What if the boy you like doesn't like himself?

I'm not worried about whether you can't solve your difficulties after clicking this article. I'm just worried about whether you'll still be moved.

Why did you write this article? It's because a goddess's best friend fell in love with a boy she likes a few days ago. We talked several times before we fell in love with this boy. Finally, when we gave up the edge, the boy confessed to her. "It's much easier to buy a house these days than to meet someone you like." This is what a senior I know said. She did buy a suite on her own, but she was single for many years. So it's hard to meet a boy you like. When you meet him, you must try your best to win him over and finally give up wisely. So my best friend hasn't given up for so long. In the process of writing this article, another good friend around me fell in love with a Didi taxi driver, hahahaha, and then she became my case.

It is said that women chase men's interlayer yarn, but it is actually plain! ! ! Actually, it's not like this. Boys chasing girls are all cheeky. Girls generally like to hide in their hearts, and they usually have a secret crush. It's too difficult to catch up with a boy. If you launch a strong offensive to chase, you will lose face, afraid that boys will not cherish it, girls will be easily moved, and boys will only be moved. So once you finally meet a boy you like, and then he doesn't like you, there are four stages to clean up. I'll briefly outline it first, and then explain it in stages.

First of all: you should know your heart, that is, why you like such a boy.

Secondly: you must calmly analyze the advantages and disadvantages of this boy and what kind of person he is.

Then: take action to make him move.

Finally: If you try your best, you should learn to give up.

Many girls will think that like is like. Why? There is no reason to like it. Yes! ! I always thought so before, but later I found that there is no hate or love for no reason in this world. If you want to talk about a silly and sweet love, there is no reason, but it is easy to get hurt, so you must use all the cells in your body to calmly think about why you like this boy. Why do we have to find out? Once you figure it out, if you can't catch up with the boy, you should take the last step to give up or talk for a while and find out that he is love rat. Whether you can get away with it depends on whether this analysis is rational enough.

For example, I just talked about my best friend in love. When chatting that day, we analyzed why she was not short of boys and why it was difficult to give up on that boy. First of all, because this handsome boy moved her, this is not only my best friend. I think this should be the way most girls die. There are many handsome guys, but there are few handsome guys in your heart. Secondly, my best friend works in her hometown. There are not many young people to choose from over there. Considering this boy's education and family background, it is difficult for his girlfriend to find a good one for fear of missing this boy, which is also a common problem of many girls. She is worried that there will be no shops after this village.

Let's talk about a friend I met by chance who has a good impression on Didi driver. She just found out that she had a good feeling for others and began to be cheated. She said she was a drop of water floating down the stairs. At this time, if she wants to take any action, she will be like a drunk and have no idea what she is doing. Another reason to analyze your heart is to let yourself think rationally about what action to take.

Let me give you an example. This example can also be explained by the way. In the first stage mentioned just now, Tang Yan and Luo Jin, who analyzed their inner feelings and announced their love affair some time ago, distributed radish candy to the masses during David's New Year's Eve. I was circled, too. The eyes of love. As we all know, Tang Yan has been spreading love since Xia Jia's three daughters cooperated with Roy Chiu. Tang Yan seemed hurt when she finally broke up. It seems that her good friend Yang Mi came out to support her. I can't research the specific truth, but I can feel that after that love, Tang Yan rarely published love until Luo Jin. In fact, I always thought that Luo Jin was a more honest and frank person, that is, a more honest and frank boy. Later, I saw an issue of Very Quiet Distance, in which Tang Yan was the guest. Tang Yan knows what his favorite boy is like, and he also knows what Luo Jin is like.

As Tang Yan said, she met many boys. They are all excellent, excellent, but they all think about themselves first, their careers first, and Luo Jin will consider the whole cast and then himself.

Let's take a look at their New Year's Eve in Shanghai. There is a pile of carrot candy, only one is pink. Then Luo Jin chased the host regardless of the image, and snatched the only pink candy from the host's basket for Tang Yan, because she likes pink best.

But I am still very, very worried that some sisters say that I really can't analyze his advantages and disadvantages. What should I do? At this time, you just need to take out an A4 piece of paper, fold it in half, write the advantages on the left and the disadvantages on the right, that is, scribble, such as what are the advantages, love for small animals, love, filial piety, good clothes and so on. And the disadvantages can be, playing games, smoking heavily, having more friends of the opposite sex and so on. If you can't think of it, just pull a few girlfriends together.

The third stage: take action to make him move.

You must have the attribute of sister paper.

What does it mean to have the property of sister paper? You want to be a woman, like a sister paper. Let me show you a data. This is my research among the boys around me.

I sent a WeChat to the boys around me the day before yesterday, asking them to choose one of the three styles they like. The test subjects include photographers who have seen countless sister papers, you know, including the school grass of our original school, including the handsome scholar of 182, including the rich second generation of special playboy, hahahahahahaha, so I betrayed my friends around me, it doesn't matter. Anyway, they don't know that I am writing an article, and this is the result.

As a result, half of 2 people stood in line, and half of 3 people stood in line. So, what else combines 2 and 3 and jumps between 2 and 3? Who else thought the style of 1 was good and finally chose 2 or 3? Ask them why they chose 2 instead of 3. Boys say they like girls wearing skirts. You see, as long as it's a boy, you like that femininity? No matter how god you are, as long as you are straight, you can't escape this strange circle. This test tells us not to wear short hair, not to dress so handsome, but to be a woman.

When you meet a boy you like, you must make all the preparations.

It is emphasized here that all the complicated styles of clothes, shoes and bags, as well as the complicated lipstick colors and makeup are for the contest between sister papers, not for giving boys popular science knowledge, just as sister papers never want to know what skills the heroes in DOTA have.

What kind of styles do boys like? 2, 3 is pure and a little wild, and it must be lost and lovely when it is mature. Don't think boys are so troublesome. Sister paper doesn't like boys who are bad but a little gentle, or warm and a little domineering. You must prepare several different sets of relatively pure clothes, and then some slightly sexy clothes like light mature women. There must be at least 5 sets. It is best to switch or combine these two modes, and it is best to wear different models each time. What to wear depends on what kind of figure and temperament a girl belongs to. If there are many people watching, there will be a special topic or article in the future to write about what boys and girls wear.

Then, you should learn to make up.

Speaking of makeup, what I want to say is that in fact, straight men only know a few things, lipstick, eye shadow, how to spit out his girlfriend's double eyelid stickers and the color of lipstick. I won't talk about it here. There are too many online. In other words, if you don't wear eye shadow and lipstick, straight men will think you are really beautiful.

I think the plain makeup that is popular recently is not bad. I suggest you learn some makeup from Guan Xiaotong. It's fresher.

It is not difficult to find that Guan Xiaotong painted a little eye shadow on the folds of double eyelids. The lipstick is coral pink, and the eyebrows are basically normal, which is not an exaggeration. Then I put on the inner eyeliner, and my blush hardly touched anything. This type is more natural.

Then, I want to emphasize a few key points of makeup:

1. Before you have a chance to meet the male god, you must sleep well and apply a mask. Once my best friend came to my house to sleep, and when she got up, she saw me say that it would be better to sleep on my skin, because I am the kind of lazy sister paper. I don't use a lot of skin care products in particular, and I seldom wear heavy makeup, which makes it easier to float powder and get stuck powder. If I put on a mask and make up, my makeup will be superb.

2. Then make up. After all, I have to talk about makeup. I'd rather not be white and be natural. I have a dark complexion. If I want to turn white, it will be very thick. Later, I used the natural color of Lan Zhi, not so white, but very natural. I emphasize that cosmetics are not as expensive as possible, and not everyone says yes. I remember there was an Armani liquid foundation before, which was very expensive, and many people said it worked well. I used it, and it really doesn't suit me. Therefore, just like looking for a partner, the makeup should suit you. I have used several cosmetics, such as CPB, Dior BB, Armani Foundation and Hera Air Cushion. I don't have to spend a lot of money on these cosmetics. Borrow it from your girlfriend or colleagues once or twice occasionally. Try to look after the ones that don't work well, and then pull out the grass when they are ready. Finally found the right one. I am more suitable for Lan Zhi's air cushion, Dior's Snowflake BB, Givenchy's Loose Powder, Biosoft's sunscreen and Aili's eyebrow pencil.

3. Let's talk about lipstick, because boys prefer soft. I have seen many boys think that girls are pink. That's right. I'm crazy. I don't like pink. Ha ha ha ha ha. I prefer stronger colors, such as dark brown or vermilion. Then talk about tender glass lips and lip biting. You think beautiful boys are basically invisible. I don't need to say this. Everyone knows it.

To sum up, what kind of makeup is more appropriate, that is, plain face, one is not eye shadow, and the other is not complicated lipstick.

After the makeup is fixed, it is the words and actions when interacting with boys. There is a saying that "pulling hair is equal to pulling a man." Have you heard of it? Ha ha ha ha. I have read a book by Xue Haoda before, which also mentioned this problem, that is, pulling out hair. I will recommend this book later, because there are many methods available.

Just as you see the muscles of Eddie Peng Yuyan Swift and Song Joong Ki drool, so do the girls who touch their hair from time to time when they are angry. When you have finished the properties of sister paper, you can act.

The speed of taking action depends on your familiarity.

The following is a key to judge whether you are familiar with each other.

Therefore, the symbolic step from strangeness to maturity is to have WeChat. If you like boys from individual departments and boys from the next class, well, the boys you meet on the elevator in the subway, then you must try your best to get on WeChat.

If it's from the department or the class next door, it's the kind that has the opportunity to go out together, or the kind that occasionally meets him.

Method 1: borrow money, say that you have no cash, then ask him if he has it, then lend it out and say that WeChat will return it to him, and then add WeChat. Don't give it back to others with what the honest man and Frank used, and then add WeChat to give it back to others later.

Method 2: Say that you want to participate in a praised activity, then make many people like it, add him a WeChat, and then let him praise you.

Option 3: My computer is too stuck. Do you know how to change the system? Can you help me change the system, and then when can I get it? Let's add a WeChat, and then thank you for helping me change the system. I'll buy you a drink, or I'll buy you dinner.

If you occasionally meet boys from other floors on the elevator, use the following method.

Method 1: First of all, you should follow him to the floor where he lives, or see where he eats lunch, and ask him what brand of tie, or watch, or where he bought it. Your brother or your brother has a birthday recently. You like his tie or watch very much and want to buy it for your brother as a gift. In case he says that my wife bought this for me, you can return it. Ha ha ha ha ha.

Method 2: One day, I got up the courage to grab him and said, "Sorry, I didn't know if my mobile phone was on the bar over there when I bought coffee just now. Can you dial my mobile phone number? " Let me see if it is on me. "Then your cell phone rang, and then you talked to him all the way and said that he felt a little familiar, and then you met him on purpose the next day, and then you met him from time to time. Look at the conservative estimate for a month and see if you can get on his WeChat.

As for how to chat after adding WeChat, it depends on what kind of boy the other person is. Some boys are straighter, less experienced and don't know much about picking up girls and girls' hints, while some boys have more experience and will understand girls' hints and so on. In fact, there is no difference between these two types, because for a boy with less experience, you may talk to him for a long time, but you have not succeeded for a long time, or you may suddenly become a boy with more experience.

For boys who don't quite understand your hints, have a variety of happy chats. I feel that I can say whatever I want, and there is no burden. Occasionally, I can talk about my girlfriend, what kind of movies I like, and whether I want to go to the movies. Then compare the relationship column just now to see if it is gradually mature.

For a boy who immediately understands that your hint will turn your face, you hint at him and see how he reacts. Then every day, all kinds of beauty, elegance and height appear in front of him or in his circle of friends. In the face of this kind of boy, if he doesn't tease you in turn, there is basically no chance, because there are a lot of sister papers waiting for him to tease you, and you may have to wait in line for a call. If you really like him, don't worry. For this kind of boy, the method you should take is to list the formulas first and wait for the answer. In other words, you put your attitude there first, and then take your time. You don't have to worry. For this kind of boy, there must be a few tips to pay attention to and say good night in time. For example, if you chat late, you will say that you are sleepy and want to sleep. Don't talk until he says you are sleepy. Don't give in blindly, and don't lose yourself because you like him. For this boy who often goes to pick up girls, you should have a close conversation with him instead of being a little woman and a good girl.

In fact, once you give your feelings, you can't get away with it. If you don't love them, you will get hurt first. As Ronghao Li sang, "I may talk about feelings, but I may put it off a little. The gun is in the middle and the knife is in the middle, but the suffering is too gorgeous to keep a low profile. Why did I lose all the love in the world? Be a special actor for all tragedies. "

Remember the first stage of analyzing why you like a boy? Ask yourself at this time, why do you like him? Comfort yourself from this angle. For example, I like him because he is handsome. Don't be afraid. If you sit in Hong Kong or Sanlitun, Beijing for a day, you will be full of hope for the world, because there will be many handsome guys, but your circle is limited. Don't be afraid, so you should learn to watch more slowly. If you are wider, you will be more handsome. Maybe you will gradually feel that all kinds of boys are very handsome. There is another one who must firmly believe that he can give up a love. There are many friends around me who have put down their secret love for many years, or have loved for a long time. This belief that you can do it will definitely jump into a string in your mind. Every time you want to give up and contact someone, think, I will definitely give up.

Finally, I recommend Xue Haoda's Welcome Men, which I read a few years ago. I don't remember all the contents, but I remember the sentences in it are very humorous. For example, if I send text messages to people again, I will never open Taobao again. Ha ha ha, and it is also very practical. I know that girls like a lot of things about a boy, but they can tell people far away, but not people around them. If you need someone to talk to, you can always trust me privately. I'd be happy to be your little ear.

Hehe, my favorite baby will lose weight in spring.