When all friends are no longer in contact

When all friends are no longer in contact

When all friends are no longer in contact. Some people slowly stop contacting each other for some reason. Although they have contact information, they have no contact with each other. We just need to check the situation in the circle of friends and agree on the next gathering. When all friends no longer contact us, what should we do? How to look at it. When all friends are no longer in contact 1

Why did the friendship fade?

I once heard a saying that life is like a train, passing through many stations along the way. Some people will accompany you from beginning to end, some people will come up and accompany you for a few stops, and some people will just look at you from a distance but will not get on the bus.

In fact, the most precious friendship for many people is that due to their own negligence and the invasion of time, it unstoppably goes farther and farther, and eventually disappears in their lives.

Then there began to be silences, and then the silences became more and more frequent, and even the topics that I forced myself to talk about reached a deadlock within a few sentences. There is obviously still love in my heart, but there is no spark.

Someone once said that true friendship can withstand the test of time. This may just be a lie that time has promised us.

I used to naively think that if something like this happened, it must be because both parties didn’t work hard enough. But now I can clearly see that when such a situation occurs, there must be something more important happening. Slowly and silently, you have been ranked behind, and you are slowly moving forward in this way. He put it in the back.

By the time the two of them realized it, they were already in a state where one had already departed and the other was still on the platform but had no time to get on the train.

Appreciate each other while standing not far or near

I like a saying, "Cherish the person in front of you." There is also a saying that is the most appropriate metaphor for friendship, that is: stand Appreciate each other from a place that is neither far nor near.

Don’t lose contact between good friends due to the passage of time. In addition to long conversations, you should also greet each other with text messages, postcards, and emails from time to time. This is how friends integrate into our lives in ordinary ways.

Many people question friendship because it is difficult to grasp, elusive, and rare. When two people are together, they have a tacit spiritual understanding and a unity of souls. They can talk about love, marriage, the future, and all the problems in life without concern. They have a tacit understanding, understand each other, cherish each other, and support each other. Respect each other.

Don’t worry among friends about why they last called you or invited you last, and don’t compare who gave you the most expensive birthday gift.

But looking at everything from a long-term perspective, they are likely to use some unexpected ways to maintain the balance of their friendship.

In many people’s minds, career and family often come before friendship. However, once we lose our job or our marriage breaks down, apart from close relatives, the only people who are still willing to stay with us are our close friends. In the movie "It's a Wonderful Life", an angel once said to the protagonist: "As long as you still have friends, there is no failure in life."

The better the friendship, the more it needs care

In this world, The more beautiful things are, the more fragile they are and the more we need to take care of them. Family affection is like this, love is like this, and friendship is like this.

Friendship, like love, requires care and equal dedication. Cherish the friends around you and don't let her feel ignored.

The biggest mistake we make is to take this beauty for granted and enjoy it with peace of mind, forgetting that it also requires continuous dedication. What's more, they are used to the other party's unilateral contributions and feel that this should be the case.

People have different understandings of friends, but there is a place for "true friends" in everyone's heart. True friendship does not change as the outside world changes.

A true friend knows that you have more or less shortcomings, but will not dislike you because of them.

Outside the home, we try to package ourselves as reasonable, generous and happy people. At home, he is willful, irritable, and careless about his relatives.

We are polite to strangers and have a measured approach and retreat. We spend every penny with our lovers and are hysterical.

True friendship is mutual. This "mutuality" should be reflected in feelings rather than any specific actions. The giving and receiving between friends cannot be calculated in the ledger.

If you want to be truly fresh, you really have to keep in touch from time to time. Don’t be constrained by your own forward-thinking thoughts. Communicate seriously and have sincere conversations.

When we characterize a friendship as a "friendship that can withstand the test of time," aren't we subconsciously thinking that it can continue even if we don't do anything?

So, stop condemning friends who forget you. It's not that friendship hasn't withstood the test of time, but that it really isn't that important in your hearts.

Then as mentioned before, be sensitive to discover these small differences, promptly use beautiful memories, full of love, and still the same three views to balance these small gaps and nip them in the bud. .

The friendship you miss is limited to the time you spent together, and has nothing to do with you now.

After all, friendship, like family and love, requires the maintenance and management of both parties, doesn’t it?

Treat your friends the way they would like to be treated. When all friends are no longer in contact 2

I checked my circle of friends late at night and saw this post: My former good friend, I really want to call you, but after I picked up the phone, I was silent again. of letting go.

You and I have never felt like this before. I want to tell you about my unhappiness today, but when I think about it, you don’t know the whole story, and you might think I’m being pretentious. If you want to tell the whole story, maybe you don't even know why, you just feel uncomfortable.

I heard a classmate say that she once received a call from her best friend and she said she was unhappy. She felt confused and subconsciously asked why and what happened, but from what she heard, she just didn't know what the other person wanted to express.

Because we were no longer in the same city and we hadn’t seen each other for a long time, in the end we just chatted about the current situation and said good night to each other.

In fact, we care about our best friend as much as we care about our boyfriend. We hope that she can understand me by listening to my words or looking at me. But no one is a roundworm in the other person's stomach. There are many people who are in close contact with each other and will disturb the other person's life. If they don't contact each other, they will fade away.

Thinking about it, in the almost four years since I entered college, I have only attended one class reunion. During the second class reunion, my father was seriously ill. I didn't go home during the summer vacation and stayed in the hospital. Naturally, I didn't go to the class reunion. At the third class reunion, I was still no longer a local. As time passed, it was gradually forgotten.

We were once good friends, but our universities were in different places. When we sit together again, all we can talk about is the past. Those little beauties in the past, if repeated too many times, will turn into sesame seeds and rotten millet, losing their original charm. Later, there were only greetings.

At that time, very good friends gradually lost contact. The year I was in the hospital was really busy, so busy that I didn’t even want to look at my phone. But just because we didn’t have much contact, later on, I couldn’t find a reason to say anything.

We are all far apart and have our own lives, and we are just lucky enough to meet each other in the original town. If we are on the same track, maybe we will always be good friends. If we are different, we will just be alone in our respective corners.

Mr. Peng has a very close friend, and they will discuss together what they want to buy during Double Eleven. It’s hard to imagine that this is something two grown men could do.

Although we are far apart, I still understand you.

But Mr. Peng also said that he hopes that the gap between them will not be too big in the future. Otherwise, if one of the two walks too fast or too slow, it will become a decisive factor in the decline of the relationship.

And those female classmates who were once good friends also broke off contact because they had boyfriends.

I once saw a question: Why do I feel bored when I see my former best friend? The most upvoted answer is: Because your life trajectory has deviated too much.

Yes, maybe the other person is already married and has children, but you are still busy pursuing your dreams. When you see her again, you will feel embarrassed when she talks to you about daily necessities. I wanted to find something else to talk about work, but all I was talking about was your meager salary.

It is also possible that the other person is further along than you at that point in the college entrance examination, and the world she sees is completely different from the world you see. When you meet again, you talk about your dreams, but suddenly you find that your dreams are just the starting point for her, and your future will become farther and farther away. Even eating ice cream together are two different values.

Later, even we felt tired. Perhaps, let those good memories stay in the past, and they will have a different flavor when you recall them in your spare time.

When the girl I grew up with removed me from her address book, I couldn't help but cry secretly. Although I lay quietly in her address book for a long time, I would still scroll through her updates unconsciously and think of the past, but all I could do was talk.

I have been separated for so long that I can hardly remember what we should say between us. I actually feel that we are very good like this.

The day she deleted me, she sent me a message. I was called to class, and by the time I saw those words, her waiting time had passed and I had no chance to reply.

So be it, because our life trajectories are already in two opposite directions. I will remember that there was such a person in my life, but that was all.

In a person's life, you will meet many people, some you like, some you don't like, some you can get along with, some you can't get along with... But some people are destined to just accompany you for a ride. leave.

When I was in high school, I had a Chinese teacher. She and the chemistry teacher in the next class had been good friends since college, and they remained friends until they started working and getting married. We said we envied her, but she said: Among all my good friends, she is the only one who is always here. After listening to it at the time, I thought it was a little impossible, but now, I suddenly understand.

Friendship is something that is rare. We are now past the age where we can make a friend just because of a piece of candy, and we are past the age where we can still be good friends tomorrow if we have a quarrel today. Accept these sudden losses and look around. You are not alone now.

A true good friend will not let his relationship fade away because of no contact. He is the kind of person who may be late when it comes to adding the icing on the cake, but is always there when he needs help in times of need.

Perhaps, you just sat quietly in the cafe all afternoon, and then you were busy with your own things. However, in those important moments, we will never forget each other. When all friends are no longer in contact 3

Friends are not exclusive. Your friend has the right to choose other friends at the same time, and does not necessarily use your preferences as the criterion for selection. Friends come in stages. During a certain period, two people may be very speculative. As time goes by, both parties will undergo many changes subjectively and objectively, and the friendship may fade or be dissolved. This is normal.

As long as he doesn't intentionally hurt you, there is no betrayal. Of course, it is very necessary to cherish every friendship and cultivate and maintain it carefully. But there are also friends who feel like old friends at first sight even if we don’t keep in touch for a long time.

The so-called recognition that there will always be a few people in your life who are worth dating. Although the relationship between anyone needs irrigation, some friendships use time as fertilizer.

Friends are gold, friends are silver, friends are sunshine, friends are moon. Friends are stars. A friend is the person who lights up the light for you when you are walking towards the dark shore. A friend will not stay away from you just because you are going through a difficult time.

A friend will not abandon you just because you are at the lowest point in your life. A true friend will not follow what others say, and will not sprinkle a handful of salt on your wounded wounds. Friends will not stay away from you because of villains, but they will lend a helping hand to care for you at this time.

A true friend will never be unjust. A person who will not be defeated by the wind, who will not flatter those who are useful and kick away those who are useless. A true friend will not put aside friendship just because of some selfish interests.

A true friend will not be selfish. He will care for you at all costs when you need help. He will always be the most loyal to you. , he will promise that your previous words and deeds will not forget you because of your temporary unhappiness.

A true friend is moral. When you are in trouble, he will not put any pressure on you or do things that make you breathless. A true friend will be sensible and thoughtful. He won't see your troubles at this time, and he won't stand by and watch.

He will advise you behind your back, he will communicate with you in private, and he will never directly tell others what he thinks about you. In other words, he will save face for you.

A true friend can help your friend, be the one who can control the wind and rain for your friend, be in a sunny mood for your friend, and will take care of you in every possible way.

Everyone has their own way of doing things. If you ask others to do it, you can't force them to do it your way. What's more,

Your parents don't ask for this either. What's more, you are an outsider. No one can impose their own methods on others, so friendship and interactions with friends should not be imposed on others.