refuse, and then we naturally got together.

So, with the growth of age, I gradually found that "cheekiness" in love is really important. When I was a child, I felt ashamed because my confession was rejected, and then I dared not talk to the girl I liked again, and even deleted her contact information.

Now I think we should practice a little rough, pretend nothing happened when we failed, and then make persistent efforts and continue to talk.

Conclusion: It is not shameful to like a girl, so there is no need to hide it in your heart. Don't confess until you are sure that she will promise you. If you really want to confess, please don't say it in the form of SMS or WeChat, but say it in person. If rejected, please be generous. Not awkward. Keep trying.