What should a man who loves you very much do when he doesn't love you?

When he doesn't love you, whether he loved you before and then forgot or never loved you, in short, when you can't be the person in his heart, his heart won't remember you, let alone care about you. Even if he knows that you love him deeply, he can feel your concern occasionally, but he would rather pretend not to know. People who don't love will always let go first, so please don't torture yourself for too long. Learn nature. If you choose to accept it strongly, your ending will be considered doomed, and maybe he will have some regrets. However, if you are not rational enough and always want to do something to save this impossible love, then your ending can only be considered by him to be out of character. When he doesn't love you, please don't bother him when you are unhappy or upset. His place is definitely not where you should be at the moment. Maybe he will comfort you lightly when he receives your call and say that he sincerely wishes you happiness, but that's all. When he doesn't love you, your love and your people will be much cheaper. It is human nature that you have disadvantages. Maybe you want more and say, "Let's meet. Can we have dinner together? " If you think that a meal and a meeting can save lost love, you are wrong and you are stupid. He must be very sad. He would say, "I'm busy now, waiting for an opportunity." You can call me later, or I can call you. "And don't take it seriously at this moment, he just found a less clever reason to prevaricate you. Please, don't really wait, don't lie to yourself, and there is no need to be sad. His busyness will not stop because of your waiting. Many things in life are very important to him, and the most indifferent thing to him is the lost love. When he doesn't love you, please don't tell him your trifles, and don't have nothing to say. These are the most stupid and meaningless. Maybe at this moment, you are kind and infatuated, but you just want to know each other better, and don't feel too strange at once. In fact, you just can't get through yourself for a while, but he has no time or interest to know you, your life, your past, your strengths and weaknesses. What does this have to do with him? Even if he knows, he will soon forget, just as he forgot what he once said to you. Without love, you are doomed not to squeeze into his life. Even if, even if you only want a small corner. In his eyes, all the advantages you once had became a burden and no longer attracted him. When he no longer loves you, don't always send him short messages and ask him, "How's it going? "If he is under great pressure at work, your message will only bring him irritability, but it won't help him get rid of the pressure. If he is really good, it is good that you know it in your heart. Learn to care and bless him silently! When he doesn't love you, don't recall your warm hugs and affectionate kisses. That will only make you unable to extricate yourself. The past is the past, and don't be stupid enough to let him kiss me again. Can you hug me again? Because this hug and kiss will not have enough magic to make him fall in love with you again. Even after he kissed you and hugged you for bad reasons, you were doomed to separate. Why bother someone who doesn't love you anymore, and you are reluctant to leave him? Also, he may occasionally appear in your dreams. Don't call him or tell him by email, you will be considered too immature. Even if he does appear in the dream, it is normal. Try to give yourself some time to forget slowly, and don't be too hard on yourself! ! When he doesn't love you, please don't be sad in front of him, let alone shed tears, because tears can't bring back love, but will make him look down on you even more. Don't tell him you are sad when you are sick, but learn to take care of yourself. He really doesn't have much energy to give you care and concern, or even just sympathy. Please be proud of you, don't give up your pride. Too many people are lost in love, and they don't even have the courage to stand up again. How can they be proud? However, always remember that only those who are willing and able to give true love are the ones who really cherish you, instead of saying to him sympathetically, "I am happy as long as you are happy." Once he loves you, he seems sincere. Once separated, even if it comes from your heart, it will make him feel that you are putting pressure on him. Why force a person who once loved? Happiness depends on yourself, don't pin it on anyone, understand? When he doesn't love you, your love is his burden. Please don't calculate what you have paid, don't expect anything in return, and don't reveal your nostalgia and reluctance to him intentionally or unintentionally, because everything has become the past. If you love someone who doesn't love yourself, there is nothing in return. You can't care about right and wrong, so you will be happier. Remember, the love between you and him is one-sided. You have a heart, but he doesn't. However, don't blame him, because maybe he once really loved you and wanted to do better. Don't be so cold to you, and he doesn't want such an ending. Just loving a person and being kind to a person is an ability. I'm sorry, he may have this ability, but your love is a mistake with no ending. His ability can't be wasted on you. Try to forgive him. Of course, don't be too pessimistic to think that his once love is not true, his once promise is false, and it is not easy for people to live, let alone choose love or not. There should be more understanding between people, not to mention the one who once loved. When he doesn't love you, don't spend all day thinking about what's going on between you and what to use to save our love, because the distance between you has alienated him standing in front of you, but you don't know how much you love him. You stand in front of him, but you dare not say you love him. Is such love still necessary to be saved? Please don't lose heart just because he says you are incompatible. Maybe your personality really doesn't suit him, but that doesn't prove that you are not a good girl. There will always be someone who likes your personality and lives for you, lives for you and struggles for you all your life. Loving a person is not because of her Excellence, but just a feeling. You once made him feel this way, so he once loved you. Similarly, he doesn't love you, which doesn't mean that you are no longer excellent. Excellence is really not a reason to love or not. Look at so many people who love themselves. Smile and find their confidence. We still have a lot to do with confidence. Love is not the only thing, nor is it the whole of life. When he doesn't love you, when you calm down, you should still think about whether you owe him anything, especially material things. Give it to him as much as you can, and your heart will feel better. What you can keep is the memory of your love, just don't let him know. If he is a generous man, he won't take back the gift he once gave you. If you are a sensible girl, please give him a practical gift patiently and carefully. Of course, it's not an exchange, but this relationship has a happy ending, and you don't owe him anything anymore. When he no longer loves you, you will often inadvertently go to the place where you were together. Everyone around you seems to be his figure, and every couple may remind you of the past; You will often think of the songs he sang for you. At this time, you will definitely feel like crying. Please learn to be strong, ok? When you are alone, don't anesthetize yourself with alcohol and cigarettes, because that shouldn't be a good girl's way of forgetting. If he knew, he wouldn't feel bad, but he was glad that he didn't continue to love a girl like you. You can listen to the song you sang together and cry heartily, but don't be stupid enough to set that song as your ringtone, because he probably won't call you again. Why expose yourself to other irrelevant people? When you choose to listen to songs, don't listen to songs like "Honey, why aren't you with me", "I love you so much" and "He doesn't love me" unless you are sure that you won't cry after listening to these songs. Choose some relaxing songs to listen to, such as Mice Love Rice, Two Butterflies, Aurora and Your Smile. Although they may not be in your mood when listening to songs, at least they can make you happy at that time. If possible, sing along. Vent all the depression in your heart, and tomorrow is a brand-new day. Please don't think of "forever" because of the happiness and good memories you once had. Remember: love is not forever. If you love him deeply at the moment, it is doomed that you can't love him or him in the distant future. He just arrived at this day before you. When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth in memory and gently stare at the faded tenderness. Although it is meaningless for him to advise you to recall the past, if you want to see the future, you can have the right and freedom to recall and not to recall. Maybe as time goes on, you will find that he is not as perfect as you think, and he is also an ordinary person. Then at that time, you will naturally choose to forget all your memories, indicating that you have really grown up and matured, so believe in yourself! ! When he no longer loves you, dear, please take a deep breath. The road of life is covered with buds of love, and there is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. But because many things are already doomed, just like the Buddha said that you looked back 500 times to get a short acquaintance, but the fate was not enough, so you can only give you a hundred days of love. Don't deceive yourself with fantasy and hope that we can be together in the next life, because everyone knows that this life is real, so we should all live well, cherish everything around us and don't leave any regrets. Fan Zhongyan in the Northern Song Dynasty knew that "we don't rejoice in things, we don't grieve for ourselves", not to mention us? If you know that the person you once loved can be happy, then everything is enough, even if he no longer loves you, what does it matter? You should be happy for him. When he doesn't love you, don't speak ill of him in front of others, especially your friends, because he still has the right to continue to love others and needs his social circle. Keep an open mind. After all, he is the person you once loved. When he doesn't love you, you must bless him and be sincere, regardless of gains and losses. When you can help him, be as generous as before, don't be stingy. With love, there should be no hate. Love is beautiful, but hate is cruel. Why let the best thing in life turn into harm? And don't feel unfair. About separation and forgetting, it is unfair between you. What he gave up and lost was a girl who loved him so much, and you just lost someone who couldn't love you anymore, but you got a chance to be reborn. Comparatively speaking, you are not happier! ! What should a man who loves you very much do when he doesn't love you? 2 1. Stop pestering him. When you know clearly that a man doesn't love you anymore, don't pester him any more. The more you pester a man who doesn't love you, the more he hates you and the more he hates you. Because his heart is no longer with you, no matter how gentle and considerate you are to him, he can't change his mind again. Instead of wasting all your time and energy on a man who doesn't love you at all, you might as well save some energy and strength to love yourself. As the saying goes, if you can't hold the sand, it's better to raise it early. You have to believe that only by saying goodbye to the wrong person early can you meet the right person. When you get rid of a relationship in name only, you should be grateful. I am glad that I finally realized the reality and got back on track, so that I can have a chance to start a beautiful relationship and life again. If you know clearly that a man no longer loves you, but you are unwilling or unwilling to give up, and you are still obsessed with him, then he will not only feel sorry for you or pity you, but will hate you more from the heart and get tired of you, and he will leave you faster. If you can get out early and know how to stop loss in time, then your rejection will easily leave him with a better memory. Therefore, once a woman realizes that a man no longer loves you, then you don't have to ask him why he broke up. All the reasons are just because he doesn't love you anymore. Other reasons are just excuses, excuses to break up with you. You don't have to take it to heart. Don't break up with him, look at your personality. When a man no longer loves you, you'd better stay with him. When breaking up, you should also pay attention to getting a decent one, and don't scold him. It's not necessary. When a man no longer loves you, no matter how reluctant you are, no matter how much you hate him, you should learn to calm down your excitement as soon as possible and try to break up with him calmly. Although breaking up is painful, especially when you really loved him once, or when you were deeply hurt by him, you must convince yourself to let go of this meaningless relationship completely. Don't speak ill of a man who no longer loves you. Perhaps, you may not be able to say something to him, such as "I wish you happiness", but at least you can keep a proper silence. Sometimes silence is golden. Since he doesn't love you, you don't need to waste your breath, let alone have a big fight with him, which will make the breakup scene too embarrassing and have a bad influence on both sides. 3. Don't compromise. When a man often lies to you, or betrays you again and again, he begins to stay out all night and disappears from your eyes easily, indicating that his heart has long since stopped loving you. No matter how much he loves you and how many romantic things he has done for you, you have to accept the fact that he no longer loves you. Now that you are fully aware that a man no longer loves you deeply, there is no need for you to continue to endure and compromise blindly in this meaningless relationship. A woman should love with dignity in any relationship. Don't compromise emotionally. You know he doesn't love you anymore, but you are still gentle with him. You still foolishly gave him all your love and sincerity, and in return, he cheated and teased you. Because he doesn't love you, he won't know how to cherish your love and warmth, but will only look down on you more and bully you more unscrupulously. Only by letting go early can we really get out of the misery. After all, feelings can't be forced and forced. When you find that a man's heart is no longer with you, no matter how much you forbear and compromise, he can't change his mind again.