I really want to ask you a 400-point question. Thank you.

1. Don't fall in love because of loneliness. Time is the devil. If you are an affectionate person, you will have feelings even if you don't love each other. What will you do in the end?

2. Don't get married for responsibility. You know, marrying someone who doesn't love them is the most irresponsible. Even if it made the other person sad at that time, it was better than making him sad for several years or even a lifetime.

No matter how old you are, no matter how urged by your family and friends, don't treat marriage casually. Marriage is not playing cards, shuffling cards will cost you a lot.

4. There is basically no right or wrong in emotional matters. When he (she) wants to leave you, there is always something you can't satisfy him. Looking back on the past days together is always beautiful. Of course, there are also despicable emotional liars, whose sweet words are completely aimed at defrauding each other and sleeping with themselves. Such people are still very few.

It doesn't matter to fall in love with a person with many different living habits. Be careful when getting married. Think about whether you can tolerate each other's differences for a long time.

6. Some people say that finding someone you like in love and finding someone you like in marriage are all one-sided. Lovers don't like themselves. What is there to love? My wife doesn't like how to live.

7. If you really love someone, you should try to make him happy. He is happy, you are happy, and then both sides have passion.

8. Don't give up pursuing your plan because your looks are not as good as each other. Appearance is only a temporary impression, and the real decision on whether to combine depends mainly on the personalities of both sides. I've seen handsome guys with ugly girls, and there are too many ugly girls with handsome guys.

9. Women should learn to dress themselves up, don't use simplicity as a shield, don't use housework as an excuse, and a woman who doesn't understand fashion is not complete.

10. Love can last as long as possible. This has at least two advantages: first, enjoy the pleasure of love for as long as possible, and the feeling of marriage and love is very different. Second, the longer you get along with each other, the more you can test whether you are sincere or not, and the more you can see whether your personality is compatible. In this way, the feelings after marriage will be much stronger.

1 1. Men are not bad, but women don't love them. This kind of bad does not mean cruelty, selfishness and ruthlessness. Of glib words, sweet words. Generally, a good man thinks that saying sweet nothings is a frivolous expression, so he doesn't want to do it. It's wrong to say that to others, but be glib with your wife. Why can't you be a man with a good heart and a smooth mouth?

12. It is said that marriage is the grave of love, because before I got married, I was already on my way to the grave. Even if you don't get married, you will break up at the grave. Why not break up first and then dive into the grave?

13. A woman who can only read is a dictionary. No matter how good things are, people will only see them when they need them. A woman who can only dress up is just a vase, and she will look like that for a long time. Dressing up beautifully is a necessary condition to be a good woman, not a necessary condition. You need to read more books. In this way, you will find life better.

14. Dull is true, yes, but it should be dull after passion, passion and dullness. Passion should appear alternately in waves. What's the point of living a dull and passionate life? As long as you really love him, you will have passion until you die.

15. Do you love him? Love tells him why he should hide the pain of missing in his heart. Afraid of appearance, status and identity mismatch? Don't be afraid, it is beautiful to love someone.

16. My wife and mother fell into the river. I saved my mother first, because my mother gave me life, and I couldn't find any reason to leave her alone. If my wife is not rescued, I can bury her again and continue our love in the grave.

17. It is wrong to get married hastily. Never divorce hastily again. Try it first, it's really not good, and it's not too late to leave.

18. It is often said that masculinity means femininity. Do you know what masculinity and femininity are? Masculinity means being open-minded and brave, while femininity means being gentle and considerate.

19. What is charm? Charm does not lie in beauty. Beautiful women may not attract me, but I like dignified and elegant women. So you don't have to worry about not being beautiful enough.

20. First love is unforgettable and beautiful. Why? Not because he (she) is beautiful or handsome, nor because what he (she) can't get is good, but because when he (she) just fell in love, he (she) was naive and didn't have any selfish ideas, only knowing to love each other with all his (her) resources. And the love in the future is not so pure. Innocence is the most precious thing in the world. It is her that we long for.

2 1. Most people who first love don't understand love, so their first love fails. Less successful. Get married with an unmarried person, because everyone likes the original one. In love, it is better to find someone who has been in love. Because people who have been in love know what love is and how to love.

22. Men become bad when they have money. Yes, many men become bad, but men who have money become bad, even if they have no money, are not much better.

Whether a man can give you a sense of security lies not in his height at all, but in his high heart. I have met many tall and timid men. I've seen short and high-spirited men. You have to be proud to be a man. Of course, the premise is to be talented.

24. Is it forever? Of course there is! Why don't most people believe there is? Because they haven't found the one that suits them best in their life journey. That is, the one who is destiny takes a hand. Why can't you find it? The vast sea of people, life is like dew, how easy is it to find the one that suits you best? You may find destiny takes a hand at 40, but can you wait until you are 40? I couldn't find it in my twenties, so I had to get married. I found it in my thirties and forties, but I had to give it up. This is the sorrow of life.

25. Why do you seldom see the legendary everlasting and touching love story in your life? Because such feelings are precious, are precious things so beautiful? Do gold and diamonds look good?

26. When I was lovelorn before, I hated her and why she was so heartless. When I hear the bad news about her, I will snicker. Not now. Even if I lose her, I will bless her and sincerely hope that she can live well. I'll be sad that she's not doing well. This is also the difference between liking and loving.

27. It will be very happy to fall in love with smart people, because they are humorous and can talk, but there is always a crisis, because such people change their minds easily. Falling in love with honest people will be very reassuring, but life is also boring.

28. Women should not be too competitive. Some women have too much pride. It's someone else's fault. She is very strong. It's her own fault. She is also very strong. She always thought it was despicable to beg others, and she would never beg a man. Such a woman is a headache. A smart woman will know when to be strong and when to show weakness. You are so strong, you should be kind to others. If you are so strong to the person you love, do you want him to take care of you?

29. It depends on whether a person has connotation, internal speech and external clothes. You can also read and write. Talking can reveal a person's knowledge and accomplishment. Dress can tell a person's taste, and writing can tell a person's character.

30. If you want to know whether a person loves you or not, it depends on whether he is energetic or unhappy with you. If so, he will love, if not, he won't love.

3 1. Some people always complain that they can't find good people. It doesn't matter once or twice. Too much is a problem. First, you should review whether you have any problems. If not, you should check your own eyes. Why do you meet bad people every time?

32. Some people say that once a man changes his mind, nine cows can't be pulled back. If a woman changes her mind, can nine cows be pulled back? There are only physiological differences between men and women, and they are almost the same psychologically.

33. Love has little to do with personality. Once upon a time, a female colleague told me that she liked Yang Kang in The Condor Heroes, but she didn't like Guo Jing. I'm surprised. I love bad and hate good? On second thought, it was nothing. It is wrong for Yang Kang to regard the thief as his father and win honor for his country. But he is persistent in love. Why can't such a person enjoy love? There are also such examples in real life, and young people also have their love.

Some people say that love without bread will eventually die. The person who said this doesn't know what love is. I have been in love before, and I hate it when people say that the woman has good conditions and good conditions. I don't care about your background, education or status. If I love you, I don't care if you shine shoes or even do it. Adults call me naive. How can you live without money? When did I ever say that I was rich and never loved? I am also very happy with the people I love, drinking water and eating pickles.

35. If you really love someone, you will be willing to change for him. If a person goes his own way in front of you and ignores the behavior you don't like, then he doesn't love you. So if you don't care enough about him or he doesn't care enough about you, then you don't love him or he doesn't love you. Don't think you are careless or believe that he is a careless person. Cowards will become brave when they meet people they really love, and similarly, careless people will become cautious.

36. Being interested in the other person and not saying it is the highest state of love. Because at this time, both of them are enjoying the glad eye, the fiery psychology of eye contact and the thrilling feeling when touching their fingers. Once you say it, the taste will be much lighter, because after two people agree, all behaviors have been recognized, and with psychological preparation, they will gradually become numb in the end.

37. A radish and a pit are talking about marriage. In fact, for love, it is not established. Excellent people, regardless of gender, will be a radish with several pits. So every day there are stories of joys and sorrows in this world.

38. There are two kinds of lovely women. One is the mother type, very considerate, very caring and considerate of men. With such a woman, you will feel strong love. There is also a sister type. Very timid, very shy, very dependent on men, and such a woman together, will stimulate their men's personality. For example, beating mice and lifting heavy objects. I often think about protecting my little woman. There is another kind of woman who doesn't care about others and never gives in to men. Such a woman makes men helpless.

39. Being stingy is a taboo for men. Don't be poor even if you are poor. Some people complain that women only love men's money, but it's not necessarily true. Some women like men to spend money for her, sometimes to prove their position in men's minds. When a man likes a woman, he will be willing to spend money for her.

40. Neither men nor women are tired of work. Because in front of the opposite sex, men always like to show their manly side. Only in this way can you be like a man, so male chauvinism is sometimes necessary.

4 1. Pursuing the opposite sex is a common saying. In fact, the other person doesn't like you, and it's no use chasing you. The other person likes you, there is no need to dig deeper. Maybe one day he will be moved by your sincerity, but most of them will break up in the end. Because love is not touching, you are not his ideal partner, even if you are accepted for a while, you will leave you when you meet someone he likes in the future. Of course, for someone who likes you, you still need to spend some time trying to please him, because it's like dating and romantic.

42. You are often asked to choose between friends and lovers, which one would you choose? In fact, this question is superfluous. A friend or lover who truly understands you will be considerate of your behavior. If they don't understand you, don't worry too much about losing them. Friends or lovers should help each other, not give in.

43. Once the sea was difficult for water, it was always amber. But what if I didn't cross the sea or just turned a corner in the sea when I came back, and I haven't been to Wushan before?

44. What is romance? Is it a flower? Walking in the rain? Can't you stand in front of the building? If two people fall in love and do nothing, the quiet opposite will feel very romantic. Otherwise, even if two people sit on the moon for a date, they won't feel romantic.

It doesn't matter whether it is appropriate or not, the most important thing is to be interested, otherwise you will still feel lonely even if you don't have the same language.

46. Learn to look at each other with understanding and appreciation, instead of taking care of each other with self-righteousness.

47. There is nothing wrong with naive people, and neither is there anything wrong with mature people. Mature people and naive people have more problems.

48. Some women let their boyfriends spoil them when they are in love. After marriage, they still want their husbands to pamper themselves in every way, but forget to do what a woman should do. Such a woman doesn't know love.

49. Lasting love comes from true love in each other's hearts and is based on equality. Anyone who only cares about crazy love and doesn't care whether he is loved or not, or who only enjoys being loved and doesn't know true love, will not have a good ending.