How to refuse to share a washing machine with your roommate

After work, the company let the three of us share a dormitory. Both roommates are well-off and well-off. But when I suggested that the three of us should chip in to buy a washing machine (the dormitory is small and can only hold two), I politely refused (washing clothes dirty, wearing white clothes and washing by hand is enough). So I decided to buy one myself and said, it's winter. If you want to change your coat, you can put it in my washing machine.

Unexpectedly, on the first night when the washing machine was installed, they asked me if I had any faded clothes, and the three of us washed them together. Those clothes are still the clothes we have accumulated for two days without washing. God, I started washing clothes myself after I took a shower. I didn't expect that after I finished washing, they began to consciously wash their own clothes.

I feel a little uncomfortable. After all, the installation cost is 200 yuan, and the subsequent washing bucket cleaning agent has to be bought by yourself. Maintenance is mine, too At first they said the washing machine was dispensable, but now it's not a slap in the face!

Now, please give me a suggestion on how to politely refuse them to use my washing machine.

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A friend gave it to me. I said we have a washing machine, but I use it every day. In summer, I wash clothes with my washing machine. I am far less used than her, and I am very unhappy.

19/08/23

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By the way, my new roommate is coming soon. I don't want to hurt my feelings or share the washing machine. I can borrow other refrigerators I baked. They just don't want to borrow the washing machine.

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Usually people only pay attention to the huge benefits brought by the traffic behind the live broadcasters, but ignore the meticulous and cumbersome preparations they have made behind them. Strange things happen at this time. I found that Yang Fang's records stopped 17 days ago. But I clearly remember that her fans said that she was still broadcasting live until the day before she disappeared. This is a bit unusual. Judging from the continuity of the recording, the live broadcast of Yang Fang's recording was not interrupted. It can be seen that she is still very serious at this point and has a persistent toughness. This makes her lack of records during this period seem a bit strange. I have a feeling that I have found a good starting point. So I quickly gathered a few fans to follow up and understand the situation. Several fans look very excited. After all, they are all audience in a studio and have never met each other. I cut to the chase in a seemingly small talk and gradually learned something interesting. For example, almost at the same time that the record disappeared, Yang Fang in the studio had some subtle changes. In the words of fans, he became "a lot impetuous and a little perfunctory when eating and broadcasting". This is obviously a powder-dropping move, and Yang Fang is obviously aware of it, because a few days later, with the reduction of the number of exceptional people and the dissatisfaction of the audience, this situation has been improved, and Yang Fang has gradually returned to normal. I don't know what happened to Yang Fang these days. But obviously, this influence is not big enough for her to give up the live broadcast. So, during this time, what happened? Although I made a huge question mark, this conversation didn't stop there. My idea has been confirmed. Wearing a mask and still hiding half of her face in front of us behind her guitar seems to increase Yang Fang's mystery, make fans pay more attention to eating, but pay more attention and deepen their fascination with those peristalsis lips. "It's hard for us to tell whether we are coveting those delicious foods or wriggling our lips in front of the camera. A fan said obsessively. On the other side of the sewer DNA, there is nothing valuable in the property of the community. Apart from two sewer cleaning projects and several dog disputes, records show that nothing noteworthy has happened recently. However, I have a great interest in these situations that people take for granted, and the frightening guess in my heart is still churning, almost fidgeting. Interpol intuition is sometimes a mysterious thing, just like a woman's sixth sense, which is inexplicable but accurate and keen. 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