I didn't reply to the text message my husband received.

Show him the card and ask him about his attitude towards the third party and his family. Now there is no reason for both sides to want it. We must always choose one side. According to his attitude, decide your choice.

Objectively analyze my husband's recent behavior, whether he often doesn't go home under the pretext of working overtime on business trips, whether he starts to protect his mobile phone, giving people the feeling that he is afraid to leave his hand to answer the phone, and whether he has become deliberately avoiding you. Have you suddenly become very diligent and have a feeling of trying to please you? If the answers to these questions are in the affirmative, then there are only two options that can be saved. One is to save the marriage of two people, and the other is to go their separate ways. If you don't want a divorce, just keep reading. You should control your emotions and never show your cards. Men want to divorce you, and they won't sneak around. If you show your cards, he can either admit it directly and force him to leave you. Either a person admits his mistake against his will. What you have to do, first of all, is to analyze where you are not doing well enough and ignore your husband. Of course, if you do well, even if he is born a playboy, you have nothing to miss.

Find out the reasons, adjust yourself appropriately and improve yourself. For example, attend some high-end training courses, expand his circle and give him a sense of crisis. I used to do housework by myself, so I took the opportunity to let my husband do it. You have to reflect, what are the reasons for the problems in marriage? It can't be all his fault, can it? Don't you have any questions? You have to reflect on what contradictions have arisen between you, but they have not been resolved in time, which has caused this situation today.

Solve your own internal problems first, and then solve external disputes. As for your choice, it is your business to forgive or divorce, but you should choose according to your own situation. In the final analysis, I think it is a very correct view that the economic base determines the superstructure. Women must have their own careers, have independent economic ability, and are not afraid of changes at any time. When the soldiers come, they will block up the water and cover it up. Only when they have confidence can they deal with all kinds of problems calmly.