Parents often travel, what should I do if I can't accompany my children?

You can learn from the practice of Chengdu Gong's mother and write a letter to your child before going on a business trip, once a day, as a companion for your child. At this time, some parents will find it troublesome to write letters and feel that they don't have so much time and energy. This is no excuse or reason. Everyone is equally busy at work and needs to travel. Why can't their mother Gong do it, but some parents really think it's impossible. Gong's mother insisted on writing for four years, which shows that time will always be squeezed. Of course, the letter is not written casually and perfunctory. In that case, it's better not to write. For example, Teacher Gong designed a parent-child interaction link in each letter, and carefully designed a treasure hunt game that children loved, so that children could finish it themselves. She thinks this is the real companionship for the children.

In fact, both parents are the same. They are busy with work and life, and life is not easy. They all know the importance of accompanying their children. After all, the time spent with children is very short. When a child doesn't need company, it means that the child has grown up and can be independent. At this time, parents are thinking about accompanying their children, and it is too late.

Life is not long, it is not short. Don't ignore children's feelings when they need company most, and when they are busy at work, but there will still be ways to think about it. If a child's childhood lacks the company of his parents, it may cause the child's emotional loss. If parents wanted to remedy it at that time, it would not be so easy. After all, the character has been developed, and it will not be so simple to change it later.

If family members spend too little time with them, children and parents will have nothing to say directly, and children will easily hide their thoughts and even tend to be depressed. After all, there are many depressed children now. Work is important, but children are more important than work. Therefore, parents should use their brains to find ways to really accompany their children, even if they are on business trips, so that their children can have more parents and more fun in their childhood.