A Happy Soul Forever —— In Memory of My Aunt

My aunt, who was nearly 70 years old, died of illness. 20 18 late autumn, sunny, near noon. Living in the present age, even if you are nearly 70 years old, you can't see any signs of aging. So is menstruation, unlike the old man.

When my sister and I visited my aunt, she had closed her eyes forever, only ten minutes before and after.

I believe in fate. Maybe I should see my aunt off for the last time. She walked peacefully, unable to see the pain of being tortured by the disease, as if she had just fallen asleep-all my aunt left at the last moment of her life was to reassure her relatives.

My aunt's son and daughter-in-law were present. They are very filial, their eyes are red and their tears are overflowing. It hurts to watch it-what is more sad than losing your mother?

My uncle is more like a child and doesn't want to believe the fact that my aunt left. When my sister and I stepped into the door, he was still shaking my aunt, stroking her back with his hand, softly but hurriedly shouting: open your eyes and have a look; I called you, and you promised me ... and menstruation couldn't hear my uncle's warm-hearted and anxious cry. ...

When I took out the money that my mother, brother and sister were going to visit my aunt and handed it to my uncle, he was like a child who lost his dependence, crying in confusion: "Your aunt left, who am I going to buy things for with the money?"

Hearing this, we, the younger generation present, burst into tears. As the saying goes, the young couple are always together and have lost their aunt and uncle. At this moment, they are like kites that have lost their center of gravity-how can they let go after more than 40 years of ups and downs? However, at that moment, my uncle's reaction was completely unconscious, which deeply shocked and touched me. This simple couple never downplays love, but expresses their sincere love in such simple words, which has already penetrated into the bone marrow and integrated into each other's lives.

My uncle is the only male among the six sisters. It is conceivable that in the most important 40' s and 50' s for men, my uncle was loved by grandparents and other elders, and was also cared for and treated by sisters. And my aunt also enjoyed this unique advantage after marrying my uncle ~ every member of the family cares about them and even dotes on them. At the same time, menstruation also undertakes the marriage in this big family of dozens of people, and is very busy and has no regrets. Everything has advantages and disadvantages, which is also obvious in menstruation's life.

According to the custom of our hometown, nephews need to wait at the door when they return to grandma's house at the full moon, and then take over and carry them into the house. Many of our cousins, mostly through the warm embrace of menstruation. My aunt often holds the baby in her arms, ha ha ha le, while commenting on the child's skin color and appearance, laughing happily. She likes all of us equally. At this moment, as if I saw the warm scene again, my aunt's tears overflowed. ...

Aunt's smile is very infectious, and can often be heard dozens of meters away, so that people around her can't help laughing.

My aunt is optimistic. Over the years, I have rarely seen my aunt wring her hand in anger, occasionally unhappy, and a few words have passed. Aunt seems to be born with no memory of her troubles, insensitive to pain, and so she was taken away by the wind.

My aunt is very easygoing. Whenever my mother and other aunts go back to their mother's house, my aunt will be very happy to talk and chat with everyone, and she can chat until midnight when she is in high spirits. If you say it, your troubles will be gone. My aunt is like everyone's pistachio. It's like adding oil to your home and living a happy life.

My aunt is very lucky. Although this big family has a large population, everyone in the family has a harmonious relationship, and brothers and sisters get along well. My aunt has been married to my grandmother's house for more than forty years, and I haven't heard of any conflicts and contradictions with her. Even uncles and brothers get along like a family. As a daughter-in-law, my aunt and grandparents have never had conflicts. I still remember my mother once told me the story of my aunt enviously, saying that my aunt would please my grandparents. For example, when I was working in other places, I could cheat like a child and let my grandfather buy popsicles to eat. Hehe, my aunt must have been lovely at that time.

My aunt has little education and doesn't know many words, but she lives very clearly. Being modest and gentle with neighbors is not inferior to educated people. Just because she doesn't know many words, it helps her a lot ~ she is not scared by the disease. Until the last moment of her life, relatives and friends were fooling her in good faith. menstruation didn't think much about it herself, just lived happily. Yes, people, how many can live clearly? Since we can't change the future, we should live with our heart. Now is wisdom, and my aunt has done it.

My aunt is also very strong. The pain my aunt suffered during her illness was very unbearable. But menstruation never sighs, and sometimes he is depressed because of illness, but he will soon recover and return to optimism. When my aunt was hospitalized for surgery in Yuhuangding Hospital, she was extremely strong and optimistic, and this strong optimism was not faked. It was my aunt's nature. I often marvel at my aunt's exuberant vitality, and this vitality and quality have made my aunt live with illness for many years. My good friend, the head nurse of my aunt's inpatient department, once told me: According to the usual practice, the survival time of this disease will not be too long, that is, three or four years, at most five years. And my aunt just lived twice as long, which has to be said that my aunt has created a modest miracle. This probably stems from menstruation's strong and optimistic nature.

I respect my aunt. Although my aunt is not tall, everything at home can be stirred up, and she rarely or never hears her complaints and grievances. It seems that at my aunt's place, these are all things within my scope of work, and it's no big deal. My aunt's heart is so bright.

My aunt is optimistic. I will always remember the way she laughed and almost cried. So, in my memory, as long as there is my aunt, no matter what, as long as I listen to her hahaha, you will feel that this is nothing and will never be disturbed again. Those annoying things are like clouds like the wind, and the wind will clear up soon.

My aunt is very happy. During her illness, her two sons and daughter-in-law spent everything they had to take care of her, especially her uncle. I often think: this is probably my aunt's blessing. There are so many people who can wait and accompany her to the last moment of her life.

There are still many memories about my aunt, so I will simply write them down to commemorate the day when I had my aunt ~ the dead rest in peace and the living continue. Continue the ups and downs of the world and experience the joys and sorrows of life.

Because a person's life is long and fleeting; To put it short, it seems that you can never live, but you waste a lot of precious time unconsciously. But after all, it is very meaningful to live a lifetime, no matter whether it is big or small. My aunt is an ordinary person. Her simple and ordinary life is also quietly blooming with her own light and heat, warming and shining on her loved ones. My aunt's life was not in vain.

Aunt, heaven is beautiful, because there is no pain; Heaven is also far away. Please have a pleasant journey to heaven. Aunt, bless you!

? Written by Peng Xia on 20 18. 1 1.9.

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