How to notify the funeral?

You can send text messages and mass obituaries, like this:

My father died on the third day of the first month because of illness and treatment. I want to choose the eighth day of the first lunar month for funeral. Please come and offer your condolences then. The simple table is located at home in Beijing.

The unfortunate son * * * has more than one bargained for.

basic concept

1. undertaker sent a letter to his relatives and friends immediately after his death, which was called "mourning".

2. After the death of the victim, the whole family cried and parked the body on the coffin bed. In front of the coffin bed, there are incense tables and offerings. The filial daughter burned seven and a half knives (1 knife, 100 sheets of paper) and burned the paper cart and paper horse outside the door, which was called "coffin burning cart".

3. Send paper to Wudao Temple. The dutiful son holds a dustpan with incense, wine and paper money in it. Other relatives cry after the dutiful son, which is called "sending paper" or "reporting to the temple".

After the death of the mourner, the villagers and neighbors bought some "burning paper" to mourn and comfort their families. Most people who hang paper are women. The daughter-in-law of the deceased saluted and accompanied the sacrifice.

5. kowtow to relatives and friends before the funeral, and the dutiful son kowtows filial piety. It means that the old man died and the younger generation was guilty, kowtowing and apologizing to relatives and friends.

6. List the names of the family members of the deceased, with paper hanging by the door, male left and female right. When my father died, the book on the book list was "Therefore, I first took the exam that year and died"; Mother's death is on the list, "so I die first, year month day, natural death".

7. Entering the coffin at noon or at night on the second day after death is called entering the coffin, also called entering the coffin. Before the ceremony, the coffin was placed. Then, the deceased was wrapped by the dutiful son, with his back facing the sky, and put into the coffin. Cotton and toilet paper were stuffed around him, and two cakes and 1 nine rings were put in the sleeve of the deceased, which was called "beating the dog". Before covering the coffin, the family members of the deceased wiped the mouth, nose, ears and eyes of the deceased with cotton balls dipped in sesame oil. Then, the heir "tied" the coffin lid and nailed it to death. The whole family wept bitterly, and neighbors, relatives and friends went to mourn with paper, silk and fruit.

8. After seeing him off, the dutiful son went to Wudao Temple to see the deceased with a broom and paper and the old clothes of the deceased. Drummers played funeral music. All undertaker walked around the temple, told the dead to get on the bus, and then put the life paper and old clothes into the paper car to burn. The filial son cries, relatives and friends bow to the north, and the filial son responds, which is called "seeing off" and commonly known as "receiving funeral".

9. Funeral is also called sending, which refers to the etiquette of burying the dead. Before the funeral, relatives and friends saluted in front of the coffin, which was carried out of the courtyard and parked outside the door. The drummer played funeral music, and the eldest son or other heirs broke the filial son's basin and carried the banner in front of the coffin. The eldest daughter-in-law held the jar, followed by other children and relatives and friends, and walked to the cemetery. The coffin was carried by 8 people, 16 people, 32 people and 64 people. The man walked in front, the woman rode behind, and the son-in-law of the deceased scattered paper money along the road. Pregnant women can't go to the cemetery. Birds and beasts, cash cows, yin and yang families, boys and girls with colored paper are all sent to the cemetery for burial in pairs. On the way to the funeral, when the coffin carrier put the coffin to rest, his son knelt in front of the coffin and kept crying until he was lifted up again. After arriving at the cemetery, the funerary objects were burned first, and then the coffin was put into the hole. The eldest son was buried in the first milling soil, and the others were buried in the grave. The evocation coffin was inserted in the grave and rested in peace. At the time of burial, the daughters-in-law grabbed a handful of soil in front of the tomb, commonly known as "robbing money." It is said that whoever gets home first will get rich first.

10. On the third day after the funeral in Fushan, we should go to the grave to offer sacrifices. At that time, sacrifices such as pigs, chickens and tofu will be used to burn incense booths and paper horses, which are called "Floating Mountain". The funeral is over. After that, every year, the whole family will prepare sacrifices to visit the grave.

165438+ The grave is filled again, which is called "round grave". Sacrifice every 7 days until July 7. On the May 7th Festival, the memorial service was large, and all the children at home came to burn paper in front of the grave. The deceased died 100 days, called "one hundred days", and all the children arrived. On the first, second and third anniversary after death, a ceremony was held, and children, relatives and friends came to the grave to pay homage with paper, silks and offerings; Give a banquet to entertain friends and relatives, which is called "anniversary celebration".

12. When the direct descendants of the deceased were in mourning, Ma Wei was approved (Manchu was in the county, not Ma); Collateral descendants, Dai Xiao does not recognize hemp. When the deceased has great grandchildren, it is called "white". Great-grandson Dai Xiao has red stripes on his shoes and hat. Holding an offering to mourn, the closest relative gives 1 mourning hat; Distant relatives give filial piety 1, men tie their waists and women tie their heads. The children of the deceased have been in mourning for 3 years, their parents have died, and their shoes are all white; Only 1 died, and most of the uppers were covered with white cloth. During the period of filial piety, children do not pay New Year greetings to their elders, nor do they hold happy events.

13. Coffins vary in size and thickness. The coffins of the rich are all made of pine and cypress, the coffins of the poor are all made of willow, poplar and miscellaneous wood, and the word "longevity" is engraved on the front of the coffin. Poor people also have reed mats for burial. Rich families don't prepare coffins until they are over 60 or 70 years old, and poor families or people who died of sudden illness don't start making coffins until they die, which is called "catching up with thermal engineering".

14. After the founding of New China, governments at all levels proposed to change customs and simplify funerals. 1960, all communes in the county built cemeteries, moved old graves to cemeteries and buried them with thin coffins. /kloc-0 started cremation in June 1969, and/kloc-0 basically realized cremation in the whole county in June 1975. Funerals are beginning to increase again.

15. Centenarians die of red, not black and white.