How can relatives borrow money to get it back?

To answer this question, we need to consider some factors, such as the distance between relatives, the size of the loan, the purpose of the loan and whether there is a repayment agreement. Here are some possible ways:

1. Speak directly: tell your relatives your needs directly and ask them to repay as soon as possible. This method is simple and direct, but it may also make the other party feel embarrassed or uncomfortable.

2. Help others: You can collect debts with the help of others, such as mutual friends or relatives. This third party can gently remind the other party of the repayment and help coordinate the repayment plan.

3. Make a repayment plan: If relatives can't pay off the loan in one lump sum for the time being, they can negotiate to make a repayment plan and agree on the repayment time and amount. This will allow both sides to have clear expectations and plans and reduce unnecessary contradictions.

4. Give a grace period: If relatives encounter an emergency and cannot repay the loan on time, they can consider giving a certain grace period to allow the other party enough time to raise funds. This can show your understanding and concern, while protecting your own interests.

Either way, you need to be patient and understanding in the process of recovering the loan, and at the same time avoid hurting your relatives as much as possible.