How can a girl who doesn't like it politely refuse if she likes herself?

If the girl you don't like likes you, you can take the following measures to politely refuse:

1, express your feelings clearly: First of all, tell the girl directly that you have no feelings for her, but pay attention to your tone and words, and don't hurt her self-esteem. You can say, "I appreciate your interest in me, but I feel that you are just a friend."

2. Give affirmation and encouragement: Even if you don't like this girl, try to consider the problem from her point of view and give her affirmation and encouragement, such as "You are a very smart and beautiful girl, and I believe you will meet better people."

3, don't give each other false hope: if you don't feel, don't give each other false hope. If you are not sure how you feel, just say, "I need some time to think about it." But be careful not to let her misunderstand that you have feelings for her.

4. Don't procrastinate: If you are sure you don't have feelings for her, tell her as soon as possible. Don't procrastinate, let her have more opportunities to get close to you.

5. Keep friendly relations: Even if you refuse her, try to keep friendly relations and don't let her feel that you are cold or hostile in front of her.

In a word, it is difficult to refuse someone, but if you don't like her, you should tell her frankly, instead of giving her false hope. Pay attention to tone and words at the same time, and don't hurt her self-esteem. Finally, keep a friendly relationship so that the other person won't think you are unfriendly to her.