The wife sent a message to her ex-husband.

No, just contact. This is not cheating. Let's sit down and talk it over. Make it clear that you can't contact your ex again.

Usually, there are two ways for a wife to contact her ex. First, although we broke up, we are still friends and care about each other. As a husband, you should trust your wife and be kind to her, lest she be moved by others to go with him.

Second, it is possible that your wife only cares about her ex-boyfriend as a friend, but his ex-boyfriend still has a good impression on your wife. Emphasizing his divorce to gain sympathy, they may get back together, so you should be nice to your wife, so that even if she has a good impression on her ex-boyfriend, she will have a better impression on you.

So first of all, you should know why your daughter-in-law contacted her ex-boyfriend and try not to quarrel. Don't fight even if you quarrel. Although she is wrong, it's your fault that you started it. You can talk to her and try not to get divorced. One is the influence on both parties, and the other is that since we are married, we should be responsible for each other and solve problems.

Divorce is not the only way to solve the problem, but it is the worst way. We're all adults. I think it is necessary for you to talk to each other. If there is anything, please discuss it first. Just talk amicably. In fact, the communication between husband and wife is the most important. It is necessary to know each other's needs. The quarrel will only get worse. Husband and wife should have the most basic trust.

Since she married you, it proves that you are still better than her ex-boyfriend. This is absolute. Nobody is stupid. It's mainly about communication and trust. Don't mention divorce easily, it will hurt too much and cover too much. It is said that marriage is a matter for two families, and so is divorce.