How to say hello to network big V?

Last week, I sent an article "How to Communicate with Experts", and the children's shoes with strong execution were put into practice immediately. Later, he came to me with a sad face. Teacher Sun, your method is useless. I sent a message to big V for help, but people simply ignored me.

I took his cell phone in doubt. You can tell at a glance what the problem is.

Since I became Qian V, there have been more private messages and WeChat for various consultations and help, but I found a problem:

Many people don't know how to greet people online.

I received various greetings as follows:

1, Hi. Hello. Are you there? Hello? Are you online?

Sorry, I'm not here. For a person without friendship, there seems to be nothing to say about business. If it is not really boring, there is really no motivation to respond.

2, all kinds of facial expressions: (smiling face) (crying face) (depressed face) (coffee) (rose) (sprouting all kinds of animals)

What is this? Fight expression pack? I don't know if Mr. Sun is the queen of middle-aged and elderly expression packs? Too young and too simple, sometimes na? Ve…… ................................................................................................................................................................................

3. Good friend, how are you recently? Beauty, I'm coming! Honey, what are you doing?

Come on, we don't know each other that well. There is nothing to please, either rape or theft. The most optimistic estimate is to do insurance or WeChat business. Forget it, turn it off!

4. Hello, I'm XXX. Something happened to me, blablabla. What do you think of this?

After all, did I eat your big rice or white steamed bun? Are you asking questions in a natural way? No honorifics, no thanks, no basic manners. Who is interested in helping you?

Once, a sister in Zhihu sent me a similar private letter, which I ignored. Soon, I received her second private letter, "I feel deep malice from this world." Damn, what I owe you didn't help you, did it? !

Then the question is coming:

How to say hello correctly and appropriately and get the greatest possible response?

1, say it all at once

For people who don't know each other very well, people tend to be wary, fearing that once they talk, the other party will make unpleasant and difficult demands. Therefore, you "hi" people are afraid to take over. Why don't you write all your requirements at once? Maybe people will feel relieved after reading it. Oh, it's easy to do. Give him a message.

2. Explain clearly the connection between you and me.

Many people will introduce themselves. I am XXX, but whether you are Kevin or Tony is just a symbol to me. You must tell me the connection between us. For example, I was introduced by XXX, and I read your article. Last time I had dinner, I added WeChat. The feeling of knowing the root causes people to be less alert and more willing to communicate.

3. Briefly explain the reasons;

Don't write many things that can be made clear in a few words, and don't write many personal feelings that can be described rationally and objectively. Everyone's time is precious, and there is no time to summarize the theme from a lot of nonsense.

4. Necessary compliments:

Humans are more helpful when they are in a good mood. So, what is the easiest way to make people feel happy? Praise him! Get him! Kiss up! Will a good word drop a piece of meat?

5. Politeness can never be excessive:

Have a proper title at the beginning, and try to use honorifics, such as you, please, excuse me, trouble, can you, etc. It's over. Be sure to thank you.

Let me show you a perfect example:

"Hello, Miss Sun, I'm Helen. I read your article "How to communicate with senior people" in the work secret. I think it was well written and gained a lot. I'm a post-90s generation, and I just started to do government public relations recently. In the face of some post-70s leaders, I always feel speechless. Is it convenient for you to give me some comments and suggestions? Thank you very much! "

This request is so comfortable that you can't wait to give her a 500-word reply at once.

Have you learned any other children's shoes? Maybe you can try to say hello to me in the comments and see if I can reply to you?