After three years of long-distance relationship, the girl sent a message saying "Let's get married." What was the boy's answer?

01

On the day Xiao Yu sent him to the station, he bought a big bag of loquats. He said: "After four years of studying in this city, apart from you, it is the loquats here that I miss the most."

Xiao Yu's eyes were red. She handed the bag of loquats to him and said, "Now everything you like is in my hands."

He refused to go in, and Xiao Yu refused to leave. Xiao Yu used to see the separation scenes of couples at the station, and would think that they were too pretentious: "Why are you crying? It's just a break, it's not a farewell."

But that day, she cried more than anyone else. sharp. Xiao Yu later said that he really wanted to buy a bus ticket and go with him to the city where he grew up.

He was one year older than Xiao Yu. When he returned home after graduation, Xiao Yu was still in his junior year. He had been looking for a job in this city for some time, but it was always not going well, so he said to Xiao Yu: "I will go back first, and I will come back."

At that time, his His father found him a very good job with good prospects. He could go to work directly when he returned. At that time, they thought love was not that complicated.

He vowed: "When I make money, I will definitely buy a house here, or I can settle down here."

Xiao Yu said he would wait. Looking at him, she believed what he said.

But until Xiaoyu graduated from college a year later, he never came again. He was very busy at work, so during his senior year, Xiao Yu always took a car to visit him in his city.

Xiao Yu is reluctant to give up money. For a thirteen-hour train trip, she always buys an evening ticket.

Xiao Yu asked him: Does what you said still count? He glanced at Xiao Yu and nodded tiredly.

02

Since he agreed, Xiao Yu felt that since he worked so hard to make money, she had to go all out for this love.

However, something is slowly changing. After two years of long-distance relationship, the two had less and less contact. They used to chat until late every day, but later they felt they had nothing to talk about.

He usually only called Xiao Yu once a month. Xiao Yu had already discovered something was wrong, but he still couldn't believe it.

During that time, Xiao Yu often came to me and told me her concerns: her parents didn’t know she had a long-distance boyfriend, so they arranged a blind date for her. Xiao Yu refused to go and had a quarrel with her mother over this.

I asked Xiao Yu: "Why didn't you tell your parents?"

Xiao Yu lowered his head: "I'm not sure he will come over, so I don't dare to say it yet. They won't even agree."

At this point, her mood became even lower, and then asked: "Do you think he has already gone on a blind date?"

Without waiting for me to speak, she asked and answered herself: "Probably not."

She often discussed this issue with me, and in the end we came to the same conclusion: The two of them can still walk now The probability of getting together is slim, so let's break up.

Xiao Yu thought for a long time and said sadly: "Yes, I think so too. I will tell him when I get back to break up."

Three months later, Xiao Yu He asked me to climb the mountain again, and I asked: "How are you and him now?"

Yes, they still haven't broken up. On the day Xiao Yu decided to go back after breaking up, he called Xiao Yu. Xiao Yu thought: "He took the initiative to call me, so he still likes me, right?"

With this thought, Xiao Yu could no longer say anything about breaking up. She didn't say it, and neither did the other party, but the contact between the two became even less frequent after that.

03

Xiao Yu has told me no less than ten times about Xiao Yu’s acquaintance with him. It was when he was a freshman, the school held a sports meeting, and he took the initiative to ask Xiao Yu for his contact information. That year Xiao Yu was a freshman and he was a sophomore.

Xiao Yu never thought they would be together because he was too ugly. After chatting for a long time, the two of them got along very well, so Xiao Yu agreed to have dinner with him.

When they met for the second time, Xiao Yu saw him walking from a distance and felt that he was fatter and uglier after not seeing him for two months.

So, when Xiao Yu told us that she was single for the first time, everyone wanted to see the photos first. Xiao Yu would first say silently: "He is really ugly. Please do it before showing it to you." Be mentally prepared."

Later we saw him in person, and it was indeed as Xiao Yu described, very fat and not good-looking. But Xiao Yu likes him, so none of this matters.

Xiao Yu said that she liked his humor and kindness, so in the subsequent long-distance relationship, she never believed that he would lie to her.

After three years away from home, Xiao Yu’s mother urged her to go on blind dates more frequently. Her mother’s colleague introduced her to a boy who was good in all aspects, but Xiao Yu refused to go. She quarreled with her mother again.

Xiao Yu said: "I have a boyfriend!"

After asking her mother carefully, she found out that they were in a different place. Xiaoyu was busy with work after graduating from university and had no time to look for him. The two had not seen each other for two years.

They still chat occasionally, and the topics are thin and short-lived, but Xiao Yu believes that as long as they don't break up, they are still a couple.

So, when they were in a long-distance relationship for three years, Xiao Yu sent him a text message and said: "Let's get married!"

A year ago, Xiao Yu told her that he was being pressured to get married by his family. , he replied: "As long as you say a word, I will come over immediately to propose marriage!" But Xiao Yu remembered that he said that he would come to live in his city.

She was the only daughter in the family, so she hesitated. Now she didn't want to hesitate anymore. After saying this, Xiao Yu waited for his text message. If he could still reply to her like he did a year ago, she would go to his city!

After waiting for a long time, three words came back: "I'm sorry!" Xiao Yu was dumbfounded and was stunned for a long time, but then he felt that this should be expected.

Xiao Yu never looked for him again, so he stopped looking for Xiao Yu. No one said they broke up, but Xiao Yu no longer said they were a couple. No more contact, for them in different places, it is a separation.

One month later, Xiaoyu deleted all his contact information.

That day, while riding the high-speed train with Xiao Yu, I met a couple parting ways. They looked at each other through the glass. They both looked at each other speechless and could only burst into tears.

Xiao Yu looked at it for a while and suddenly said: "I kind of want to eat loquats."