My brother borrowed 6.5438+0.5 million from me when he bought a house, and my boyfriend insisted that my brother write an iou. What do you think of this?

One's life can't be smooth sailing. There are always difficulties. For example, if you are short of money, you will ask friends and relatives around you to borrow money. When we borrow money from relatives, will they lend it to us?

Some people say that it is easier to borrow money than to pay it back, and many people have conflicts because of borrowing money. Many people borrow money and don't pay it back, while others have money and don't pay it back. Many friends and relatives around me have become strangers because of paying back the money.

Honesty is the basic principle of being a man. People without honesty can't eat anywhere, so today we will talk about the emotional story about borrowing money and family.

My brother borrowed 1.5 million from me when he bought a house, but my boyfriend insisted that my brother write an IOU. I broke up in a rage.

Some people may say that it is not normal to borrow money to write IOUs. You can't save this step just because you are a couple. You should know that this150,000 is not a small sum after all. What should a couple do if they break up in the future? The hostess will retort: I have been in love with my boyfriend for three years, and my boyfriend still doesn't trust me? He doesn't trust my family, but he doesn't trust me either. Is there any point in such a boyfriend and such a relationship? The old lady said the old lady was right, and the public said the public was right. Let's talk about it today.

My boyfriend and I are in free love. We met at a friend's party. After the party, my boyfriend took the initiative to pursue me. About half a year later, we got together.

My boyfriend works as a financial supervisor in a real estate company, with a monthly salary of about 654.38+10,000 yuan. The treatment is not bad. We talked together for three years, and the relationship has always been very good. And my boyfriend loves me very much, and we have never had any conflicts.

A while ago, we met each other's parents, and they also recognized our marriage, so we set the wedding date for this year's National Day. Seeing that the National Day is coming soon, we broke up because of money. I think it was my boyfriend's fault from beginning to end.

Because we want to buy a house, my boyfriend and I ran several real estates before and after, just in time for my brother to buy a new house, so we went to see the house with my brother. Later, my brother and my boyfriend took a fancy to the same property, and they both wanted to buy it. It's no problem to buy a house on a man's terms, but it's a little difficult for my brother to buy a house, so my brother wants to borrow 1.5 million from me, and I agreed without consulting my boyfriend.

After seeing the house that day, I told my boyfriend about my brother's borrowing money. My boyfriend promised to borrow money, but he insisted that my brother write an iou and stipulated that my brother must pay it off within three years.

I can't believe what my boyfriend said. Is this my boyfriend who has been in love for three years? Can I entrust such a man with his life?

I said angrily, we are going to get married soon, and my brother and I will be a family from now on. Should families help each other? You asked my brother to write an iou? Are you worried that my brother will not pay back the money? You obviously don't trust my family.

I didn't expect my boyfriend to retort: borrowing money is borrowing money, and human feelings return to human feelings. I didn't squander this 6,543.8+0.5 million.

I didn't expect my boyfriend to be such a person. He and I just got engaged. My brother had difficulty in buying a house, but he made my brother write an IOU. I really don't understand how much weight I have in his heart.

I've been thinking for a long time these days, and I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. Why? Because it can be seen from this incident that my boyfriend doesn't trust me at all, and he doesn't trust my family. What's the point of living with such a man?

Trust is the emotional foundation between husband and wife and lovers. Trust is not an excuse to borrow money. Don't borrow money from relatives and friends under the guise of trusting people.

Although the hostess and her boyfriend are engaged and will soon become husband and wife, borrowing money and getting married are two different things. The hostess's brother was short of money to buy a house, so he asked the prospective brother-in-law to borrow money, and the prospective brother-in-law agreed, but wrote an iou. This is also reasonable. Why does the hostess have to enlarge this matter and trust it?

Borrowing money is a mutual affection, and not borrowing money is a duty. I just want to ask the hostess: why do you want to write an iou to make a mountain out of a molehill? The three-year relationship was ruined by the loan, not to mention that the hostess was too hasty under the premise of engagement. If your brother really paid back the money, why didn't he write an iou?

Brothers should also learn to put themselves in others' shoes. As the elder brother of the woman in the article, I suggest that he take the initiative to write an IOU, which can not only resolve the contradiction between his sister and brother-in-law, but also make this matter be solved satisfactorily. Why not?