How to date single women nearby

The first is: Invite when the chat atmosphere is high

When you and your target are chatting together, whether it is on QQ, text messages, phone calls, or even when chatting up , the more you chat, the more interested you become, especially when you talk about the same topic, you feel that the atmosphere between the two parties is getting higher and higher. At this time, you can throw out an invitation, such as: "Listening to you, I feel like you too He’s a very interesting person. He’s free tomorrow night. Let’s go out for a drink.”

After the invitation, chat for a few minutes and end the conversation while you are still at a high point.

The second is: Invite when you chat and share the same interests

"By the way, can you play board games?"

"Yes. "Acridine, but now there are fewer. When I was studying, I often played Three Kingdoms with my friends."

"That's good. My friends and I have a board game party every week. If we are free on weekends, we can go out together." Playing board games"

When two parties have the same interest in chatting like this, you can make an invitation related to this interest point.

For example, if you both like the outdoors, when you talk about the outdoors, you can make an invitation to go hiking together.

The third is: Invite one day in advance

Generally beautiful girls will have appointments on Saturdays and Sundays, so generally when you want to invite your target, try to make an appointment one day in advance For example, if you want to ask your target to go out for dinner on Saturday, it is best to call her on Friday night. In this way, if someone else asks her out again, she will usually turn it down. < /p>

The second factor in an invitation is the time of the date

Most people may think that Saturdays and Sundays are more suitable for dates because everyone has a day off. However, many beautiful women may have appointments on Saturdays and Sundays, and some of the targets may even have boyfriends, and they will spend time with their boyfriends on Saturdays and Sundays. So, in fact, Monday and Thursday nights are also good dates.

For example: You can call her around 12:30 noon or 4:00 pm from Monday to Thursday and say: "I happen to be going to XX (the place where the target is located) today/I I happened to be meeting a friend in XX (where the target is), and suddenly I remembered that you work here/you live here. Maybe we should go out for dinner together in the evening? ”

Most girls do this after get off work. Time, many people stay at home after get off work, and they must go to eat after work. It doesn’t matter if they eat by themselves or with you. So at a time like this, if you go to make an appointment with her in advance, she may also be going to dinner. As long as you give her a reasonable reason, she will usually be willing to come out. Moreover, you don’t need to be in the exact place where you are. You can be at home, open your mobile phone address book, and say the same thing to different targets. If a target is willing to come out, you can go there.

The third factor of the invitation is the theme

The theme of the invitation is very important.

If you directly say: "Let's go out on a date tomorrow/Let's go out to play tomorrow", then the target will definitely not follow you.

But if you say like this: "Let's go out for a drink together tomorrow night. I know there is a very unique coffee shop over there in Sanya Bay. On the 20th floor, you can see Sanya." The sea view of the bay, and the music there is wonderful, we can have a drink and chat together.”

In this case, it will be easier for her to accept it, because she feels that you are a person with good taste in life, and she knows where you are going, so that she will feel safe, and she also cares about you. It is said so well that there will be some curiosity in a place.

For another example, you said: "We have a PARTY in Jiefangbei on Saturday, and many friends will come over there. I thought you were a very interesting person last time I saw you, so let's come over and play together."

This is a PARTY-themed invitation, and you just think she is an interesting person, and it will be more fun if there are more people. It does not reveal your sense of need, so she will be more willing. come out.

The topic also includes location. Try to choose a place close to the target’s home or work for the first date, so that she will be more likely to come out with less investment. If you have only known each other for a short time and don't have much sense of connection with each other, and you directly invite her to a place that takes an hour or two to ride, she will usually not come out.