A confidante, why suddenly didn't answer the phone or return the text messages?

It is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, and don't be so timid. First, people think you are unmanly; Second, you feel uncomfortable; Third, you can't be someone else's dowry, because you can't get anything yourself. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you! It's best to say: it's nonsense that men don't get what they pay.