I didn't reply to the military text message I sent to my object.

You made it clear that your boyfriend is in a military school, which means that you subconsciously think he is in a military school, and he may be very busy. However, at the same time, you are ambivalent. Do you doubt that the military academy will be busy? Every military school has different rules. You can ask them seriously next time you meet. Also, if you choose a military school boyfriend, it means that you may face more loneliness than other girls. Let nature take its course and bless you.