After ten years together, he suddenly bought a car for his wife and accompanied her to travel. What should I do?

I'm from the north, and I speak straight. Forgive me for telling you the truth:

This is what he should do and what his wife deserves. People can't be too selfish, and they can't just think about themselves. You can put yourself in others' shoes. What would you do if it were your husband? What would you do if you were that person? You can either give up this relationship decisively. Either don't interfere in other people's housework, be a rational, wise and calm behind-the-scenes lover, and don't do stupid things. It's not good for either of you to care so much. After all, you once loved each other, and now you still care about each other and are attached to each other. Please think carefully, consider and evaluate. Is there anything else that attracts you? Is there any place and reason worthy of your continued love? Can you still tolerate each other? Is it possible and necessary for you to be together? If there is no hope and possibility, look back, turn that page over, turn it over. Start a new love and life. Keep the bits and pieces of the past in your heart as beautiful memories, and don't touch them easily.

I think my mind is more tolerant. Although I don't have a lover, I have no objection to having a lover together. I didn't mean to belittle or criticize you, just to give you an objective analysis. Life is short, happiness is the most important thing.