A smart wife sends a message to her mistress (a smart wife does three things)

Love in marriage is like medicine soaked in wine.

Often because of being immersed in the bitter water of life for a long time, feelings disappear completely and evolve into accompanying family affection or entangled complaints.

Zhao Qing and her husband Zheng Zhi have been married for more than 20 years. When people reach middle age, her work has passed the peak and become stable. Her life centers on her husband and children.

Although there are not many surprises and fun in this life, it is also a kind of happiness for a family of three.

Their marriage was calm on the surface, but it was already undercurrent.

Only Zhao Qing didn't realize it until one day when she was cooking, she received a short message from her husband on her mobile phone.

The message said: Honey, don't worry. Give me some more time, and I'll divorce that boring yellow-faced woman. I have no feelings with her for a long time. I'll go to that house with you tomorrow and give you a home, okay?

After a man changes his mind, marriage just becomes a form, just like an empty shell, proving that he once loved.

Shelia lotus was silent for a long time to react. This is a message from her husband to another woman!

When did she become a boring woman and a yellow-faced woman in his eyes?

Shelia was shocked when she saw the news. She tried to rule out the possibility that her husband would betray his marriage, but in the end it was the only answer.

Recalling the ups and downs they have experienced in the past 20 years, Zhao Qing burst into tears.

She sat on the kitchen floor for a long time. As soon as the steamer rang, shelia was pulled back to reality.

Anyway, since it is a foregone conclusion, we can't escape.

Whether you are born or married, you must give yourself an explanation.

My husband sent a message to Xiao San to Zhao Qing by mistake. After that, she did three things:

The first thing:

Try to control your emotions and find out the problems of marriage.

She recalled the marriage in recent years, and they had already killed their love.

Love has evolved into a family relationship of interdependence and mutual protection, and even become the most familiar stranger.

With the mutual affection of the past, we are unscrupulous in front of each other.

Endless complaints and quarrels, I don't know how long I haven't communicated with my heart. Even the last time a family sat down for a good meal seemed a long time ago.

Zheng Zhi often works overtime. She thought it was work pressure, but she didn't expect to be a witch of marriage.

Marriage without love is illusory and a black hole. Shelia is not ignorant of this truth.

However, Zhao Qing is unwilling to give up the warmth and stability at her fingertips when she thinks of her son who just went to college and can't struggle in his forties, and this warm and complete home.

In the face of such a huge marriage change, Zhao Qing had no one to talk to and called her son trembling.

Zhao Qing's son has just been admitted to the university. Zhao Qing told her son that mom and dad might get divorced.

My son Zheng Yun was silent for a long time and said, "Mom, although I don't want you to get divorced, it's your business. I don't interfere. "

The second thing:

I asked my son for advice, and with his support, I chose a divorce.

Zhao Qing felt that his son's words gave him great courage. He is middle-aged. Why did he compromise for a heartless man and ruin his happiness for the rest of his life?

Sometimes, thinking too much will hinder your pace.

Never, never wronged yourself for an unworthy person. With this in mind, Zhao Qing decided to divorce her husband.

Sometimes, it is not the strong reality that hinders us, but the weak mind.

The decision to divorce is necessary, but what is more important is the life after divorce. Zhao Qing decided to fight for some property after divorce, because her son still needs the support of study and life.

The third thing:

Have evidence of her husband's infidelity,

Fight for marital property. According to this short message sent by her husband by mistake, Zhao Qing gradually determined that the woman was a female colleague of her husband's unit by chatting with her husband's colleagues.

Holding the evidence of his betrayal of marriage in his hand, shelia felt a little sad, and at the same time strengthened her decision to divorce.

One weekend, shelia left Zheng Zhi at home to have a showdown with him.

After all, a couple, neither of them wants to make it too ugly.

Looking at the evidence in his wife's hand and the tears in his eyes, Zheng Zhi was speechless.

He once loved, but marriage gradually became a shackle, and extramarital love made him helpless.

In the end, the two agreed to divorce, and Zheng Zhi gave half of the property to shelia.

On the day when she came out from the Civil Affairs Bureau, Zhao Qing felt relaxed and free, and she smelled the breath of a new life.

Divorce is not hot-headed anger. Divorce is a struggle for one's rights and a just demand for the price of the other party's betrayal of marriage.

After divorce, Zhao Qing regained her freedom. With this money, she started a new life.

Three years after the divorce, Zheng Zhi found shelia and wanted to remarry her. However, when he saw her change, he regretted it.

Zhao Qing has become braver, more confident and more free and easy than before.

Once, in the marriage with Zheng Zhi, Zhao Qing always wanted to save a little for her family and husband and wronged herself.

But at the same time, I gradually developed the habit of sacrificing myself and losing myself.

At that time, she didn't eat or wear, but she became a "yellow-faced woman" in his eyes.

In marriage, women are reluctant to eat or wear, or they are not too distressed by men's money.

I lost myself and didn't have time to dress myself up, or it wasn't because I put all my energy into my children and husband.

After the divorce, it took Zheng Zhi three years to know how good his ex-wife was. However, it is too late. Because Zhao Qing doesn't agree to remarry.

Advise all men: when people reach middle age, don't be blinded by lard for a temporary "love". Cherish the woman who accompanied you to middle age, cherish the woman who talks to you every day and tries to please your stomach.

After the divorce, Zhao Qing can finally live for herself.

Women are lucky to have love in middle age, and happy to marry love, but when love disappears and her husband betrays, don't be blinded by temporary illusory love.

In marriage, women learn to love themselves, which is a way to manage love.

When you don't love, it is also a living method to find yourself and live for yourself.

No matter when, don't make do with it. A woman who knows how to love herself is the happiest destination.