Is it necessary to send a group blessing message?

The Spring Festival is a good time for family and friends to get together. Usually no contact, intimacy, alienation, familiarity and strangeness. For a year, this rope was intertwined and involuntarily approached each other. It's okay to meet. This is a vast world, an idle time. There is naturally no pressure for everyone to chat, but for those who can't meet, they can only achieve the same wish with the help of developed communication facilities. Calling New Year's greetings, online videos, mobile phone messages, and emerging WeChat calls and videos are undoubtedly time-consuming, uneconomical, and not fast enough. Unless you are very close, you can try it, and it is impossible to spread it to all your relatives and friends. Short message is a popular form of communication, which is fast enough and convenient enough. It has been popular for more than ten years, and it still occupies the first channel of Spring Festival greetings, but the operators of short messages have changed.

On such a grand occasion as China New Year, everyone is eager to receive blessing messages. The more you receive, the more attractive your personality will be. Making more friends is a foaming agent for self-expansion. However, in many received messages, it is even more surprising that you find that different friends have sent the same blessing message, and some even changed their signatures before forwarding it. Will it still feel heavy? Of course not. You will regret finding yourself unimportant, and you will see through your friends' carelessness. Tap a button on a short message and the message sent to you will be sent to hundreds of people at the same time. Such a convenient operation ruined your friend's sincere and reliable image in your mind. It turns out that you are just a string of cold numbers in his New Year message, not a blessing but a radio wave to test the link. At this time, I often doubt the significance of texting and lose confidence in their sincerity.

The celebration of the New Year runs through the New Year's Eve, and most of them go home just in time for the New Year's Eve after experiencing difficulties and obstacles. Perhaps the only good time to reunite with your family is the New Year's Eve and the first day or two. At this time, you need to go out to visit relatives and friends often, as busy as catching up with your children. Therefore, the banquet on New Year's Eve needs to calm down and concentrate on being with parents and family, but this time is also the time when blessing messages burst out. Everyone can't stop the interference, because you can't rudely refuse other people's good wishes. Receiving sincere wishes will definitely add icing on the cake to the festival. It's not so good if the massive text messages on the screen fill your mobile phone memory like a plague. Will you be depressed? You'll get sick, won't you? These massive short messages are submerged in the torrent of truly meaningful greetings, which may make you miss the vital blessing information in your life. It may be that the person in your heart has not received a response for a long time after sending you a blessing of love and feels bad. Any unpleasantness during the Spring Festival will leave a shadow on the Spring Festival, and a bad beginning will always make people have an inseparable knot.

The maintenance of feelings lies in the management and dedication of both parties. Affection and friendship are two different feelings. We often treat them separately and maintain this sincere and long-lasting feeling with different attitudes and ways. However, greetings during the Spring Festival combine these two feelings into one. During the Spring Festival, relatives and friends can't tell clearly, and they don't want to make it so clear. Anyway, it's a happy and auspicious New Year. No matter what kind of affection and friendship can be compared, the disadvantage of mass texting is what kind of mentality is behind those words without feelings. The writing of blessing information is not the true meaning of the text of the group sender, and the sender may not recognize it. Maybe many senders send it directly without reading all the information at all, and the meaning itself is not important. The sender cares about the transmission itself. Let the other person think about it and see if I haven't forgotten you! Even if the same text message is sent to all the people in the address book, how many names can be stored in the address book as real friends? Not everyone is a true friend. A considerable number of them may be working partners who have met or never met. These people can't be mentioned in the same breath as relatives and friends, but there is no such choice in sending information. Family and friendship have lost their sense of reality here.

Finally, mention the meaning of blessing! The maintenance of affection between relatives and friends is not in these days of the Spring Festival, but the accumulation on weekdays is a continuous process, and the meaning of blessing lies in communication. Through the Spring Festival, we can get to know each other's recent situation, so as not to become strangers gradually. Even if you don't send any blessing messages during the New Year, I'm afraid no relatives or friends will find your guilty conscience. Why question the reason? Don't think that you must send the blessing of the Spring Festival at this time, which is the most expressive. Everyone thinks in a sincere direction, but ignores the inferiority of mass texting, or honestly compiles their own unique information to make the other party feel that you are sincere. If you can't do this, you must take mass messages to make up for it. I'm afraid the recipient doesn't have much impression or turn a blind eye to your initiative, and I hate this way of mass mailing most. In the end, I didn't even have the urge to continue dating. We often send a lot of information at a loss. You clearly know the way and source of this information, but you can't reply to the results one by one. You can either ignore it or forward another ready-made message to deal with the flying New Year messages, in addition to increasing considerable traffic for operators.

I hate mass texting, but I don't hate New Year greetings. Calling is the best way to pay a New Year call, but it's too late to settle for the second best. But I will edit the message one by one and try not to be the same. After all, all kinds of relatives, friends, teachers, classmates and comrades-in-arms sent them. Even if you slow down, how can it take a long time?