He has fallen asleep with his new lover, and you are still getting drunk every night.

I saw a post on Zhihu. The girl said that a few days after breaking up, she still said that she loved herself and couldn't let go of her ex-boyfriend. When she was lying in the street drunk in the middle of the night because of the pain of breaking up, she checked in with other girls in the hotel and changed the names of all social platforms to their abbreviations.

The girl said that at that moment, her heart ached and she couldn't figure out how a man who loved himself for three and a half years in just a few days could find a new lover and open a house.

The girl said that at that moment, her heart ached and she died completely.

Yes, many people have experienced the feelings of girls. Although both of them are free to do whatever they want after breaking up, it is still unacceptable to find a new lover with others in just a few days after breaking up.

Although it is said that time and new love are the best medicine to treat emotional injury, it is really disrespectful to break up and immediately enter the next relationship without any buffer period for yourself and your predecessor.

If it is a peaceful breakup, you will make your ex feel that all previous feelings are so pale and ridiculous, and you will also make your body twice as big as before.

I don't believe that a person will be cold-blooded enough to pull out of a relationship immediately and cleanly. No matter how good the incumbent is, you will still have the shadow of your predecessor in your mind, which is unfair to the incumbent.

If it is a premeditated derailment, it will really hit the predecessor.

A girl said that she has been with her boyfriend for more than three years and spent most of her time with him in college. After graduation, she went to England, and her boyfriend stayed at home for postgraduate study in World War II.

At school, they were enviable model couples, and even many people believed in love because of it, but in the end they cheated each other with boys.

The girl said that she trusted her boyfriend very much, and she knew her boyfriend's routine and living habits very well. After going abroad, they talked on the phone every day. She never doubted her boyfriend.

Until one day, she suddenly couldn't contact her boyfriend, and she didn't respond by sending messages and calling.

Being far away from home, she is afraid that something will happen to her boyfriend in Beijing. She frantically contacted friends at home and asked them to help her find it, but no one found it.

In desperation, the girl boarded her boyfriend's WeChat, only to find that he had read the messages sent to him by himself and his friends, but he just didn't reply.

In order to get in touch with him, she searched her boyfriend's WeChat for people who have been in close contact recently and found her boyfriend chatting with a girl. When her mind went blank, the girl subconsciously turned off the screen.

Before long, I was pushed off the assembly line. Later, the girl asked her boyfriend why he didn't call back, and the answer was that he was drunk with his friend that day and slept at his friend's house.

The girl asked who the girl was, and the answer was that she was a classmate in their graduate class, with a careless personality like a boy and a boyfriend.

The girl believed her boyfriend's words, but later her boyfriend began to refuse to reply to the girl's news frequently, and there was a lot of impatience in her tone, and even began to say that girls were all kinds of bad.

Finally, my boyfriend broke up. The girl didn't understand why things suddenly turned out like this. He called her countless times and cried in a parking lot in England. There is no one around. Tired of crying, she went home by bus.

So, they broke up.

Later, the girl learned from Weibo that she had been cheated. The ex erased all the information about her from Weibo the day after they broke up.

Then I sent an essay, "How am I doing? Girl. In the video, the girls in their test class are singing "I have a good boy".

The girl who knew the truth was decadent and self-mutilated, until she was sent to the hospital, and even thought she would die for a long time.

But eventually she came back to life.

A year later, while studying, she traveled and took many beautiful travel photos. Occasionally, she will write down her mental journey along the way.

What we see is a girl getting better, but only the girl knows how painful this process is.

When the ex and the new lover were in the flower moon, the girl alone endured the pain of stripping a person who had grown into her body from her life bit by bit. Only those who have experienced it will understand the pain and despair.

Dear girl, when you are sad because of lovelorn and can't let him go, think about how he let you go. When you want to hurt yourself because you are lovelorn, think about whether he is worth it.

Girl, promise yourself that no matter how sad you are, don't get drunk in the middle of the night, go home early when you are sad, eat well when you are sad, and take good care of yourself when you are sad.

You can't get back those who insist on leaving. You should give yourself a time to go out, but don't hurt yourself because you are lovelorn.

When you come out of the pain one day, everything will be fine, and you will definitely thank this powerful self.

Wen | Jiang Gongzi