Should a mother-in-law scold her daughter-in-law?

Mother-in-law will always be angry with her daughter-in-law, and there will always be disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Wait until you finally get married after 30 years, and then you can find the feeling of being a mother-in-law from your daughter-in-law.

In daily life, due to some misunderstandings or contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, should mother-in-law scold back?

Tell you clearly: you shouldn't scold back.

First of all, the elderly must respect.

Respecting the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, an important embodiment of our family education and a concrete embodiment of our personal cultivation.

It is wrong for old people to curse, and it is even more wrong if we scold or fight back.

After all, my mother-in-law is an old man or elder. If she does something wrong or does something wrong, we can communicate effectively with her mother-in-law through appropriate channels.

You can convey your thoughts or opinions to her.

I believe that if my mother-in-law is not a hard-hearted person, she will realize her mistake and apologize to you in an appropriate way.

Second, it has its own shortcomings.

As the saying goes, it takes two hands to make a sound.

Mother-in-law is not right to curse, of course, it is her fault, but we may also have some shortcomings or problems ourselves.

We should deeply reflect on our own problems and think about why our mother-in-law is angry and why her mother-in-law calls names:

Whether to make mistakes first;

Whether you don't respect your mother-in-law or you don't think it over;

Is it a long-term contradiction between yourself and your mother-in-law, or an accidental emergency, and so on.

We should reflect on our shortcomings and problems and correct them thoroughly.

Third, it is easy to cause domestic violence.

If the mother-in-law does something wrong again, she is also her husband's biological mother. If she doesn't look at the face of the monk and the face of the Buddha, you shouldn't scold her.

If you were angry at that time, you would "scold" or "reply" to your mother-in-law's scolding, which is not only rude to you, but also makes other people at home or outsiders look at jokes. Originally you were right, but now you are unreasonable.

If husbands or other family members are present, they can control their emotions. If they can't control their emotions, if they hit you, it will become domestic violence, which may lead to greater contradictions.

There are many reasons why mother-in-law should not scold back.

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is complicated and difficult to solve, and we need to solve it with reason, wisdom, patience and love.

I hope every mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can live in harmony.