How to send a message after the first date?

Lead: After the first date, if you have feelings for each other, you'd better send a message to say hello so that you can make an appointment again next time. If you are a boy, you'd better take the initiative. Here are some suggestions for you.

If you like each other, just send a message and talk.

Girls generally don't take the initiative to send text messages. After all, they met on a blind date, but they haven't met yet. If you take care of her, take the initiative. If you send a text message to the woman or man for the first time after the blind date, and the other person doesn't reply to the text message or answer the phone for more than two consecutive times, then don't contact her again! This is a signal from the other party, and the other party doesn't like your tone very much.

When sending a message, don't rush to reveal your sense of purpose.

This is an important part of the lower limit of the other person's attitude and impression of you. If handled well, even if the other person is not satisfied with the experience of the first date, you can have a second chance to make up for it; If you don't handle it well, TA's attitude towards you will turn sharply, and you will lose hope for the future. Let's look at an example:

Although A's first date gave girls a bad feeling, after all, the chat on WeChat was quite enthusiastic, and B also had the experience of successfully dating girls for the first time. Their message to the girls later was roughly as follows:

"Honey, what are you doing?"

"I want to hear your voice, or I can't sleep."

"You have to be fine, okay?"

"I will always accompany you and make you happy."

It is this follow-up operation that makes girls decide never to go to any of them again. Men who make such a gesture of devotion just because of one or two pleasant chats have obvious purposes. Girls are not fools. How can girls with real quality be won so easily? I don't think any woman will turn a blind eye to their fiery desires except girls who have never experienced feelings pursued by men.

Send information at the right time.

It's best to send it five minutes after the other person comes home and talk about the mood of today's date. If the other party has any special performance, you can use words of thanks. For example, when I asked a girl to dance, I never forgot to send a short message when I got home, saying, "I am really happy and honored to dance with you today." Your dance is really great. " You should be home safely by now. I hope you are equally happy. See you next time. Have a good dream at night. "Don't procrastinate about how she feels about you. Don't say too much, you can leave a clue and ask her out next time, leaving some mystery.