WeChat exposes your accomplishments

In the past, people used WeChat as a place for entertainment and entertainment, and they spoke casually without thinking too much. But now more and more complex interpersonal relationships are beginning to fill WeChat. Life, social networking, and work are all carried out in WeChat. You You will find that people are becoming more and more cautious about their words, and they have to think over and over again before posting to Moments.

WeChat's "voice" function is indeed convenient for a group of people, such as grandparents who can't type and can't see the phone screen clearly, and children who want to contact their parents before they can read. , but for adults entering the workplace, "voice" is convenient only for the person who speaks, not the person who listens.

Some people send long speeches to others regardless of occasion or time. The environment is noisy. Once they stop midway, they have to listen to it from the beginning, which is really inconvenient.

Even if it is really inconvenient to type, try to ask the other party first if it is convenient for them to listen, and try to shorten the content. Dozens of seconds of speech will only increase the pressure on the listener and will not bring convenience.

Saving yourself time and effort is smart, but making both parties comfortable is truly emotionally intelligent.

"Are you here?" is simply the most disliked word on WeChat now. It always makes people feel a vague uneasiness. It feels like once a reply is made, it will be an unforeseen surprise. Every time I receive "Are you here?" " will choose not to reply.

"Are you here?" If there is no further information for a long time, it will lead to endless imagination: Does he want to borrow money from me? Or do you want to do something with me? Is he telling me bad news?

Talking about something is the most popular way of socializing. If you really need an opening statement because you haven’t contacted for a long time, try to get to the topic quickly after the opening statement.

Don’t be afraid of small talk, but be afraid of meaningless back and forth, which will waste everyone’s time and energy.

There is always someone who is having a lively chat with you one second, but disappears the next second, leaving only the waiting person at a loss as the chat interface stops abruptly.

Should I be smart and quickly sense the signal that the other party is offline and continue to do my own thing, or should I wait for the other party to return after resolving the situation? It seems that no matter what I do, something is wrong.

Through the phone, no one knows whether your departure is due to an urgent matter that has to be dealt with, or whether you refuse to continue the topic. No one can be sure whether you will come back soon to continue, or whether you will come back next time if there is no news for a long time. Speak as if nothing happened.

It is normal to have emergencies to deal with in life, but if you are chatting with someone, please take a few seconds to reply with "It's urgent, we will chat later" or "Wait for me." , I’ll see you again when I’m done.”

If there is really an emergency and you don’t have time to reply, then you can add an explanation later. Don't let the person you're talking to overthink or feel discouraged by it.

Every now and then, friends from the WeChat list will pop up to do a test to detect friends, or it will be the kind of New Year greeting messages sent in groups during holidays.

When communicating as adults, you don’t need to regularly screen WeChat friends to determine who still considers you a friend. You know very well who contacts you frequently and whom you haven’t seen for several years. What you should do is not to spend time to see who has deleted you, but to leave your sincerity to true friends in this era when there are not many phone calls and emojis are everywhere.

Sincerity is not a mass message of congratulations, but a simple greeting with the other person’s name at the front. Sincerity means caring about and remembering the other person, remembering the other person’s preferences and habits, and thinking about his/her situation and progress. . ?