What if my ex doesn't return my message after breaking up?

First of all, you need to give your ex some time and space so that he/she can handle his/her feelings and emotions well. The time and way people need depends on the specific situation and individual differences, but many people need time to adapt to the changes brought about by breaking up and explore their feelings and ideas.

If your ex doesn't return your message for a long time, you should also consider whether you are too dependent on him/her or want to control his/her behavior too much. Many times, people may not return messages just because they are not ready or have enough ability to face the pain of breaking up.

Of course, if you want to communicate with your ex, you can find some suitable ways. For example, you can try to write him/her a sincere letter to express your feelings and thoughts, but don't expect the other person to reply immediately. You can also contact him/her directly by telephone or WeChat. , but pay attention to the appropriate way and words.

In short, breaking up is a painful thing for everyone, and it takes time to accept and adapt. In this process, we should fully respect each other's feelings and decisions. Don't force your ex to reply to your message, give him/her enough time and space to deal with his/her feelings.