I have retired and live in a natural village with a 40-year-old woman with a family. I have a good relationship. Recently, she often sends messages saying that she misses me. Is this normal?

At present, many family problems, the root of all problems, don't understand their own position, so they don't know how to deal with family problems, and even always find fault with others, thinking that they are right, which leads to communication difficulties. The contradiction between grievances and grievances against violence for a long time is very prominent.

In fact, it is not difficult to solve family problems. Everyone looks for problems from themselves. It's easy to solve the problem and then go your own way. The following is how to build a good and harmonious family to cultivate the next generation.

The old man is immoral and the plague is unfilial to his children, which is not a kind of happiness and male ambition, including in fashion, women are not soft and get rid of finance.

The family tradition advocated by the elderly, the tradition that parents should show to the family, the family tradition that husband and wife are the masters, the family tradition that children should inherit, the family tradition that grandchildren should smooth out, and the competition between brothers and sisters is more than the family tradition.

The world of morality and law is personal law. If we break the law, people will be hurt.

As the saying goes, the preface has everything. The prosperity of a small country, social harmony, personal happiness, physical health and career prosperity all depend on a harmonious family.

This book is a compilation of quotations from educators and Mr. Shi for many years, and it is the essence of the works and speeches of famous peasant thinkers in modern China. It is the unshirkable responsibility of everyone and others to use easy-to-understand language, morality and traditional Confucianism in the family, calling on everyone to go their own way, perform their duties and be the basic principle of family harmony. What is harmony? Harmony is mutual comity. This kind of family ethics, we can only control ourselves, reflect on our family relationship under control, and blame the people around us, which will definitely backfire. For the children in the family, we should know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful. Parents who "don't care about other people's good is only their right", regardless of their filial children, look at their good "regardless of their parents' good, but look at their filial piety", so that people can live in harmony. In today's harmonious society where families are United and harmonious, this book can earn a lot of income for you and your family.

Only virtue, no Tao, no virtue, no virtue and happiness, no happiness. Old theory

1, the old man is a star, with virtue as the root. "Virtue" means fighting more peace.

2. Old people are like ashes, in mild anger. They talk little, don't nag, and don't talk. Every family has its own problems, and it has certain advantages to be a leader, and all the pockets are houses.

3, given by Crawford, the so-called sex ash is medium thick.

4. Be content and enjoy your destiny at home. Inherit the family tradition, praise Zude, and educate future generations to know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful.

5, mind your own business, don't worry too much about children and grandchildren, children have their own children and grandchildren.

6, children's problems, don't interfere, let go of the younger generation, don't let go of the veteran.

7, family, the behavior of the elderly loopholes. It is too much to do one's duty.

8, family problems, the mental health and shame of the elderly: my old man did not do well, an evil place, no tutor.

9. At home, no matter who is at fault, no matter what disaster or right and wrong, you can't publicize your own family's ugliness.

10, to establish a view of right and wrong is incorrect and wrong. We don't advocate right and wrong, we don't listen to right and wrong, and we are not afraid of right and wrong. Reconcile the right and wrong of raw materials, or that the elderly are evil.

1 1, whether developed or not, grandchildren will not thrive, which is directly related to the old people in the classroom. The descendants of benign elderly people are prosperous, and the evil epidemic of the elderly, including fashion, is declining.

12, how to make an old man who is proud of the spring breeze fail? Things, accumulate yin and virtue. On the one hand, impunity in Xiu De, on the other hand, is rooted in the cultivation of future generations.

13, the old man propped up Crawford's wealth creation. Crawford generation rewards the prosperity of each generation; Children and grandchildren are powerful, and you have virtue, otherwise, it is virtue.

14, the old man, like the earth, silently bears everything and embraces the origin of everything. In the hearts of the elderly, family wealth.

15, the love of old people's lovers, the reproduction of family descendants. If the old man is greedy, complete all the blessings of the family.

16, the morality of the elderly is the best feng shui, and feng shui is the highest.

Parent Road (Middle-aged Road)

1, lucky star day, Qinggen. The family enjoys its own responsibilities, which is for the benefit.

2. Respect and care for children, be grateful for everything from top to bottom, and have a harmonious family.

3, advocate the advantages of the children of the elderly, our ancestors, be an example of respecting the elderly and filial sons, and be grateful for the kindness of the predecessors to enlighten future generations.

4. You don't arrange for the elderly to do things. You do whatever they like, but take care of the elderly and often advise them to have more rest.

5. At the beginning of the relationship between parents and people, the way of Yin and Yang is the mother of Yin and the father of Yang. Nourishing yin and strengthening yang Yang Can is a child born of all things, with disharmony between Yin and Yang, mental pain, unwilling to give in, or some bad nature, or lack of children.

6. Parents are children's first teachers and families are children's first schools.

7. Whether the child is healthy has a lot to do with his mother and whether it is the wisdom of his father. Lane Crawford solemnly looked at whether parents often had a happy love life.

8. Children are disobedient and unfilial. We must first ask ourselves whether we are filial to the elderly and whether we have done something wrong. Recognizing that parents (old people) are not advantages (children), education is not in place.

9, starting from understanding children, such fruit acid, fruit acid roots work hard. ....../& gt； 10, don't resent your children, let alone be scolded, because the parents in the children's hearts consider whether their education is at fault for their success or failure.

1 1, five simple ways to educate children: support, education, religion, collar, collar, but control is allowed. We should pay attention to moral education.

12, "management" means that parents let their temper go, find their children's mistakes and refuse to accept his temper. They tend to manage more, and because of the child's temper, management is not the only bad thing, on the contrary, and the child's temper is caused by sexual contact, even if Cheng and his son don't understand their parents.

13, the child is out of control and judged by virtue. Understand his character, cut small branches, leave big branches charming, don't drown, don't hit people, don't swear, encourage him a few times more, and certainly have less criticism and no material temptation.

14, righteousness first, parents get rid of temperament for the first time and protect nature. Knowing how to deny yourself can educate children. Regardless of filial piety to your son and daughter, ask yourself if you are kind.

15, children, society, heaven and earth. Children's poor teaching, small family, great influence on society, negative gratitude.

The world of lover's road is a great responsibility for children's education.

Love is the root of husband and wife's family.

2. It is fundamental to establish love for the whole family. Love and no love can not establish a family, which is the primary condition of the family.

3, destined to love a person, we must first understand other parts. Sake is part of the enlightenment to improve the other party's responsibility. If you don't bind each other's freedom, you should give them happiness and shouldn't give them other troubles. Think of each other and understand each other's body and mind.

4. The standard of love. Selfless love, feeling that love has no framework (price), universal love, unconditional and unbiased true love.

Love selflessness: respect each other and don't give you any trouble.

I feel that love does not stand (price): I don't raise my position and don't like trading. Understand other benefits, praise other benefits, it is difficult to understand each other and forgive each other. If the other party can enlighten and guide the other party to change. BR/>； Universal love is unconditional: no matter who you are, don't bind each other and give them the right to freedom.

True love is unbiased: true believers do not doubt, do not doubt. BR/>； Being able to do this will be everything.

5. The harmony of loving the Lord comes from harmony. Without love, it is impossible to build a harmonious family.

6. Three reasons for the combination of husband and wife: one is to take care of each other with life, and the other is to improve the family and carry on the family line, leaving a good root for the world; Third, in order to take better care of both parents, the elderly are at ease and happy.

7, between husband and wife, to be a trap together, rather than blaming each other.

This is her husband's business, but he forgot to do it. His wife doesn't complain, but she should do it seriously. On the other hand, her husband is also like this, and the rest can be left blank. This is a trap.

9. After marriage, if a man and a woman can't find a way and don't be filial to their parents, legally, Titanium's brothers and sisters are very kind and filial to their children, and the old people are not at ease. In Germany, married women can't help their husbands to honor their parents, which makes the elderly feel uneasy.

10, the husband takes care of his father-in-law, and the wife takes care of her grandparents. For example, when an old man buys something, his son should go to his father-in-law in person and his daughter-in-law should give it to his parents-in-law in person.

1 1, men and women have equal rights, equality and etiquette, but they are absolutely unequal.

12, men and women with obligations and responsibilities, yin and yang, dribs and drabs. Man is the center of integrity; A soft-hearted woman. "As long as it's not about action (tempering)", "it's right. Gender, such as "softness" and "harmony" of water should be reasonable. Therefore, righteousness means softness and softness. Although the terms are different, the spirit is the same.

13, the troubles of husband and wife, the favor opposite, and the feelings entrusted by parents opposite to heaven and earth; What's interesting is that they are girls. Liability for breach of contract, karma for life and loss of life all depend on positive quotation. The couple live separately.

Road 14, husband and wife, is a road of yin and yang, women living in Cardiff can not give each other, not only will not get sick, but also will not die young. Kianna, son Sun Wang. Therefore, a woman's way is a woman's way, a man's way and a happy family.

15, (naturally) together, heart together, body cooperation. This couple is really harmonious.

16, the couple's mutual gratitude in the cheese industry, people never complain. The expected industrial couple are very happy. The husband leads his wife to prosperity, and the wife helps her husband to Germany. They never get angry. Etiquette lovers of heart-bound couples, friends under the jurisdiction of each other! Couples in the car body industry beat couples and disturb their lives.

Husband road

Men keep their word, one is one, the other is two, and they do what they say.

2, I don't want to talk, talking without dignity doesn't count.

3. Men are Yang and Yang is selfless. An expression of selfless love.

4, selfish, secretly doing things that violate conscience, therefore, the troubles of the whole family, this is not a good person.

5. Men should be "fair". As long as you don't swear, a man who hits or curses is incompetent.

6. "Justice" means not only not to fight or scold, but also not to answer or refute. As a fixed thing, scolding is just a fluid (tempering). Depending on prosperity or adversity, he is comfortable and safe, so this is the real man.

7. Three-husband coward, violent husband, husband's man.

8. A coward is called a coward and can't afford a family. The slave said, don't do this, for fear of pushing the woman who plays with things to the front desk and listening to the woman's command.

9. It is unreasonable for a violent husband to play curses. I don't understand my responsibility, so I dare not do bad things.

10, her husband, dares to assume the responsibility of reasoning, fails, and it is his turn to be ashamed of his inner health.

On June 1 1 day, the husband and the tribe got used to the body contour from three key positions, namely, sexual rigidity, mental rigidity, fixed configuration of body contour (tempering), sexual rigidity and unbearable selfishness. The anger just fell, the curse just fell, and the physics of hitting people fell. Being led by the Gang of Four means that women have to be led down the red carpet to be filial to their children.

12, men are the pillars of society, and only with reasonable ambition can you get a wife.

13, if a man loses a family disaster, if this man can't make some family troubles.

Wives road

A woman is the mother of a country, a woman's home and a wife's man.

2. A woman should have a soft and quiet smile and a welcome smile.

3, the hydrosphere is around, or the five tones remain unchanged, and the original quality remains unchanged. Follow the crowd, rich or poor, can be high or low, water can improve competition, not everything, at the bottom, everything in the future is often not the responsibility of women.

4. An eventful woman and a silent man, the woman is not soft and the family wealth is not too busy.

5, not just violence, not impatient, not talkative, not worried about men. A husband who should help is a husband who is not tired.

6, a wife, because a little help "three first tribes from Cardiff to Germany." From "the truth of the mind comes from heaven, the rationality of the body." What is a "reasonable" body? What should I do? Those who do this should be filial to their parents, in-laws and sisters. Children under legal age should learn all the components. Huo Yuanjia is in trouble. No anger, no complaints, no regrets. "Inner truth" refers to removing the interference of selfishness and greed. Think about how to repay the old man. Sisters are in the law, how to teach children? Feel the affordable family harmony, and things you do naturally converge everywhere. "falling from the sky." : It is mainly the fixed courage, but also the temperament of drug prevention. It is natural and only benign.

7. One woman and three women: a shrew, a weak woman and a daughter-in-law.

8. Women are just storm managers, mentally oppressed people, and it is difficult to talk like thunder. They cover the sky with one hand and curse the mother with the other. In a fragile family, the husband will age prematurely,

9. Women do nothing but depend on their husbands and parents. Even if you die prematurely, the child born is useless. The so-called weak woman.

10, lazy woman, complaining is a jinx, bitch and weak woman are wives.

1 1, daughter-in-law means to calm down and live in an auspicious messenger, a blessing, complete equality and natural atmosphere.

12, when I was a daughter-in-law, water, for example, was very satisfying, which meant that the roots and sexuality supported a complete family, to be fair. Assixing, a filial parent, sister, son-in-law, son and daughter helped her husband go to Germany. The husband has no worries, serves the society and maintains the reputation of the sidewalk. He is not only a real politician, but also a social worker, who abides by his duty and makes due contributions. It takes a long time to enjoy Fluke. /& gt； 13, whether the family is good, whether it is quiet and prosperous, and whether the role of the wife is very important. Women can be wives, children will be blessed, and husbands can help happy families in Germany.

The road of law

1, the family law comes from different surnames, the mother and daughter of the same family.

2. Tao and goodness coexist and can be used as life.

3, unqualified Taoist disharmony, traumatic separation of housework, family disintegration, including in fashion.

When she was a mother-in-law, her daughter-in-law was away for many years, waiting for her married daughter, her mother and the Sino-French lunch box. A girl with a daughter-in-law, an unmarried mother's house, and a daughter-in-law who has lunch.

5. Mother-in-law is early and knows everything. Daughter-in-law is late, and everything is completely understood. The daughter of the mother law has embarked on the legal track, and I don't know if she is the daughter of a daughter-in-law. Tell her, guide her and stand in doubt.

6. It turns out that if the wife is a healthy mother in law, how can she have a good impression if she doesn't know the law first, Mr. Yang is weak, or controls her temper with great pressure, and speaks purely because of the law?

7. Every family should consider that when a daughter marries into this family, her mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law and her daughter. If she can't do this, her future daughter-in-law will use the same method to form a vicious circle.

This daughter often says that her advantages are attributed to her family education. If the daughter-in-law is wrong, mom will be patient and leave her opinions behind. She will naturally be grateful to the law and appreciate it.

As a daughter-in-law, a husband who loves himself must love his in-laws. It is understood that there is no law without a dear husband. This hardworking and compassionate former mother-in-law gave herself before her son came of age. You can't let your mother-in-law suffer any more, you can't tell her to do things, and you can't be disgusted with her words and deeds.

10, wife is filial to parents. As the ancients said, life is twice that of parents. Therefore, both parents must be treated equally.

1 1, I like to be respectful when I am in love. A mother-in-law who will definitely get a loving heart. Understand the old man's heart, follow the old man's wishes and make a way.

12, it is wise to be a daughter-in-law: in-laws are a real blessing. Being an old man, hating the old man, refusing to be filial to the old man, just don't want to reward yourself, there is no good karma. BR/>； 13, legally unfilial to her, planting, due to the filial piety of her son and daughter until the child grows up, will also be affected.

14, one of the roots is that parents should be lush, fragrant and sweet, treat the roots, fertilize, water and loosen the soil.

15, family harmony, for the sake of her husband's precious son, it is necessary for her parents-in-law to teach Wang Tian to develop herbal cream, gel or rich flowers for a long time.

University road does not ask others, but asks for self-improvement!

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1。 Your children are the stars in the sky and the roots of filial piety.

2, children, young, life is difficult, help parents, the most important thing is that parents worry less about their parents, which is the greatest gratitude in the world. A blog dedicated to filial piety to parents' body and mind when they grow up.

3。 As a child, you should be filial to your mission. Inherit ancestors, carry forward family traditions, and aspire to surpass their predecessors.

4。 In order to meet the material needs of the elderly, this is a good obligation, not too filial. Filial piety is the real filial piety. Parents can rest assured that they will not give their parents any trouble and have never seen their parents.

/& gt； 5。 "Shun", parents are ordained, making parents happy and at ease. Even if parents are obviously wrong, they are not contradictory faces. Parents, parents not only didn't complain, but also made things perfect with their parents and asked them to set traps.

6。 Parents and children can capture it. For them, this is really one of your stars. Blind obedience will inevitably lead to injustice, and filial piety is not true.

7。 In this respect, our life is equal to the doomed life. Well, you ruined your own destiny by playing with good luck. Sadness and painful achievements, in which you hone your reasons, your own karma. The same gratitude, gratitude.

8。 Our parents are not kind, but they demand filial piety.

9。 Be filial, from heart to body. Is it unfilial, insincere, and unfilial? To be truly filial, we must clear the three realms.

10。 "Filial piety is pervasive. "Must" refers to gender, body and mind, and filial piety institutions should pay attention to the food, clothing, housing and transportation of physical adoptive parents. Filial piety is the heart of parents all over the world. I like what my parents love; What I am close to, what I pursue, should be respect for those who kiss me. The project is filial to the nature and happiness of the elderly, facing the sadness of action, not the matter of the elderly and grandchildren, and it is a happy year.

1 1。 Filial piety: Li Xiao respects and understands the elderly, and filial piety is trying to provide physiological needs for parents; Forgiving parents' filial piety is the greatest filial piety.

12。 Clothes for parents, parents who are filial to their preferences, parents who feel ambitious, and bachelors who keep their parents safe and happy will get married sooner or later. Happiness is not what our parents care about, it is the boundary of filial piety.

13。 Children who are unfilial cannot be blessed. Complaining that the family is poor will widen the gap.

14。 Filial piety, parents naturally live long; Children who don't filial their parents to live a long life and then give their parents a lifetime of disaster become black sheep.

15。 Old people living alone can feel at ease and be happy. As a dying filial old man, his serene smile is the end of filial piety.

BR/>； Brothers and sisters:

1。 Brothers and sisters are a rich star, rooted in righteousness.

2。 "Yi" unconditionally helps, and all expenses are self-care. When a person is in trouble, others should help in situ, which is a good condition and should try to help the poor.

3。 Mongolian filial piety is gray, and weak and helpless brothers and sisters cannot love each other. Parents must be worried and not satisfied. Therefore, to be filial to parents, we must be harmonious brothers and sisters.

4。 Brothers and sisters, brothers, respect each other, sympathize with each other, help each other and frame each other.

5。 With the help of my brothers and sisters, I know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful.

6。 Brothers are half parents. Parents should set an example, help their parents and their careers, and help them improve everything. Parents' blog, Zu Xiande.

7。 Brother's brother. Parents take care of their younger brothers and sisters.

8。 When brothers and sisters should have brothers as elders, brothers can't make up for his position.

9。 No gossip, no accusations against parents and brothers.

10。 Lively and frugal, don't hesitate to order, that is to say, when you do something.

1 1。 The heart of home and country, the virtue of learning, carry forward the fine family style. If we can do this, it will flourish in a period of time.

12。 After that, he got married and made a wealth comparison, comparing with the family tradition, with a ratio of 1.

13。 Brothers and sisters, not property, compete with each other, not because whose bride is injured, but because the word "body" involves filial piety. It is against the sky to hurt hands and feet, and it will be punished one day. The girl said:

Women are the source of the world, the countries in the world are good, the social family is good, and the girls who should perish are good.

2。 Be a good girl, an understandable girl.

3。 This girl is the root of your mark, and her sex is like cotton, which fills the room with stars.

4。 In order to commemorate this root, we are not greedy and resolute, and we must take good care of our parents, brothers and sisters, and Wang Nan's niece and nephew.

5。 Attributes, such as cotton, such as cotton white, self-discipline, soft as cotton, patience, no temper;

6。 If cotton is warm, others will not be indifferent, if cotton is long, they will not quit the blog.

7。 Everything is done without being chosen, such as cotton's heart of truth, that is, sex, which is no different.

8。 The girl's house is half the main force and half the trash can. Everyone knows the benefits of family and music, which can improve people's spirit and harmony.

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9。 None of the laws encountered by the girls' harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been persuaded by both sides.

Before, his mother said that the benefits of her sister-in-law comforted her physically and mentally before the law, and the law mentioned the benefits of her sister-in-law.

10。 Filial piety, done in front of my mother, has been tried on my elder sister-in-law's titanium road and brought joy at home.

1 1。 If you talk too much, not only do you not know, but you don't calm down right and wrong. Instead, it expands into a non-traumatic and extremely chaotic family, and people are ready to go home.

12。 At home, a kind girl and an excellent unmarried daughter-in-law will certainly help her husband to be enlightened, respect her husband, live in harmony with her siblings, honor her parents and be happy in her family. It is really a lucky star.

13。 Later, when she had children, her adopted son became famous and naturally became a good mother.

14。 I will always be a lucky star with an old lady's pocket full of rooms.

15。 The girl said that she could do it. So, this is Yuan Qing.

16。 When you are a girl, you should exercise your daughter-in-law's understanding in advance, so as to grasp a happy marriage in the future.

17。 Daughters whose parents are flesh and blood are mostly very harmonious. Their speech and behavior are free and unconstrained. Coupled with the natural woman's weak self-control, it is inevitable to rely on her parents to spoil. Parents can't stand Daphne's claim that she always listens to her when things happen, and it is inevitable that she will make demands. They come from Italy, full of flowers and do more. After marriage, he is still a recognized idle habit, which will inevitably lead to family conflicts and his own great pain. Therefore, a daughter must first understand the road service Wenggu in front of her parents.

18。 A girl in her family, financially, is irresponsible. If she worships and enjoys luxurious living habits, she will set up her own homepage and assume absolute or relative responsibilities for the family economy. But because his habit of extravagance and waste remains unchanged, it will definitely lead to family conflicts and pain. Therefore, in this period, girls should develop simple living habits, cultivate the virtue of thrift and establish the cornerstone of a happy family.

19。 When you are a girl, you should practice housekeeping. Such as economic domination, household management, children's education and guidance. After marriage, they must face and bear it, but they also avoid their responsibilities, such as being blindly lazy, and their parents letting themselves be biased, and it will be (girls) themselves who will suffer.

The friend said:

Friends, synonymous friends and his comrades.

2。 Gentlemen and moral villains have the right to make friends.

3。 Good regulation is a kind of moral friendship, and a gentleman's friendship focuses on snobbish wine and meat, which is conducive to making friends. Once the friend count is over, a little friend will make friends.

4。 Benefit is the definition of disadvantage, snobbish friend, I hope it's not the last one.

5。 As the saying goes, "near Zhu Chi, near darkness", so we should be close to good friends of benevolence, righteousness and morality, and stay away from bad friends who only know how to spend money.

6。 With friends, those who choose good ones will benefit from the improvement of the poor and will be able to have friends instead of suffering.

7。 Chaos, regardless of good or evil, right or wrong, will be tired of friends if you go with the flow.

8。 The correct way is not the fatigue of friends, but the change of Zhao Yi. We should not only correct our friends, but also maintain the moral level with our best friends.

9。 Responsible friends, but responsible friends are enough, or happy friends have no music. The number of friends Shu Shu carries with him.

10。 I hope Mr. Wang will correct his behavior, be convincing and keep his word.

1 1。 Music enemies and friends who have heard of anger and fame; Smell the reputation of fear of literary heart, and become blind by solving the disability.

12。 It is very important for friends to keep opposite directions and give each other proper space.