What do you think of this kind of person who doesn't return text messages or phone calls?

From the perspective of interpersonal communication, it is impolite not to answer text messages or phone calls. This feeling of "turning a blind eye" is much worse than shouting at the valley twice and hearing the echo.

However, this kind of behavior is difficult to directly show that this person or this person has certain characteristics, and even they are probably the impeccable one in daily communication. Maybe they just hate text messages and phone calls, or they are not enthusiastic about feedback, or they didn't reply in time and forgot afterwards, or they may have something to do with you and don't care about your feelings ... just guess their motivation for this behavior.

In my opinion, this kind of communication is essentially constipation. If strangers regard business as an opportunity for communication, it is undoubtedly not conducive to work; If you are an acquaintance, it's a little hot and cold. Especially when inviting, a clear refusal is better than silence (even silence may be an answer). This is like an experiment about rice that I saw somewhere. Under the same conditions, when praising, ignoring and scolding the same rice, the pile of rice that was ignored a few days later was the most corroded. This is not necessarily a scientific experiment. I just want to say that indifference is too indifferent.

As for dealing, business is business, as long as it doesn't affect the work too much, you can also use other communication tools, such as email. If you know each other, you can ask TA why she did this, whether she didn't like this way of communication or other reasons, and you can kindly remind her. And if you are friends, you will have the opportunity to discuss the reasons behind this behavior. Either TA is willing to change for this, or you can accept the status quo. Maybe after I understand it, I will understand TA, so I won't blame it with strong emotions.

For those who don't answer text messages or phone calls, put themselves in the inbox of the other person. How do you feel when your text message dies and you don't respond or even call someone back?